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Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man / My Wife Is Refusing To Submit To Me Because Of Our Age Differences / Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by BananaPeel(m): 3:16pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Shikena: You are correct. The thing is, once you are married, situations where spouses argue over whose opinion is correct hardly happens. Ñaturally, there's a flow of mutual respect. The word, submission is not enforced or not even noticed due to high level of understanding between both of them. 2 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by olaztek(m): 3:18pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
* Give him sex whenever he wishes unless you're tired or sick. * take permission before going out. * Don't argue with him in public - take good care of his parent when they come to visit. * prepare his food in time. * Always have patience and show support when he's struggling financially. *Don't backbite or talk bad about him. * Overlook his minor mistakes 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by ednut1(m): 3:20pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
By agreeing to all your husband says or all his decisions without pushback. A recipe for disaster in today’s society. 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Shikena(m): 3:20pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Absolutely! BananaPeel: |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Shikena(m): 3:27pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Bros how body? I will move a motion to amend your post here . I don't think it's about agreeing to all your husband says but agreeing with the final decision. The wife can actually debate with the husband, present facts for better insight into the issue, and offer better suggestions. The submission part, I believe, is in the final decision. Same way people operate in every organization. You push your position but submit to the final decision to avoid anarchy. In a marriage, the natural skills for a smooth process is already within both parties. They are in the same team and just have to watch out so they don't allow ego or build up of resentment. That is where wisdom comes in. Hope I did not misinterpret your position. ednut1: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Jozilinn: 3:31pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Lanretoye:Oga no matter anything you say no be all women dey carry pastor for head but mostly some men no just Sabi talk na gra gra talk them Sabi,no gentleness no calmness always with authority do it or die, speaking as if the other person no get opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Sag1ttarius: 3:31pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
visaclick: Yes, marriage no bi for everyone and Men still cry and worried over those women that ignored marriage. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Sag1ttarius: 3:33pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Jozilinn: They won't like this your post. you said the whole truth brother. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Mitsurugi(m): 3:42pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
ebubeson: As a man I cook. I love food but there's nothing my wife cooks that I won't eat except things I'm not disposed to. But you see the above quote such men irritate me. Worse they don't even know how to boil egg 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by sboga: 3:44pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
ride well |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Nyceguy92: 3:47pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
ebubeson: Well said. Submission does not mean you lose your sense of judgement, independence, and respect. You almost broke my ribs with laughter on that aspect about the man dictating what he wants to eat and wouldn't eat food from the freezer. The man should not wear his woman down with frivolous demands. Reminds me of the movie "Husbands of Lagos," where one of the husbands would eat only freshly made soup, and the foofoo must be pounded manually in a mortar. I might add that the man can also 'submit' by being up to per with his responsibilities and acknowledge that the woman is human, too. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Sermwell(m): 3:53pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
visaclick:You’re part of those who fall for anything they see on line!! How did you conclude that Blessing CEO is happy not married!! Because of her videos you see online? Or do you know her personally? |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Paystack: 3:59pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
erniok: Infidelity means you didn't submit to your husband. Instead you had an affair and submitted to another man. People get stoned in the Bible for less. If a wife is caught helping her husband fight another man... her hands gets cuttoff Read the Book of Leviticus thoroughly... it contains God's Lords. I'm a Christian |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by GreatAchiever1: 4:00pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
In one sentence, she submits to your authority. I no wan start to dey write epistle on this topic. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by BRATISLAVA: 4:01pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Lanretoye: They can submit to their female bosses at work but will claim superiority and headship with wife at home. What did the female boss do to deserve the submission that a wife doesn't deserve? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Iamzik: 4:01pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Shikena: Most sensible explanation so far |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Badmashii(m): 4:03pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
VULCAN: Op here's your answer. Mr vulcan oil dey head. Women are normally proud and egoistic so they always have an issue with the word 'submission'. Anyways one thing is human beings are animals. And one undeniable law of the jungle is when you are in the presence of a more dominant animal you instictively submit. That's why they behave 'submissively' to their boss. So you can't ask or tell anyone to submit to you. They did automatically when you're more powerful. Most times na simp dey always complain of 'submission ' because the ladies can see clearly that this one is spineless idiot even with his money. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Tetraozonaitera: 4:07pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Submission to ones husband is equal to separation from many entities. It entails cordial relationship between a male hen which is a cock or Cockerel. I am not talking about cockatoo or parrot. It makes two irregular adults to separate before they reach the age of thirty. Many don't believe it but it is true. A doctor can never make a good husband. Because the needle of the syringe can chook the wife's buttocks. It is very very strange. I hope with these points of mine I have been able to confuse you that Nigerian girls hardly submit to their husbands. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by GreatAchiever1: 4:07pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Mosba:. As much as I agree with you, take note some women don't even respect their dad, and that is a red flag. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by victorazy(m): 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Submit your ATM |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Iamzik: 4:13pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Jozilinn: I sometimes look at married people and wonder why most church women are so hypocritical to think that a pastor has more authority than their husband. Bishop Oyedepo once asked his wife not to go to a program that she herself organized and is supposed to preach without any clear reason. She was disappointed but she obeyed all thesame. Mummy GO is subject to her husband but women fellowship member thinks that her GO word supersede her husband. Smh |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by erniok(m): 4:34pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Paystack:At the bolded, her hands gets cut off if and only if she grabs the opponent's privates. Like I said earlier, be sure of what you quote. Submission transcends far beyond infidelity. When Paul, by the Holy ghost wrote that part, he was not looking at infidelity. Read that part in the book of ephesians again. PS: People don't get for less. The only places stoning was commanded was the one I mentioned earlier, being unruly to your parents and transgressions the sabbath. These you can see are few. The old covenant was not about stoning. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Jozilinn: 4:38pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Iamzik:Did he tell her that if she doesn't she would see,he would make sure she doesn't feed until she does it,I also work in s church department if I start to mention the issues that these women you termed pastor worshippers are going through, you will understand them,or is the one that doesn't provide for his family and has sidechicks outside and doesn't put money at home and wants food to eat, finish beating her up forces the children to drink water everytime they ask for food to eat while he's outside he calls her a bastard... wetin you want that woman to do if not running to God mind you some pastors run scholarship for their members children na where dey benefit you, nahim you go try to bend to. So like I said earlier it's not all women that do this pastor worship it depends on what they face in their marriage. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Paystack: 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
erniok: We are saying same thing. My point is people get stoned, killed and mutilated in the Bible according to Gods laws and covenant with the Israelites. Gods laws are unchangeable and should be obeyed. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Iamzik: 4:53pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Jozilinn: You went completely off point but I'm sure you understand what I mean. Pastors contribute the most to family problems when they covertly encourage women to disrespect their husbands. The truth is bitter but we are not ready for this discussion 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by Stevenbright(m): 5:01pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
kkins25: Generally, submitting to your man means respecting and obeying him. But to me, submitting to a man means being committed to the relationship (marriage), respect and obey him. This is because some women can appear to respect and obey their man while constantly cheating on him. 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by emerged01(m): 5:07pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
kkins25: To me submitting to your husband respecting him. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by emerged01(m): 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
Iamzik: It is the way some women brain works,dont put the blame on the pastors. If you are brainwashed,you are the problem not the person that brainwash you. 1 Like |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by AlphaHakimi: 6:00pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
No man can perfectly explain submission more than a woman and no woman can perfectly explain love more than a man. For instance, if you had asked the jews what love meant, they would have given you several definitions. But the one the one time Jesus christ was asked what love is, he demonstrated it on the cross of calvary. There are actually no words to describe what Christ did on Calvary. In essence, submission to your husband is a gift which God has designed for only women to understand and express while love is a gift which God has designed for only men to understand and express. For the sake of your question, submission simply means " AT ALL TIMES, MAY THE WILL/WISH OF MY HUSBAND BE DONE TO ME". There are no exceptions to submission. You cannot submit today and not submit tomorrow or you cannot submit in this matter and not submit in the next matter. Submission is absolute and this is why Men must choose CAREFULLY whom to love and women must choose CAREFULLY whom to submit to. Jesus christ did not say, I will only die for the Jews or for Israel, he died for everyone. SHALOM |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by membranus: 6:02pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
ednut1: No, no, no, absolute wifey submission is a recipe for a good, enjoyable and long marital life. |
Re: What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband by safarifarms(m): 6:31pm On Dec 22, 2023 |
kkins25:For me submission 1st means respect and then being able to accept his decision in a situation that you have contrary opinion that he doesn't agree with. However there are several factors that come into play to make this easy or difficult. For it to be easy, the man needs to be responsible, have a good sense of Judgement, and also amenable where he sees superior opinion or argument from his wife. |
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