Dis one pass my power oooooo. I once had a GF who was even stealing d money I was going to give her. I was alway thanking God dat she was only a PB in my life. D truth is dat if my wife steals from me, I won't know wat to do.

I once had a girl steal from me after smashing her. She was stu,pid because I always left like 3-5k naira in my pocket - she limited herself. I kept smashing and she kept stealing small amounts. Foo,l,ish babe - lacked brain cells. I hate thieves.

Well, I wouldn't want to call it stealing sha, but what can she do cos it's really annoying.

@OP,is the husband jobless?
The first step is sitting the man down and ask him why he's stealing your money?let him know you are worried not cos of the petty cash he steals from you but the fact that he might one day try it outside. He could be kleptomaniac?
Don't mock him, be little or bruise his ego, ask as a loving concerned wife.

does she want him to get the money outside?


there are many women looking for husbands who can oblige her.

unless she thinks he's spending the money on some anti-social activity, why cant they both sit down and work out how much he needs.

who is still carrying smelling money around. Abeg fill your purse with CC

Some women on this forum have said its no big deal stealing the husbands money I guess by the same logic it should be vice versa

But IMO its wrong taking mkoney from anyone without their knowledge

https://www.nairaland.com/593165/does-taking-money-husband-make

The husband probably doesn't see anything wrong with taking his wife's money and probably never remembers to tell her about it like she requested anytime he does take it...
If it bothers her that much,she should stop keeping any real sums of money in her bag then..

she should find out what he's using the money for, and as long as its kosher, then why kick up a fuss instead of using wisdom to discuss the matter.


is this another "my-husband-stole-meat-from-the-pot-because-i-counted-and-the-number-was-short" thread?

armyofone: who is still carrying smelling money around. Abeg fill your purse with CC

take am buy gala and ice cream for go slow

this on is a thief by nature.she will jus have to hide it until he learns some manners and knows that there is something called asking before u take from someone else's wallet

@ Post: Kini big deal? In my own case we take money from each others wallet/handbag etc! It our money and we trust each other to spend every kobo wisely! Some couples really need to stop this over setting of boundries.
Well like someone said, unless the hubby is using the money for some anti-social engagement

We can't rule out kleptomania, can we? lol

This is a sign of jobless.
1+1=1 in marriage.

Try talking sense into your husband or meet a married consellor not priest ooo.

Ouch! Poor dude. He have no idea he's trending on Nairaland homepage.

I know lots of women are guilty of taking money from their husbands wallet or pocket, but for a guy to be taking from his wife. Hmmmm he get as he be.

Men have got huge ego. He's not "bouyant" as u said, and he's finding it hard to go to her every now and then when he needs cash to beg her for it, he knows its just the both of them staying and she definatly knows its him taking the cash. Its better he takes it and she ask him later than him going to stand befor her and ask for money like he's her son, imagine the scenero, "darling pls I need money", he comes 2morow "sweetie I need cash to cut my hair". She shld try to understand.

two words- drug addict

The husband needs to be "Aluulized" Asap.

Many Yoruba proverbs have been proved to be senseless and archaic, for example - Everything that goes up must come down (they didn't know about dropping something from out of space).

Regardinig the issue at hand, another Yoruba proverb comes to mind, "Omi eko, eko ni" na him be say Akamu water sef be Akamu.

If ya husband no see anything wrong with taking ya money, make you sef go make withdrawal from him wallet or bank account, spend de money without telling him. If him ask you, tell am say, Yoruba people talk say: Omi eko, eko ni. Make you revert back after the said action. pele o.

She should find out if the hubby na 'amu-gbo'. She should also desist from keeping large sums of money more than she needs in her bag. Better still save the man the shame by giving him some free money to keep for you ....of course money you can freely give away cos he will definitely spend it but could stop his tiffy tiffy habit.

ifyalways: @OP,is the husband jobless?
The first step is sitting the man down and ask him why he's stealing your money?let him know you are worried not cos of the petty cash he steals from you but the fact that he might one day try it outside. He could be kleptomaniac?
Don't mock him, be little or bruise his ego, ask as a loving concerned wife.

Thank you for making my day

Sorry to say u didn't really know ur husband b4 u married him. . . .

Too many jobless folks here opening jobless threads.

Its a pity nl encourages such.

if you can't trust your own spouse - who can you trust? I wouldnt want to live with anyone who steals from me no matter how small the amount, its the principle behind it that counts. stealing from anyone is a major character flaw as it indicates lack of proper home training and a very questionable sense of morality. but to steal from your own wife indicates that this man is a complete low life, a man's job is to provide, if he doesnt earn enough the woman can use whatever she has to add to it - its called worknig as a team.

Tomorrow now when this woman starts talking down to this i.diot he will start complaining that she does not respect him, why would any right thinking woman respect a man who steals from her?

Since she has knwn dat her husband is not financially bouyant, lets her bear the partially pickpocket attitude from her man, may God continue to provide for her

Is it not tha man that owns both the woman and her money?

That man is so shameless.,chai! Ihe neme! I advice u put rat catcher.a kind of modern trap u can keep the money on.when he wants to take it,he is glued to the money and the board Like A Rat

REALITY101: Ouch! Poor dude. He have no idea he's trending on Nairaland homepage.

Wake up dude! It's on the front page already.. Buh IMO It's either the guy is a jobless hubby or he has a kleptomaniac spirit.