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As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by xin5: 6:18pm On Jun 02, 2023
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money at hand, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get.
Too much inheritance, including what they inherited from their own parents in different state and locations, that's all mine. Sometimes I don't know if I can take care of everything.
I already know the ones I put up for sale like my maternal grandmother side we rarely visit there.I have so many future plans, but wouldn't want to sound like I'm praying for my parents death. I love them so much but as a growing man I have to plan now.
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by HacheNoire: 6:20pm On Jun 02, 2023
Be patient and don’t count your eggs yet.

I have seen wives and kids turn up after a man’s death.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Ahmed0336(m): 6:20pm On Jun 02, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get
I am not wishing you bad but have you ever asked yourself "what if you first them delete?" grin

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:20pm On Jun 02, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time.
Stop it please, this will make you complacent. This is not how to live life

Come out out of your comfort zone, challenge yourself

Set goals for yourself.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by faithfull18(f): 6:25pm On Jun 02, 2023
Lol, it's the comments for me😁

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by FeelGoodAlways(m): 6:25pm On Jun 02, 2023
What about your goal? Dont you aim to achieve them? Or you don't have any?

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Fisiryorh(m): 6:26pm On Jun 02, 2023
MUMU, no go find way take get your own properties....

Na until your old man will all em property give cat, na it your small eyes go open wella... undecided

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by solmusdesigns: 6:29pm On Jun 02, 2023
🤭


Go and learn business administration or real estate management

You are lucky and you must be smart with your luck


.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by dahmie2013: 6:30pm On Jun 02, 2023
Even Davido never thought like this. Very appalling...

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Mindlog: 6:41pm On Jun 02, 2023
Na when man die, dem dey know how many pikin e born.😂😂😂

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Modifire(m): 6:44pm On Jun 02, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money at hand, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get.
Too much inheritance, including what they inherited from their own parents in different state and locations, that's all mine. Sometimes I don't know if I can take care of everything.
I already know the ones I put up for sale like my maternal grandmother side we rarely visit there.I have so many plans, but I wouldn't want you all to think I'm praying for my parents' death so I can inherit their property.
Mtchewww spoilt kid
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Wawelexy(m): 6:44pm On Jun 02, 2023
Na this Kain parents no dey quick die.... Queen Lizzy and prince Charles comes to mind...


Get out and hustle young man

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jun 02, 2023
Omo ale
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by JeffreyJunior: 6:47pm On Jun 02, 2023
If you can't create wealth, you will likely not be able to manage one created by someone else.

I'm an only son and may have some handsome inheritance as well but I don't relax like you do.

I advise that you start creating your own wealth unless you want your family's wealth to end with your generation.

That gluttons eat too much na when they see free food. They tend to eat decently when they cook the food themselves.

Shalom.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by henryligit: 7:01pm On Jun 02, 2023
OG go back 2 yr Bible
and read a history of dis men
Nebukadineze an
Jezibel

E..get why
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by YouandiAllofus: 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2023
VeeVeeMyLuv:

Stop it please, this will make you complacent. This is not how to live life

Come out out of your comfort zone, challenge yourself

Set challenges for yourself.
"Challenge yourself, set challenges for yourself". Really? Who does that? You are struggling to make sense

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2023
YouandiAllofus:
"Challenge yourself, set challenges for yourself". Really? Who does that? You are struggling to make sense
I was referring to setting of goals to achieve
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by YouandiAllofus: 7:07pm On Jun 02, 2023
JeffreyJunior:
If you can't create wealth, you will likely not be able to manage one created by someone else.

I'm an only son and may have some handsome inheritance as well but I don't relax like you do.

I advise that you start creating your own wealth unless you want your family's wealth to end with your generation.

That gluttons eat too much na when they see free food. They tend to eat decently when they cook the food themselves.

Shalom.
. @op advise you should use

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by ahnie: 7:29pm On Jun 02, 2023
Smh
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Theama(m): 7:48pm On Jun 02, 2023
Don't forget to include God in your plans, learn from the parable of the rich fool.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by IkeIgboNiile(m): 9:22pm On Jun 02, 2023
Lol.....i understand how you feel but you have to hussle for yours. So you can add value to the properties that with be bequeathed to you.

My pop was use to drum it into me that his properties are his and i should look at them, that made me focus of getting my own properties.
My goal now is for him to see me become richer than he ever was while he's still here.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by WilsonBright935: 9:37pm On Jun 02, 2023
My people will say "ẹni tó jẹ ogún, kò dà bíi ẹni ogún gbè"..... OP don't really depend on the inheritance, try to build on the inheritance.
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jun 02, 2023
With this relaxed mentality, i see you squandering everything within a jiffy. It is a collective patrimony & heritage. Your parents laboured to add their own quota. Therefore, you need to work and add yours like your parents did.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by wunmi590(m): 10:14pm On Jun 02, 2023


So if your parent didn't work and they relaxed at home like you are doing now, do you think they would have acquired what they have now, that you want to feast on even when they are still alive?

You better go and work and learn how to spend and protect every kobo you legitimately earn...

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by frozen70(f): 10:18pm On Jun 02, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money at hand, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get.
Too much inheritance, including what they inherited from their own parents in different state and locations, that's all mine. Sometimes I don't know if I can take care of everything.
I already know the ones I put up for sale like my maternal grandmother side we rarely visit there.I have so many future plans, but wouldn't want to sound like I'm praying for my parents death. I love them so much but as a growing man I have to plan now.

From your write up, I doubt if you have any plans for yourself or any ambition

What you are after is what you are inheriting from your parents

I hope you know that he who buys lands, gives birth to a son who sells land

Dey play
Dont go and start planning on how to build yourself

When you get married, you will understand better
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by joshboss(m): 11:35pm On Jun 02, 2023
My gee sha carry me along. You know say I be your sure plug
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:57pm On Jun 02, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money at hand, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get.
Too much inheritance, including what they inherited from their own parents in different state and locations, that's all mine. Sometimes I don't know if I can take care of everything.
I already know the ones I put up for sale like my maternal grandmother side we rarely visit there.I have so many future plans, but wouldn't want to sound like I'm praying for my parents death. I love them so much but as a growing man I have to plan now.

you are in mature

those who usually inherit, blood and swear of others, without their achievement to show off usually end up blowing the inheritance simply because they lack the sense of budgeting and mananging things and are reckless becoz they never learnt fundermental through managing their own things
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by cococandy(f): 1:03am On Jun 03, 2023
Do you have sisters?
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by ferhyntorlah(f): 1:26am On Jun 03, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money at hand, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get.
Too much inheritance, including what they inherited from their own parents in different state and locations, that's all mine. Sometimes I don't know if I can take care of everything.
I already know the ones I put up for sale like my maternal grandmother side we rarely visit there.I have so many future plans, but wouldn't want to sound like I'm praying for my parents death. I love them so much but as a growing man I have to plan now.

Young man,

It's good you have parents who are comfortable and will eventually transfer their assets to you but you need to know that if you don't have the financial literacy to manage this assets, it will vanish ASAP.

So, I will advise you to use this opportunity to have a financial chit-chat with your parents to learn from them. Ask them the financial steps they took to achieve the level of financial comfort they are enjoying.

Read books on money management, asset management, personal finance management. In short, anything on personal finance.

The beauty of money is knowing how to multiply it and not spending it.

Money has invisible wings; if you don't tame it, it will fly the same way it came.

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Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by Bukky001(m): 1:54am On Jun 03, 2023
So you no see any of your parents properties to start your business, company or brand big....... They gave you a good platform for you to start and grow bigger... Don't disappoint them and your children
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by LikeAking: 1:56am On Jun 03, 2023
xin5:
I feel so relaxed about life generally. Even when I'm broke and I don't have the money at hand, I laugh because everything my parent own is all going to be mine in few years time. I don't bother them about money that much I just sit and enjoy the little I get.
Too much inheritance, including what they inherited from their own parents in different state and locations, that's all mine. Sometimes I don't know if I can take care of everything.
I already know the ones I put up for sale like my maternal grandmother side we rarely visit there.I have so many future plans, but wouldn't want to sound like I'm praying for my parents death. I love them so much but as a growing man I have to plan now.

Nice one...

Enjoy ya life..

Those advising him should know this, to make money is not by any struggle or hustle...

If e go be, e go be..

Allow OP..

Thise born into wealthy homes may jonz and jonz and still make big money.
Re: As An Only Son How I Feel Knowing A Great Pile Of Inheritance Waiting For Me by NoToPile: 2:02am On Jun 03, 2023
Only son among girls or only child which one?


I believe you have siblings, maybe they are girls and your culture permits you as only son to take all.

If you are from my side you are OYO except you are an only child then you can rest.

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