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What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by cstan(m): 8:32pm On Nov 24, 2012
A friend came to me and voiced out her problem(below is a copy of what she told me)....i gave her my opinion but it was really a hard one for me so please let me have your kind opinion on this issue. but please take your time to go through it...thanks!

Dere is dis guy i met at ph,he is a graudate nd working....He askd me out nd i accpetd...we started dating,at a tym i was tired of d relationship cos he is too quiet 4 my liking,he is nt open minded. Weneva i visit hm,he wont talk 2 me,even if i stay upto 3hrs wit hm alone,he wont talk 2 me,if i try my bst 2 brk d silence by asking hm questions,he wil jst summarize his reply wit one word. Wen i ask hm y,he wil tel me am nt d talking type. Though i rily lvd him bt i couldnt condone his behaviour anymore....Last mth wen i went 2 my local govt 2 collect my LG origin certificate,i met a guy dat helpd me out 2 get it,we xchanged numbz,d guy was so caring 2 me dat a day wont pass by witout him kaling me more dan 5 tyms. Due to d way he alwyz made me hppy we started 2 date. It reachd 2 an xtent d@ he invited me 2 his haus,his mum nd siblings wlcmd me nd likd me. His mum do call me on fone. D prob is dat d 1st guy i met is a cousin to dis guy nw. Cos d dy d 1st guy came home 4 a wkend,he was showing d 2nd guy my pix dat am his babe.dat he was going 2 marry me...He told hm evrytin abt me nd d 2nd guy kald me 2 confirm so i told hm wat hapnd. D prob is like tryin 2 cause a prob btw d two brodas. Cos d 1st guy is beging d 2nd guy 2 leave me dat he 1st met me nd d 2nd guy said he cant. Am totally confuse on hw 2 handle d issue.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Nov 24, 2012
cstan: A friend came to me and voiced out her problem(below is a copy of what she told me)....i gave her my opinion but it was really a hard one for me so please let me have your kind opinion on this issue. but please take your time to go through it...thanks!

Dere is dis guy i met at ph,he is a graudate nd working....He askd me out nd i accpetd...we started dating,at a tym i was tired of d relationship cos he is too quiet 4 my liking,he is nt open minded. Weneva i visit hm,he wont talk 2 me,even if i stay upto 3hrs wit hm alone,he wont talk 2 me,if i try my bst 2 brk d silence by asking hm questions,he wil jst summarize his reply wit one word. Wen i ask hm y,he wil tel me am nt d talking type. Though i rily lvd him bt i couldnt condone his behaviour anymore....Last mth wen i went 2 my local govt 2 collect my LG origin certificate,i met a guy dat helpd me out 2 get it,we xchanged numbz,d guy was so caring 2 me dat a day wont pass by witout him kaling me more dan 5 tyms. Due to d way he alwyz made me hppy we started 2 date. It reachd 2 an xtent d@ he invited me 2 his haus,his mum nd siblings wlcmd me nd likd me. His mum do call me on fone. D prob is dat d 1st guy i met is a cousin to dis guy nw. Cos d dy d 1st guy came home 4 a wkend,he was showing d 2nd guy my pix dat am his babe.dat he was going 2 marry me...He told hm evrytin abt me nd d 2nd guy kald me 2 confirm so i told hm wat hapnd. D prob is like tryin 2 cause a prob btw d two brodas. Cos d 1st guy is beging d 2nd guy 2 leave me dat he 1st met me nd d 2nd guy said he cant. Am totally confuse on hw 2 handle d issue.

Listen to your heaart and go for the guy you think is right for you.
It seems you have a choice here, so make use of it. The one you don't choose will have to think like a mature person, wish you well and move on.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by k2039: 9:42pm On Nov 24, 2012
Nonsense,this is more reason why guys multi date.So the idio.t was dating to guys at a time.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Mynd44: 9:44pm On Nov 24, 2012
The girl is noting more than a cheat. And cheats are the lowest form of life on earth.

Bacteria is more important than them
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by larrymoore(m): 9:49pm On Nov 24, 2012
Lady super story, l tink u should leave d two guys since they ar cousin or brothers unless u dont plan to marry either of them in d future.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Nobody: 10:35pm On Nov 24, 2012
What a struggle! What did the world tell you about communication?Yes,pick the one that communicates. And never two-time again.Bad for all.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by drnoel: 12:50am On Nov 25, 2012
[size=38pt]Women.........[/size]
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Smuthx(m): 7:24am On Nov 25, 2012
the 1st guy must have large extended family for her to randomly meet a guy at the LGA that is a realitive. if she does not like the quiet one, she should leave them both.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by RudySmith(m): 3:24pm On Nov 25, 2012
She should call both guys, have a meeting and tell guy #1 that guy #2 is her bf now, and he should stop spreading lies about him and her. There will b no doubts in guy #2's mind about who she wants but he may question her person for double dating.
I am not going 2 ask why she didn't break up with the guy #1 b4 starting to date guy #2.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Mynd44: 4:01pm On Nov 25, 2012
Cheats
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Nobody: 4:10pm On Nov 25, 2012
Now, What the fark is wrong with that babe? Why date another guy while u are still in a r/ship? Damn! She is bushwa and i only wish the 2 guys will dump her promiscuous arse.
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by cstan(m): 9:37pm On Nov 26, 2012
thank you all for your contributions...she have heard all you said and she have made her decision, she is very grateful to you all! thanks..
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by 190theclown: 12:45am On Nov 27, 2012
later they'll say 190 doesnt know what he's saying

when i say NIGERIAN
You say GIRLS

wHEN I say Nigerians
You say GIRLS

Na their work be this grin grin grin

No offence to my NL sweetheart (You know ure special and better than they are)
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 27, 2012
190-the-clown:
later they'll say 190 doesnt know what he's saying

when i say NIGERIAN
You say GIRLS

wHEN I say Nigerians
You say GIRLS

Na their work be this grin grin grin

No offence to my NL sweetheart (You know ure special and better than they are)
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by dmcdad: 11:14am On Nov 27, 2012
Mynd_44: The girl is noting more than a cheat. And cheats are the lowest form of life on earth.

Bacteria is more important than them

Does this gurl think this is gonna end well if she eventually picks one of them? I think this might also imply that any guy that comes around appearing nicer than the 2nd guy might even get her attention.. Its weird how some gurlz are.. Small time them go say na guys dey always instigate unfaithfulness. Mtchewwwww
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Mynd44: 11:19am On Nov 27, 2012
dmcdad:

Does this gurl think this is gonna end well if she eventually picks one of them? I think this might also imply that any guy that comes around appearing nicer than the 2nd guy might even get her attention.. Its weird how some gurlz are.. Small time them go say na guys dey always instigate unfaithfulness. Mtchewwwww
Thank you
Re: What Would Be Your Take On This Kind Of Issue! by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 27, 2012
Exploring her options lmao...reminds me of the movie 'my girlfriend's boyfriend'

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