plat0:
Life is complicated, I don't think humans were designed to be happy. There's always something to worry about.

This your words strong o

007Marvel:
Smart woman! Didn't give the Nigerian standard reply of bashing unreasonably!

Let her pick a stance! She is confused hence her reply is inconsequential.

That woman (May) seems to face depression before now, but she's getting better, as for Yul, I don't know the color of his problem, you wife gave you 3 healthy boys and a beautiful girl, is that the best you can do for your beautiful family? You use your own hands to destroy what you have, where can I buy a big bunch of shame and give to Yul?

Righteousness2:
Yul has lost his peace. The Bible says there is no peace for the wicked.

My admonishment to him is that he should quit the social media show and all that.
There is enough opportunity to right the wrong.

He should make peace with his wife May Edochie.
Settle his Sin Partner and discharge her. She is not his wife. She is a Husband snatcher, Home robber and Home breaker.
Outside doing this, he is wasting his time and using his hands to dig disaster.
This is the Bitter truth

As for May Edochie, my Admonishment to you is don't keep silent, Don't give up .seek the Face of God in Prayers for your husband and your Home. Contend on your knees. From what I see, your husband is not with his Clear eyes. He seems to be under an influence.

Visit the Lord's Chosen and table the matter to the God of Chosen. Your husband must come back to his senses.

What happens to his son by the second wife if he is to follow your advice?

Marriage matters... How has social media helped marriages?

She's yet to forgive him

All I can say is as a man just make money because e get why...

VULCAN:
This is the result of dieting only on American TV without realising that US law is not valid in Nigeria.

Most of the judges in Nigeria are female yet they are not woke like the judges in US family court

I'm talking about what I know. And it happened HERE in Nigeria
I used to know a woman living close to my place.
Her husband committed infidelity, probably got another girl pregnant.
She went to court.
The judge granted her custody of the children, and RULED that he forfeits his house to the woman and the kids.
I think the judge also forbids him from being seen around the vicinity of the house, if I recall correctly. It's been some years now
The woman rented out the house and relocated to another state.
So, don't think everyone feeds on American TV as you wrongly asserted.
Shalom.

I love this. Very matured response, reasoning and writing.

festacman:
A powerful reply that came from both the head and heart. It has logic and emotion smoothly embedded. Being NUMBERED is the deal breaker.

In spite of all the braggadocio drama on Social Media, it looks like Yul Edochie is beginning to doubt if he made the right decision, by marrying a second wife instead of just taking responsibility of the child they had together. He is experiencing cognitive dissonance. Obviously, he underrated how his first wife would react. Perhaps he thought given that she loves him deeply, she would just flare up temporarily and then gradually calm down. Unfortunately, he has lost his wife and may lose his children as adults.

Here, May Edochie is saying that she won't be numbered in a relationship she invested her soul, heart and body to build for 18 f*cking years. She is telling Yul Edochie that he alone created this knot and it is up to him to untie it.

You even sure Yul Edochie is the real father of the second woman baby....

flexyrule:
Babe has made up her mind, and I respect her for that.

She don't wanna be a "numbered wife"

Yul f*cked up big time... Even though I ain't gonna throw a stone, cuz it's damn damn difficult sticking to one woman for donkey years.

A woman cannot find everything she desire in a man, in one man. Same with the man....

A woman might be good in the kitchen, top notch when it comes to relating with people, superbly neat and freaking smart, but terrible in bed...

Or she might be a ganster, a confamed nympho, but an empty brain that cannot impart a single knowledge in your kids..

In all this, understanding is the key. When you have that knowledge that nobody's perfect.. You have it all figured out.

Rumour has it that he did a DNA test and discovered he's not the father of the boy. The boy belongs to Judy's former husband. That's why he recently deleted all Judy's photo on his Instagram. And to an extent I think it's true.

Sooner or later the truth will be out. But Yul fcvked up big time.

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Astra101:

Let her pick a stance! She is confused hence her reply is inconsequential.

Bros, it looks like you're the confused one. Because her reply is clear and concise.

As a Christian, she doesn't hate him and has forgiven him since that's what her God calls for her to do.

She also doesn't want to be in a polygamous marriage as she's stated multiple times.

How is this so hard for you to understand?

I have a new found respect for this woman. You really are a woman after my heart. If you want all of me you need to come with all of you.

No be fight you can be father to our children without being a husband to me. I will not give my all to a man who decides to bring home a stray dog to invade my peace and still insist on holding on to the stray dog. Yul has to right the wrong or let May be and do her thing she is hurt already.


A part-time husband only deserves a part-time wife. MAY is checking out emotionally. May you find peace in the next chapter of your life no matter what form that takes.

CoronaVirusRelo:
When you have money, women going nowhere!

Imagine Yul and Davido were poor men! May and Chioma would have dumped their ass!

If you like, impregnate 50, they ain’t going anywhere!

Your assumptions is wrong! Go to the trenches and see women sticking to their husbands who have little or nothing. That assumptions that women only stick with you when you are affluent is wrong! There is even high divorce rate among the so called elites. Who want stay go stay!

Righteousness2:
Yul has lost his peace. The Bible says there is no peace for the wicked.

My admonishment to him is that he should quit the social media show and all that.
There is enough opportunity to right the wrong.

He should make peace with his wife May Edochie.
Settle his Sin Partner and discharge her. She is not his wife. She is a Husband snatcher, Home robber and Home breaker.
Outside doing this, he is wasting his time and using his hands to dig disaster.
This is the Bitter truth

As for May Edochie, my Admonishment to you is don't keep silent, Don't give up .seek the Face of God in Prayers for your husband and your Home. Contend on your knees. From what I see, your husband is not with his Clear eyes. He seems to be under an influence.

Visit the Lord's Chosen and table the matter to the God of Chosen. Your husband must come back to his senses.

Rubbish. If your so called God exist why did he allowed this happen at first? May should accept polygamy or quit the marriage simple

Pvin:

The question is, will Yul's 1st wife, May be leaving or not?
She is staying on fence. She said she won't leave and won't accept her co-wife. It doesn't make sense. She is not in full control of this situation, two other people are involved.

She cannot make Yul divorce his 2nd wife. May please pick a struggle because you might not win if yiu don't decide on one thing. Which is to Leave or accept your co-wife.

Exactly. If you can't fight it then leave

Polygamy against her faith? Her denomination does have people who don't get married at all. Why's she married? Double standard!

This woman and her public foray into forced polygamy.

The drama he consistently posts, which she replies to, is getting amusing. Slay men who live on social media are the worst. His need to dramatize the whole thing is ridiculous. If they live in the same house, why these public apologies and declarations?

Personally, I can only empathize with her if she was didvirgined by Yul.
Asides that, I feel no pity for her because to me, if it wasn't Yul that didvirgined her then she has no right to demand faithfulness from him or demand him not to marry another woman.

Pvin:

The question is, will Yul's 1st wife, May be leaving or not?
She is staying on fence. She said she won't leave and won't accept her co-wife. It doesn't make sense. She is not in full control of this situation, two other people are involved.

She cannot make Yul divorce his 2nd wife. May please pick a struggle because you might not win if yiu don't decide on one thing. Which is to Leave or accept your co-wife.

What are Nigeria's bigamy laws?

She's sitting on the fence until she's gotten her cards right.

Caseless:
Polygamy against her faith? Her denomination does have people who don't get married at all. Why's she married? Double standard!

She just wants to keep the man's attention & resources only to herself and kids.
Polygamy was never condemned in the scriptures because scriptural figures like David, Solomon, Elkanah, Jacob etc all practiced polygamy & God never condemned their polygamous marriages

Ckonnet:
Nollywood chicks wey guys dey chop clean mouth, e reach yul turn hm say hm be odogwu, chop,eat still carry wine go pay dowry then come online come dey disturb small peace wey everybody dey manage.
Yul plz enjoy your brand new second hand wife!!!

His eyes don clear now he just found out the child from his second wife is not even his own the DNA test he did on the child shows it belongs to the former husband.

The woman is wise.

Righteousness2:
Yul has lost his peace. The Bible says there is no peace for the wicked.

My admonishment to him is that he should quit the social media show and all that.
There is enough opportunity to right the wrong.

He should make peace with his wife May Edochie.
Settle his Sin Partner and discharge her. She is not his wife. She is a Husband snatcher, Home robber and Home breaker.
Outside doing this, he is wasting his time and using his hands to dig disaster.
This is the Bitter truth

As for May Edochie, my Admonishment to you is don't keep silent, Don't give up .seek the Face of God in Prayers for your husband and your Home. Contend on your knees. From what I see, your husband is not with his Clear eyes. He seems to be under an influence.

Visit the Lord's Chosen and table the matter to the God of Chosen. Your husband must come back to his senses.

My dear friend, irrespective of whatever you believe in and your belief system, let me make it clear to you that there's nothing absolutely wrong with polygamy, I was a Christian and I had once been a member of the Lord's chosen until my inner mind and spirit was illuminated, majority of what is preached in that church is heresy, though that's my own view, everyone is entirely entitled to their religious beliefs and no one has the right to condemn the other.
According to my present religious view, there's nothing like sin partner here since the marital rite of the woman in question was duely performed.
The first wife has the right to move away from the marriage but that hasn't in anyway affected the credence of Yul's marital pursuit.

CoronaVirusRelo:
When you have money, women going nowhere!

Imagine Yul and Davido were poor men! May and Chioma would have dumped their ass!

If you like, impregnate 50, they ain’t going anywhere!

I don't think Yul is richer than Basketmouth or
Paul Okoye (P Square).

This woman has a very good heart. May God help Yul come back to his senses.

CoronaVirusRelo:
When you have money, women going nowhere!

Imagine Yul and Davido were poor men! May and Chioma would have dumped their ass!

If you like, impregnate 50, they ain’t going anywhere!

Quiet dose lips! D ones divorcing upandan dese days nko

flexyrule:
Babe has made up her mind, and I respect her for that.

She don't wanna be a "numbered wife"

Yul f*cked up big time... Even though I ain't gonna throw a stone, cuz it's damn damn difficult sticking to one woman for donkey years.

A woman cannot find everything she desire in a man, in one man. Same with the man....

A woman might be good in the kitchen, top notch when it comes to relating with people, superbly neat and freaking smart, but terrible in bed...

Or she might be a ganster, a confamed nympho, but an empty brain that cannot impart a single knowledge in your kids..

In all this, understanding is the key. When you have that knowledge that nobody's perfect.. You have it all figured out.

It's always her who must be this and that type of person.

What about him? What if he's the one who is lacking severely?

CoronaVirusRelo:


Smh!

If I told you I could afford your soul, you did be thinking I am capping, but I will let it slide.


A bricklayer can be rich to certain people. It’s all about your niche.

once someone has one car and one house in Nigeria he’s called rich.una mentality for that country is the problem not even the govt.