Hello nairalanders, pls i need ur best advice so far. There is dis lady i‘ve bn datng 4 ova a year nw she is a virgin, ever since i discovr dis i‘v bn keepng her as my future wife bt nw i‘m nt sure i can marry hr anymre cos i‘m planning 2 embark on foreign trip whch may take me 5 or 6yrs b4 i can evn think of cmng back. D prblm nw is dt she is ready 2 gv me hr virginity do u tink it wil b wise 4 me 2 just take ds n nt marry hr?

Remmy488: nw i‘m nt sure i can marry hr anymre cos i‘m planning 2 embark on foreign trip whch may take me 5 or 6yrs

Let us be realistic here,if she was your sister,and I was in your shoe,what will be your advise.

Remmy488: i‘m nt sure i can marry hr

Since you aint sure leave her and let her be

Dnt do it if u know u wont marry her, just let her be if u,re nt sure of marrying her again.

Well ur a good guy... Dont do it anyway... Some1 else may do it sha... & she may find anoda guy like u... Just leave her in peace. It may be ur last test before travelling (spiritual perspective).

don't do it!!
...and go in peace!!

does the girl dat ur her not her future husband?cos i bet if she knws she wldnt wnt to give her virginity to the wrong person...And as for u the op,dont disflower her....God wil gve u ur own virgin wife....

dont do u it. U shldnt b askin ds anyway, u knw d answer b4 u asked

My bros stay clear from this girl it"s horrible,if u want God to be with u on ur trip be like Joseph in the Bible against portifa's wife u know what l mean.

Na korect test wey God dey put u thru nw. Disvirgin her n u will neva return frm dt trip..... Clmon man, cnt u si? Its very clear. Shes ready to give herself to u, bt u r nt ridy to mari her, wot do u fink u shuld do? Am sur u know d ansa!

lythia: ....God wil gve u ur own virgin wife....

lol @ virgin wife! Yea rite! As if der are any virgins in this generation!

fluid26:

lol @ virgin wife! Yea rite! As if der are any virgins in this generation!

never say never. Dia r still virgins in dis generation.

Maria-Goretti:
Na korect test wey God dey put u thru nw. Disvirgin her n u will neva return frm dt trip.....

which kain talk be dis na?

fluid26:

which kain talk be dis na?

wot? Just mi tots, bro. Who knows, if he goes ahead to disvigin d gal wen he knows he aint ridy to mari her, he might get a serious punishment frm God. He is in d position to advice d gal against givin herself to him by tellin her dt he is nt ridy to mari her. But if d gal alridi knows dt he aint gona mari her n still givs herself to him, d guy can do woteva he wants to do. Mayb in dt case, she just selected him to b her first.

I think you should disvigin her,many people abroad callback their ex when its time to get married or when they feel the Nigerians girls abroad.Some are very nasty.

fluid26:

lol @ virgin wife! Yea rite! As if der are any virgins in this generation!

And what do you mean by that.@op,pls dont do it and go in peace.

All of you guys who are now abroad but deflowered some girl b4 u left won't come back alive. YOU ARE ALL GOING TO DIE!!! fck! My ribs jst cracked

If you're not sure you can marry her, then go your way and leave her be. Like k2039 noted, you wouldn't want a guy to do this to your own sister. I doubt she's ready to do anything, like you say. You must've said something to her and I hope that didn't include any lies of you staying with her. There're naive girls out there who think giving it to a man would keep him locked and make him stay. She's a virgin and you've been dating for over a year; good for her. I find it hard to believe she would want to give it up now, now that you're planning to leave, unless she isn't in her right mind and again, unless you've been dishonest with what you've been telling her with regards to staying and marriage. Don't take advantage of her like that.

Atmost,atleast finger her.Its very important.

Don't do it!

Op
Let me help u out

@Maria-Goretti

Sista, forget all dis virginity & punishment talks! All na babash!

A dudeman should only avoid sleeping with married women and bloodline relatives. Sex with any mature female outside these categories does not attract any punishment. I dey tells u!

slimyem: don't do it!!
...and go in peace!!

What about if the girl want am badly!

olas2u: Atmost,atleast finger her.Its very important.

Are you alright.

Help ursef wit Hebrew 13v4

fluid26: @Maria-Goretti

Sista, forget all dis virginity & punishment talks! All na babash!

A dudeman should only avoid sleeping with married women and bloodline relatives. Sex with any mature female outside these categories does not attract any punishment. I dey tells u!

You just dey yarn nansense since.

fluid26: @Maria-Goretti

Sista, forget all dis virginity & punishment talks! All na babash!

A dudeman should only avoid sleeping with married women and bloodline relatives. Sex with any mature female outside these categories does not attract any punishment. I dey tells u!

no comment.

Just leave her and let her be. You've bn truthful to yourself by admitting dat u can't marry her since U̶̲̥̅̊ aren't coming back anytime soon n I don't think she can wait d̶̲̥̅̊α† long. Let her be n God will give u Ɣ☺ΰЯ own wife.

Remmy488: Hello nairalanders, pls i need ur best advice so far. There is dis lady i‘ve bn datng 4 ova a year nw she is a virgin, ever since i discovr dis i‘v bn keepng her as my future wife bt nw i‘m nt sure i can marry hr anymre cos i‘m planning 2 embark on foreign trip whch may take me 5 or 6yrs b4 i can evn think of cmng back. D prblm nw is dt she is ready 2 gv me hr virginity do u tink it wil b wise 4 me 2 just take ds n nt marry hr?

bros u don really confirm to check if dis babe na really virgin?

Op donnnnntt tryyyyy itt!!! Leave her for me,i will do the job for you. You see free gift of nature you no want chop. Your future wife is currently getting bleeped by one man now.

nikkyshyne:
You just dey yarn nansense since.

kai! Dis gial don carry cum again o!

Maria-Goretti:
no comment.

Good gial!