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Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Acidosis(m): 8:45pm On Sep 01, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Not necessarily. As I age, I believe I would be less inclined to take certain risks. At 50 years old, I certainly won't exchange certainty for uncertainty. After 20-25 years of accounting practice, I wouldn't consider learning how to kill snakes or operate a forklift, regardless of the $$$ offered. Please note that these are my personal views, and I'm not advising or suggesting that you go or stay back. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Rictech: 9:02pm On Sep 01, 2023 |
Firefunmi2014:Good evening Firefunmi2014, thanks for your contribution to the thread. Bros, pls, beg, ejoor, biko I need a job & would be glad if you can be of help 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Usefulsense: 10:34pm On Sep 01, 2023 |
Firefunmi2014: I sent you a mail |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by BigDawsNet: 6:54am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Travel and go be with your family... your wife has been living alone for a while... and now you wanna stay away from your kids too... That hustle you hustle in Nigeria is enough... pack your bags and move to Australia... thank God application for PR is on... when the permit is out.. you guys will never struggle With your experience amd some few courses... you will get a good job over there... age is not a barrier ... 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by harsysky(m): 7:41am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: If you continue to think like this, you will get to 58 and quarrel with yourself why you didn't do the stuffs you wwould have done 10 years ago. Life is short. Live life like there is no age attached to one. One more thing, Life is like a soccer match odd. One is given 1.15 odd and another 15 odds. Everyone is given the certainty that the 1.15 must win and at the end, you could swe the 15 odds thrashing them. You don’t know what life offers you till you do the things you are meant to do; you could finally end up as being the master in that art. It is always hard to begin a new journey but you will be fine. Trust God. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Ishilove: 8:10am On Sep 02, 2023 |
harsysky:Oga, not everyone plays bet so it is difficult to understand this your analogy. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Ishilove: 8:10am On Sep 02, 2023 |
One of the few threads on Nairaland where majority of the contributors made sense. 37 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by flokii: 8:48am On Sep 02, 2023 |
@OP Didn't you guys agree on relocation before your wife left for studies?.. In whatever you do, don't sell off your properties here in Nigeria cos it might be the only thing you'd fall back to. When your wife completes her studies and secures a good job or pay rise, then you'd see her true nature. She'll want to be the one controlling you and be making all the decisions. Summary of it all.. Plan well and have plan B in case things go south. 10 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by emmaodet: 9:36am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Acidosis: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by emmaodet: 9:39am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Offpointng: Chaii Nairaland |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Sweetvie: 9:56am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Pappij: |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Dgabby01: 10:37am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Please for someone planing on going to Bahamas for just a short stay. Does the country offer visa on arrival to Nigeria citizens or will I have to get my visa here before going. Please will it be guaranteed it'll be approved if I'm to apply from Nigeria. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by MadeMan01(m): 11:07am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Racoon(m): 11:16am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Fear woman. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by ImoleNaija: 11:18am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Just ensure you don't put all your eggs in one basket. In other word, get a shock absorber. 4 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by obainojazz(m): 11:18am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:Bro there are many that entered Australia with their wife and are of that age. Don’t think twice, japa bro…. My friend’s husband and kid just entered last month plus he’s your age mate. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Keme4Real(f): 11:19am On Sep 02, 2023 |
I don't understand your exact question. Is it that you should go or not? Why u no Wan go? Because of your age? What's wrong with your age? What's wrong with your age? Aidontgerrit |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by wisdomkid: 11:19am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Offpointng: Serious? I thought they have animal preservative rights there? Like you call those animal serving groups we watch online? |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Harddiskng(m): 11:20am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: You are a qualified accountant, you are valuable. Oga don’t be afraid of change. Go and join your madam! 5 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by SURElee(f): 11:21am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Who told you at 48 you can't get a job abroad? At 48 you should be thinking of your family. Aren't there IT courses you can take to change career path? Abeg if Naija hungry you to stay then, stay back working for a private family company, the day they throw you out, you begin wise up. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by ManOfMan: 11:21am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Move to Australia already if you don't want to lose your wife 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Johel(m): 11:22am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: SIR, carry your entire household comot from hell... Nigeria isn't a good place for sane people, even at 60 and I see chance to Japa, I'll rather Japa and die in Australian snow than living in a country that will surpress you to the ground with hardship. But make plans at where you work currently,one of the hardest things in life is decision making.. Carry God along...I wish you well, but if you see chance, abeg carry me join body, I go just dey to render vital assistance...you can trust me. ; 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by isabi2lof: 11:23am On Sep 02, 2023 |
It's only in Nigeria, that we get worried over our age , and it's because the country is not encouraging in all sectors of the economy.. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Germi9: 11:23am On Sep 02, 2023 |
See this man oo |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Biodun556(m): 11:24am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:You need to go and meet your wife since she is cooperating with you. There are people older than you there |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by buJu234: 11:24am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Bros.. which one b age.. @48yrs old.. u re still young na.. Do you know that alot of 65-70yrs old are still in working class in alot of European countries?? Stop using the Nigerian mentality that said at age 60, you are retired, old and unemployable.. Listen to your wife's advise.. Go and learn that Forklifts driving asap.. then u re fine. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by victorVIC1(m): 11:24am On Sep 02, 2023 |
@ OP, your wife is a good woman. She's pushing to see the entire plans you both had from the get go come into reality. The reverse is the case for a lot of people, who get there and completely cut off from their family. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by maasoap(m): 11:25am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Wodu89: Caged? If you think you are caged in Nigeria, travel to Canada or Australia and know the true meaning of being caged. You can't earn lower than Nigeria in Aussie, not even it's equals. So why stalling ?He's not talking about income but his age. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Dpharisee: 11:26am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:You could be fired when you least expect like they did to me using downsizing during Covid as reason. I had to start from scratch again after savings ran out and I couldn't get another high paying job, so I am now learning a skill and how to run my business with a partner 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Blacklaurel: 11:26am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:Are you playing? Better pack your load and run for your life. The only thing is that your wife will be the 'daddy' of the house for awhile till you find your feet in Aussie. Do it for your children. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Adeyinka90: 11:27am On Sep 02, 2023 |
I use God beg you just stay and enjoy Nigeria small |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by akpunda86: 11:28am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Bros u have a wonderful wife,go learn it,assume Ur a self employed earning millions is say you go but since Ur working for some one I advice go there develop your self.Good luck please consider having a good wife.my case is opposite. 1 Like |
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