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| Why Do You Love Me? by sistawoman: 9:05pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
So my girlfriend's husband, the one i told yall about before, sent me and email and asked me the below: I asked him last night why does he love me and his reponse was I dont know why i just do. How should i feel about this? So I am asking yall I dont know how to answer her question i have never had a dude tell me this. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by ssRhino: 9:08pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
How come all u guys just do is talking about your husbands, na wa oh. Anyhow, the reason why he has no reason is cos he love the woman without condition and the day he cld find a reason why he love her, he will stop. Dont mind me oh, just being a rhino. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by sistawoman: 9:14pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
$$Rhino: So you mean to tell me Rhino, that if you love a woman it is just as it is. There is no reason behind why you love that person. I know why i love who i love. And when i ask this quetion of the person that loves me they can tell me why. So does this guy really love her or is it lust? Because that was my first thought when i read her email. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by rampant(f): 9:20pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
love has no reason sistawoman if u love for a reason,that reason might go away,and wen it goes away will u still continue loving dat person?no is d answer |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by onyinye2(f): 9:27pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Love is as mysterious as the water. And as ancient as the sand. It is the one thing in this world, no human can possibly control. Love controls us. Love drives us to do wonderful things. It also tricks us into doing wicked things. With love, there is no reason no guidelines no rules. We love because we love. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by jgirl3: 9:33pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Trust a guy to come up with such an answer. However, I understand where he's coming from. There's not just one single answer to that question. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by MissyB1(m): 9:34pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
onyinye2:  |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Opslag(m): 9:34pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Seems like some1 is heart broken here.i rily do share in ur pain dear. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by sistawoman: 9:37pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Opslag: Who? |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Sisikill: 9:47pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Okay, forgive me in advance if this is a stupid question. . . You said her husband, so we know they are married, right? Since they are married, we can also assume they dated for at least 3 months. We can also assume they are not young 'uns, so let's put their ages in the Mid to late 20s and since they say with age come maturity, we can also assume this is a mature couple not teenagers playing "He loves me, He loves me not" Why is she asking him this question?  I'm sorry but from where I stand, there are only two reasons why she'd ask this. . . 1) To pick a fight because we all know, there is no way he's gonna give her a satisfactory answer (he didn't say enough or he said too much which will take as patronising, either way fight) 2) She has insecurity issues. . . if after all this time, she doesn't know if he loves her, then it is the beginning of the end for them. Sad! |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
so u r and ur friend(s) bring ur husbands and family issues to the table for discussion? ehhh? i thought common sense suggests you keep relationship and family issue out of the public domain. . . . . . i guess im wrong. by the way, asking a guy if he love's u is not and has never been the best way to find out if he realy does love u. i wonder when these women go learn sef |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by topup: 9:54pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
sistawoman: At least he didn't deny loving her! Phew! Also, there's a difference between putting in words the reason why you love someone and actually having no reason to love someone. It could simple be that he can't quite grasp that emotion that he feels about his wife. But I guess if he shrugged his shoulders, burped, scratched his ass and said 'dunno' then continued to watch his sports game, then I'd be a little concerned. Not everybody can encapsulate their woman into one word or description, maybe he just can't describe it. I think it's best to give him the benefit of doubt, after all he married her. Now worries. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by topup: 9:56pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
onyinye2: I like! |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by sistawoman: 9:57pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Thanks for yall responses. Topup you got me cracking up over here. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by sistajay(f): 9:58pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
OMO IBO: Na true you talk oo, my bro. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Sisikill: 10:01pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
sistawoman: Well maybe she should have found out if it was love or lust before. . . you know MARRYING HIM??! Isn't this a case of closing the barn gates after the cows have espcaped? And for some people, yeah it IS if you love someone. . . that's just it. I mean what does she want here - 1001 Reasons why I love you? I love you because you eyes are Blue I love you because you make me laugh I love you because you cook well I love you because your legs are straight LMAO! Seriously, what are we. . . in grade school? Oh another thing with that. . . he starts mentioning what he loves and say he doesn't mention something she thinks he should mention, it is gonna lead to "Oh, you don't love this about me?" "I do! I do!" "Why didn't you mention it?" "I was gonna, I just forgot" "Oh if you really loved it, you would have remember" A whole new drama begins. So if you don't mind telling me. . . why is she asking again?? Why do women go digging for trouble where there's none? |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by onyinye2(f): 10:02pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
topup:Thanks.  |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Orikinla(m): 10:07pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
There is no true love without reason as there is no egg without the yolk, except it is an empty shell. If a man does not know why he loves you then he does not know what is love. Emotions are emotions and love is love. I know why I love my own woman, because she has made me to know that there is more to life than making a name. She has become the mother I have not had since my mother passed away and she has become the meaning of why God made woman for man. The one I can share the essence of life with. Iron sharpeneth iron. To make each other sharper. She is my princess and my queen.
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| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by vivaladiva(f): 10:15pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
me dont know what love is just like i dont know why my heart skips a bit when i see him |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by sistajay(f): 10:16pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
@ orinkinla Nice one! |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by topup: 10:32pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Orikinla: Wonderful! I just knew men like this existed, but then again, actions speak louder than words and I hope you also show 'your woman' how much you love her. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by brinebaba(m): 10:49pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Sumtimes,"luv has no definitions" . . . To be candid,if i get such a reply frm ma gf,i won't feel anyway cuz probably,that might be her own definition of love . . . "unexpleanable,meaningless" . . Luv is a 'variable' u knw ?? |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by ima1(f): 11:05pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
when it comes to love and relationships, there is always a reason. if not then men and women would not waste their time cheating on each other because they loovvee each other, if you can't come up with a reason why you love me then you prolly don't. even God has a reason why he loves us all (because we are his children) so why shouldn't the guy in question have a reason. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Sisikill: 11:11pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Orikinla: *Wipe tears & Blows Nose* Awwwwwww! That was sweet!! I hope you mean it because your wife is one lucky, lucky woman!! No Scratch that. . . YOU ARE BOTH LUCKY!!! God Bless your home. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Seun(m): 11:11pm On Aug 08, 2008 |
Sometimes, the reason is different from what the woman wants to hear, so you keep your mouth shut. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by albridge(m): 10:03am On Aug 09, 2008 |
cos you understand me, get along with me, have a flow with me, share laughs with me, have fun with me, do things for me, allow me to do things for you and love me like i want, need and long to be loved and like no one else can  |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Agbon21: 10:46am On Aug 09, 2008 |
Like I said in a past thread, True love does exist and when it finds you it completely changes everything. I am not the same man I was before I met my wife. Now I could not think of living without her. When I do it causes a physical pain in my chest and my heart stops beating. She is the beat of my heart. She is the breath in my chest. She is the strength in my arms. She is the dream in my mind. She is the name on my lips for the rest of time. Trust me, my wife is wonderful and amazing.    Give the guy in the post story slack. Perhaps he just simply has no words to espress his undying love for her. At times when you have, as a man, submitted yourself to your soulmate, love can make you do the unthinkable. It is very possible to not have the words and, while trying to be the tough guy, act as though you have NOTHING but just love. Ladies no vex ooooooo. Just telling it from a guy side. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by whitelexi(m): 10:49am On Aug 09, 2008 |
Why did she marry him? |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by Opslag(m): 4:38pm On Aug 09, 2008 |
I tink u shuld sit & retink b4 makin moves cos u just might do d wrong ting. |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by rampant(f): 8:47pm On Aug 09, 2008 |
love has no reason,sm marry cos of d good characters,others marry cos of the wifely material in her,but i ask a question,wat if that thing u married her for is no longer there,wat happens? |
| Re: Why Do You Love Me? by jamari: 2:48am On Aug 10, 2008 |
@OMO_IBO wrote: "by the way, asking a guy if he love's u is not and has never been the best way to find out if he realy does love u." So tell us, what is the best way? |
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