What'll you do if you find out the only woman you ever loved cheats on you?Will it be wise to forgive her when you know you cant forgive her inside you?

i will gun her ,  that the final thing if she come back to me.

Silly you, u wanna be a killer SEGZY??

If you love her so much but caught her cheat on you and it is your painful not able to forgive her for the first time, second time or too many, then you should let her go. She is wrong girl for you.

Find someone else better who love who you are.

There isnt a need to leave her in ur life if you cant see past what she has done.
Leave her be and after some time if u can u will forgive her fully - dont rush urself.

Forgive her but it would obviously take time to forget.

U know how u feel about her and noone can tell u how to feel.

if u can't 4get, leave her ,
and move on wit ur life, cos u will still neva 4get anyways

Wish him a very slow and painful death . . . the very minuite i find out.

and he"d better not come near me, because someone would  sure end up in jail if he does.LOL

What can I do, other than move on?

I recently found out that my girlfriend of 4 years was a serial cheat, there wasn't really a lot I could do, other than move on, and ask myself what I could have done differently, but upon reflection, I discovered she didn't love me as much as she claimed, and she'd have cheated even if I was a billionaire.

I'd do nothing, but wish her well. I'm not the grudge-bearing sort.

eya. . .you siena? it's a creul world o. you're one of the most reasonable, yet funny people on nairaland. unless you have two personalities, i don't believe she could have cheated on siena we know in nairaland.

Hey Toyin, just the one personality, I'm afraid. Still, who knows why one decides to cheat?

Right now, I feel she's done me a massive favour, by revealing her true personality, before it was too late.

To me, there's no justification in cheating, but good luck to those who choose to do so, I believe in divine retribution.

Topic!!

Free world* ill move on!! nothin iz new under the sun*

@siena
if they can all be like you. i like how reasonable you're handling the situation. when i was in middle school, a dude brought a gun to school and killed his pregnant ex-girlfriend for breaking up with him. it's a sad world how ppl cheat, yet more sad how the victim react to the situation by causing violent.

It's a crazy world, Toyin. I've since found out, if a person's destined to cheat, they will, regardless of what you might do - shower them with love, snoop around them, spy etc.

I wouldn't snoop on my girlfriend, what's the point? How long could I afford to keep that up?

don't worry. . .things get better by time.

What if she has cheated the first time and you forgive her and you recently finds out she has cheated on you again after say 6months, what will you do especially when you know you LOVE her and wish to marry her oneday.

just walk away. . . .nothing more

i'lld like to kill her,but what good will going to jail do me,

i'll walk! she dont deserve me,

Cheating is a no-no for me . . . I cant just get over the thought of "my diccccck has been choppulated by another woman" Mba . . .I cant forgive,thats a deal breaker for ME.

If she cheats on me and I can't get myself to forgive, I'd move on. On the contrary, rather than take a drastic decision like this, I'd rather look into the root cause of the matter and try to find where the wall cracked. It takes two to tango. Read this, it may help your decision http://hubpages.com/t/1aafe8