You can call me wicked, I don't care, this lady messed up my mental health badly while still gaslighting me,I was trauma-bond . At a point she start making it obvious she's out of the relationship, I literally want to die and she cares less, then I noticed its because of a guy she's tagging her friend she's giving those mad silly attitudes, she starts shouting at me things she doesn't do before, ghosting my status, I even begged and begged this lady is manipulating me.

Then I did the unthinkable I digged out the guy's number, through some connections, I told him how the girl came to spend days with me after she left his place,she's my girlfriend Bla bla bla.

Before I did all these I told her, she begged me heaven and earth but I didn't bulge, I just saved the guy from falling in love with a narcissist and hookup babe.

I was surprised she's asking for mercy when she doesn't have any to give. NONSENSE GIRL.

This girl has master the act of seducing men, through love bombing to make you become so attached to her, luckily for the guy he told me he's starting to like her and see her differently, but I told him with concrete evidence she's just painting a false pic of herself...

I'm satisfied 😌

Can't post all chats but the chats was very long.

Did I do wrong?

She wicked me,I just do my own back...and they guy even loved the chat he had with me.

50=50 A lot of such evil girls are all over the place. I wish I know this strategy in my early life I for deal with lots of such ladies that have done similar things to me.

Is this really necessary from her? Why not just quit respectly instead of humiliating you?

And must you also go this route to mess her up?

This is immaturity from both of you!

BabbanBura:
Is this really necessary from her? Why not just quit respectly instead of humiliating you?

And must you also go this route to mess her up?

This is immaturity from both of you!

The price of disloyalty is even heavier than what the op paid her back with...

You probably don't understand how heartbreaking it feels when a lover plays you

This your payback weak gan

People like us nor get heart wen anybody go break because we watched closely with kin interest

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
People like us nor get heart wen anybody go break because we watched closely with kin interest

Ahswear, me wey man united dey serve breakfast every week...

You’re just a petty little man.

The OP is just too petty. Walking away without say a thing would have been the best. Now, you've created a competitive scenario, 1-1 by the score now. When such a girl has the chance to strike back,in whatever form, she's coming for your jugular.

Dey there dey chat with yourself

Kindnessprocity:


You can call me wicked, I don't care, this lady messed up my mental health badly while still gaslighting me,I was trauma-bond . At a point she start making it obvious she's out of the relationship, I literally want to die and she cares less, then I noticed its because of a guy she's tagging her friend she's giving those mad silly attitudes, she starts shouting at me things she doesn't do before, ghosting my status, I even begged and begged this lady is manipulating me.

Then I did the unthinkable I digged out the guy's number, through some connections, I told him how the girl came to spend days with me after she left his place,she's my girlfriend Bla bla bla.

Before I did all these I told her, she begged me heaven and earth but I didn't bulge, I just saved the guy from falling in love with a narcissist and hookup babe.

I was surprised she's asking for mercy when she doesn't have any to give. NONSENSE GIRL.

This girl has master the act of seducing men, through love bombing to make you become so attached to her, luckily for the guy he told me he's starting to like her and see her differently, but I told him with concrete evidence she's just painting a false pic of herself...

I'm satisfied 😌

Can't post all chats but the chats was very long.

Did I do wrong?

She wicked me,I just do my own back...and they guy even loved the chat he had with me.

In my honest opinion. I think what you called a revenge is nothing but immaturity at it's peak.

You are just a baby. You just acted like a narcissist yourself, so, because a girl is leaving you. You went into 100% panic and pressure.

That girl will still find another guy and you will still be forever pained.
I don't even know how some of you are so weak to the extent of making relationships a do or die affair.
At the end of the day the girl was right to dump you. You sounded like a real baby.

You have no value for yourself. Someone wants to dump you. Treat them like they never existed in the first place.

Kindnessprocity:


You can call me wicked, I don't care, this lady messed up my mental health badly while still gaslighting me,I was trauma-bond . At a point she start making it obvious she's out of the relationship, I literally want to die and she cares less, then I noticed its because of a guy she's tagging her friend she's giving those mad silly attitudes, she starts shouting at me things she doesn't do before, ghosting my status, I even begged and begged this lady is manipulating me.

Then I did the unthinkable I digged out the guy's number, through some connections, I told him how the girl came to spend days with me after she left his place,she's my girlfriend Bla bla bla.

Before I did all these I told her, she begged me heaven and earth but I didn't bulge, I just saved the guy from falling in love with a narcissist and hookup babe.

I was surprised she's asking for mercy when she doesn't have any to give. NONSENSE GIRL.

This girl has master the act of seducing men, through love bombing to make you become so attached to her, luckily for the guy he told me he's starting to like her and see her differently, but I told him with concrete evidence she's just painting a false pic of herself...

I'm satisfied 😌

Can't post all chats but the chats was very long.

Did I do wrong?

She wicked me,I just do my own back...and they guy even loved the chat he had with me.

Very petty.

Dem no dey put for woman matter. Where u stop another man continues… you suppose even buy beer for the other guy…

only feminine men do this... strong men with options would have left her even before her leaving, they would have left her for the streets where she came..

simps and weak men lack game.. this is why they will continue being pawns in a woman's game.. you're fvcking weak man! instead of you to create value and options for yourself, you're wasting your time doing this... I'm sure for you to do this way, you would have simped hard while in the relationship with her for her to finally decide to leave you, learn game you say no, take redpill you say no, you con dey do like pvssy... tueh! is it now you're supposed to realise that women don't care about your fvcking feelings? so disgusting...

You are both wrong and right at the same time. Let me tell you why.

You are right for allowing things to end. But you are soo wrong for a host of other reasons.

First, this kind of girl is what I call Drama Divas. These kind of girls will be the sweetest and worst kind in a relationship


I was going to write a thread on them and the best ways to handle them. But I couldn't due to time. Maybe if I did, and you read it... would have saved you from making costly mistakes


Let me guess...

At the start, this girl was so sweet to you. She was loving, respectful, submissive. She confessed her feelings to you. Told you how much she loved you. Showed you care and affection.

She said you were the best thing that ever happened to her. She complimented you a lot on your good qualities. She'd call to check up on you and wanted to spend time with you.

Then all of a sudden she changed...

Her love bombing dropped out of nowhere. She promised to change but never really did.

And because this was your first time with this kind of girls.. you were caught off guard. Then, you made the biggest mistake of all: You begged

You see, these Drama Divas are in a special category of 3 kinds of girls. The other two are: Daddy issue girls and girls with a history of toxic bfs or relationships

The worst thing you can do with these girls is to make them feel they "have" you or beg them to stay with you


Why?

Because all their lives they're the ones begging. Begging for their dad to come back. Begging not to be abandoned.

So when as a man you do the Begging She starts doubting her love for you. Because that's not what she's really used to.

The thing is this girl isn't a wicked person or a nonsense girl. She's damaged. Life doesn't come with a manual on how to handle relationships

She's only reacting based on how life and people she cared about treating her.

She isn't consciously trying affect your mental health. It's her subconscious taking over based on what she's experienced

If you dig through her past... you'll notice a history of abandonment. This has made her the way she is.

You should have just let her go. And advise her to seek therapy (do NOT save her yourself)

You're not the only guy neither is that guy. There are others. So it's pointless chatting up other guys

Keep an eye out for my thread on this. Because these group of girls are very common among these gen z girls

I've personally encountered more than 10 of them.

They will make you feel so special. Hype up your ego... then along the line they start throwing drama, tests and challenges to drain you.

You'll be great if she never feels you're completely hers. And if you can control your emotions and not overreact

The general goal tho, is to never date them. Rather, keep them as friends with benefits or fùck buddies till they move on to marriage

Relationship is not for the faint hearted.

Don't get too attached!!!

Nothing concern me but E dey mind

I never chase paper finish na to love girls.

By the way, wey the mod wey carry this thing come front page on a Monday morning?

Eternal suffering to all simps.
Y'all are the reason why bubblebrain girls are entitled and dumber.
Learn or perish.

Noted.

she knows that you're her CBN, Opay and Moniepoint! E go loud.. She is finally ruin..

Too many kids on this forums…. You made a mistake, what’s the next thing to do? You MOVE tf on… why are you still pressed over damaged goods? It means she still got a hold of you emotionally and psychologically… you’re her pawn… I bet she could call you next week and start confessing her love for you and will even lie that your joystick is the biggest and best she’s ever had and you’ll go back to SIMPING for her because you’re a naturally born simp… Last time I simped for a girl I stopped talking to her for weeks and she begged me and started respecting me ever since … Leave this girl alone!! She’s not your wife nor your sister, dumb simp.

Kindnessprocity:


You can call me wicked, I don't care, this lady messed up my mental health badly while still gaslighting me,I was trauma-bond . At a point she start making it obvious she's out of the relationship, I literally want to die and she cares less, then I noticed its because of a guy she's tagging her friend she's giving those mad silly attitudes, she starts shouting at me things she doesn't do before, ghosting my status, I even begged and begged this lady is manipulating me.

Then I did the unthinkable I digged out the guy's number, through some connections, I told him how the girl came to spend days with me after she left his place,she's my girlfriend Bla bla bla.

Before I did all these I told her, she begged me heaven and earth but I didn't bulge, I just saved the guy from falling in love with a narcissist and hookup babe.

I was surprised she's asking for mercy when she doesn't have any to give. NONSENSE GIRL.

This girl has master the act of seducing men, through love bombing to make you become so attached to her, luckily for the guy he told me he's starting to like her and see her differently, but I told him with concrete evidence she's just painting a false pic of herself...

I'm satisfied 😌

Can't post all chats but the chats was very long.

Did I do wrong?

She wicked me,I just do my own back...and they guy even loved the chat he had with me.

If you don't care, then why are you asking strangers if you did wrong?

Why are you so confused? This must be why she was able to deal with you into a pussywhipped wimp and traumatise you anyhow.

Kindnessprocity:


You can call .......

She wicked me,I just do my own back...and they guy even loved the chat he had with me.

How does this shit concern anybody? Are you incapable of handling your own relationship with a girl you-and-you alone picked by yourself?
Why should we read your crap?
Tomorrow, you will call me to come and marry the girl for you!
Get this shit off the internet, let's read better news.
Nonsense.

When we say men are scum it go be like say we were pained. See evidence.
You ll be arrested soon for emotional torture.

1000Capacity:



The price of disloyalty is even heavier than what the op paid her back with...

You probably don't understand how heartbreaking it feels when a lover plays you

The evil that men do lives after them. Continue.

Kindnessprocity:

Did I do wrong?

Yes you did a bad thing. Forgive and move on.

You didn't finish the work. Or, wait, you didn't do it well.
You would have told the guy WHAT she is and asked the guy to pretend as if he knew nothing. Then, the two of you will keep fvcking her and using her.
You will collaborate with the guy to use her until she comes useless then both of you will leave her.
You could even tell him to get her pregnant then reject it on bases that she was fvcking you.
Or after impregnating her, he, guy, will just reveal his true girlfriend to her and ask her to return to you.

I don't blame op, I think he only did that so he can heal and move on.Some girls don't deserve love.

Ehya.

Uu

Relationship energy still dey for this government?