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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by BRATISLAVA: 12:36pm On Aug 23, 2023
BronzeTiger:






That's because the tales are fake and the OP is a scam.
I can't believe most people actually believe this after seeing the OP withhold vital information.

OP must give you all the details of their life, so that you will turn around to use it and still rubbish their case?

What does the info you guys seek have to do with the matter at hand? Because you want to accuse the sister of being a toxic woman who chased her husband away and that's why the deadbeat didn't move a muscle when she died?

Yes, the stories are fake, if that's not what suits what you really wanted to hear from her.

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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by BronzeTiger: 12:41pm On Aug 23, 2023
BRATISLAVA:


OP must give you all the details of their life, so that you will turn around to use it and still rubbish their case?

What does the info you guys seek have to do with the matter at hand? Because you want to accuse the sister of being a toxic woman who chased her husband away and that's why the deadbeat didn't move a muscle when she died?

Yes, the stories are fake, if that's not what suits what you really wanted to hear from her.
Unlike you who have been swayed by emotional coercion Ive actually seen that OP om different threads begging before editing his posts. That's a begging account so I'm not surprised he formulated this cock and bull story to play on your emotions
Are you ready to go the extra mile to physically investigate and confirm if OP is telling the truth? Will you? undecided.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by RosyIsBlessed: 12:42pm On Aug 23, 2023
Nasri100:


Frustration? I can bet I am part of the gang that where celebrating eating turkey and chicken as enjoyment in that my hell hole called Nigeria. I dey Nigeria dey talk frustration grin grin

I blame myself for my frustrations. I pay child support and it's frustrating me.

I am one of the children not properly raised.

Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Kobojunkiee: 12:44pm On Aug 23, 2023
BronzeTiger:

Unlike you who have been swayed by emotional coercion Ive actually seen that OP om different threads begging before editing his posts. That's a begging account so I'm not surprised he formulated this cock and bull story to play on your emotions
Are you ready to go the extra mile to physically investigate
and confirm if OP is telling the truth? Will you? undecided.
To what end? All OP asked for is an opinion on direction she is looking to take. Why do you need to investigate and confirm anything when all you need do is respond? undecided
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Greenfaces: 12:47pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.

If you cant say something good about somebody.... oh shut up!!

And if you cant say something good about somebody,... please shut up!!!

Lucky dube
Song title; SHUT UP!
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by KATERINA80: 12:51pm On Aug 23, 2023
Please the OP should drop her phone number here for me to contact her and see how I can help out but she should not take those children to orhanage home in the name of God.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Ahigbo1: 12:54pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven


If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.

Personally I wouldn't support taking them to the orphanage because of some aftermath, but I think you're hard on her

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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by IbnB: 12:54pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

DON'T DO IT!
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by LegallyBlunt: 12:56pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:



Your answer is in you mouth hypocrite
Judgemental person. You've now judged me a hypocrite because you lack any sense of reasoning and empathy for an obviously struggling woman.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Faposky95: 12:57pm On Aug 23, 2023
Don't lose hope, they're yours and will always be.......
One of them will make you proud.....
Patience.....
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by BronzeTiger: 12:58pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
To what end? All OP asked for is an opinion on direction she is looking to take. Why do you need to investigate and confirm anything when all you need do is respond? undecided
Well I don't believe it one bit based on the past activities I've seen on that account just like several formulated nairaland fables in the past, if the OP can drop key details in some investigating and confirming how true this story is I'll apologize openly to the account and help in whatsoever little way I can, But of course I know it won't most likely happen cause this is 95% a ruse.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 12:58pm On Aug 23, 2023
bigtt76:
If you do this, they would hate you for life! Struggle and get a good job. Invest in them and watch the dividend in the future. BTW what did you study or time of job you are looking for?



I'm not a graduate.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 1:01pm On Aug 23, 2023
Princeton92:


OP WHERE IS THEIR DAD?

Answered. Check the 2nd page.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 1:03pm On Aug 23, 2023
kennie2015:
I can recommend a very good, godly and awesome home for you. I can BOLDLY say, they will turn out well in life, if you can take the advice, I have lot of personal testimonies not hearsay.

Please say it here.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 1:04pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
OP, these are the ones to fear the most. undecided

Exactly. I just knew
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Kobojunkiee: 1:06pm On Aug 23, 2023
BronzeTiger:
■ Well I don't believe it one bit based on the past activities I've seen on that account just like several formulated nairaland fables in the past, if the OP can drop key details in some investigating and confirming how true this story is I'll apologize openly to the account and help in whatsoever little way I can, But of course I know it won't most likely happen cause this is 95% a ruse.
You don't understand what I am asking at all. Why do you wish to investigate the OP'S story? What do you think you will gain by doing so? undecided
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Emmanuel909090: 1:09pm On Aug 23, 2023
Speechless, wish I can help here.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Yankee101: 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2023
1. Try contacting the biological fathers
2. Talk to your church
3. Last resort, take them to the village to keep with a relative and send something monthly for their upkeep, when you recover you go and pick them up


LEA primary schools are free and they provide food. Your major assignment if accommodation (they can live wherever you live as long as it’s not prostitution going in the room) the meals and clothing. Use primary healthcare for their health


You’re from which state?
How old are they?
Do they have any medical condition?
Have they been going to school?
Where are your parents? Uncles and aunts?
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2023
BronzeTiger:

Nlfpmod Mynd44 Seun Dominique OAM4J I think you guys should be doing due diligence to vet out most of these topics you guys send to the front page.
It's clearly obvious this guy is a big scam looking for the sympathetic eyes of nairalanders to wet his account with free money after this cock and bull story but somehow this thread ends up on the fp? Someone who can use his sister to lie for money is very dangerous and can kill.

Do you want a video call with the kids?
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by owem19(m): 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2023
All this Ebola boys are evil tueh angry
illicit:
Best thing to do before they become miscreants and menace to the society while looking for a way to feed
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by EndRape2(f): 1:12pm On Aug 23, 2023
Can you take your own children to Orphanage
because things are tight?

Wicked siblings everywhere, how there you even mention Orphanage for your own sister siblings? Please look for their father and hand them over,

When they grow up and hate you as an aunty now ,you will say children of this generation are wicked .

You do not have sense and you have a wicked heart to even think of fumping thewm.in ophamgage. Can't you start food business on the street to take care of those children?





uote author=Loveabove post=125292685]Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod[/quote]
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Johel(m): 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod


Wao...I feel you should take the matter to the police for guidance and security.

And if they direct you to the orphanage then it'll be done by their approval.
Your hands are clean.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 1:15pm On Aug 23, 2023
Voiceofthestree:
Where do you stay I can help you raise them

Kwara state.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Zooposki(f): 1:15pm On Aug 23, 2023
adelafe2019:
O.P. is not truthful yet he is asking for our honest advice.O.p. did not disclose her age and occupation which would have helped us in giving advice.

People asked about the children's father(s) but she keep mute and still expects readers to give advice.
It seems the children had no fathers due to promiscuity of her sister and that is why o.p. wrote that she did not want to explain how they were born.

O.p. has made up her mind to drop them at an orphanage and only want your endorsement in order to justify her consent and for future reference.

Mumu talk. Men are more whorish. I’m sure if men had the ability to get pregnant due to their whorish ways, then for don litter the whole earth with pikins.

I just read she got raped after writing this. There you go, Nigerian men and rape are like 5 and 6.

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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Zooposki(f): 1:19pm On Aug 23, 2023
Curious346:
the sister does not know the father .. Nigeria ladies Bleep anyhow as a career

The sister was raped by a Nigerian man like you.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by IamtheTruth1(m): 1:21pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod


You do not love them. You never did. You never loved your sister also. See the way you explain am like say na cloth your won dash. If you truly love those boys you won’t even
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Curious346: 1:23pm On Aug 23, 2023
Zooposki:


The sister was raped by a Nigerian man like you.
see your head
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Coly2012(m): 1:24pm On Aug 23, 2023
If we say we love, this are the kind of cases we pick up as NLders, to see how we can come in to help,for the sack of the children not the OP, the dead mother or their inresponsible father...
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by 1opinion: 1:24pm On Aug 23, 2023
GboyegaD:
You can take them to the orphanage and try to support the orphanage as much as you can. Let the management know you would appreciate they don't give them up for adoption as you are coming back to pick them once you are in a good place.
This is Nigeria, you needed to add, that it should be documented and signed by both parties... for future sake
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by TrainPark: 1:30pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

Where do you live?

I might be able to help you with the kids?... would you let them be adopted?
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Voiceofthestree: 1:39pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:


Kwara state.

What part of kwara state ?
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Christistruth03: 1:40pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod


Don't you dare

They are your Children

God Almighty will make a way for you

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