Hello Nairalanders,
This question has been bothering my mind for some time now!! How do you know if a lady is your wife to be and
how do you know if a man is your husband to be.
To the married: How do you know he or she is the right one for your life..

Is it through your instinct or through prayer by pastor or you just go ahead...

Consult the Oracle?

Jamey Maxwell: Consult the Oracle?

Is that what you did abi?

You dont, it just happen through spiritual intuation.

Bisichi: You dont, it just happen through spiritual intuation.

okay...you mean intuition right?

Actually, itz betta 2 gt 2 knw each oda well, kauz dahz d foundation of marriage.
If the person involved doesn”t lyke wah he\she seez... The person shud kall it quitz...

Jamey Maxwell: Actually, itz betta 2 gt 2 knw each oda well, kauz dahz d foundation of marriage.
If the person involved doesn”t lyke wah he\she seez... The person shud kall it quitz...

You can't know. You only take a calculated risk

Mynd_44: You can't know. You only take a calculated risk

Hmm... Calculated Risk? That's dangerous oh..

Not all pipo r gud at Maths@ the Calculation Expert.

Jamey Maxwell: Not all pipo r gud at Maths@ the Calculation Expert.

Abi now... Risk thing na so so calculation oo.

MANY THINGS CLD NOT B EXPLAINED IN LIFE. Man is a spiritual bn. Thus, a 'spiritual intuition' implies God's intervention. Courtship help us to know 1anoda but does not always led to a union of couples. It jst happened.

There's no such thing as the right one. It's either you like with their attitude, companionship and aspirations or you don't. When you don't the safest thing to do is back out. Everyone you meet will have their great qualities and their poor ones, its left to decide what you can stand and what you can't. Your pastor can't help you there. Unfortunately a lot of young women and men play pretend only to get into a marriage and start exhibiting a totally different character. Beware of the desperate.

@tai2,nice one but i also think Gods word is part ☀̤̣̈̇f it now. @190 U̶̲̥̅̊ are always the clown.

190-the-clown:
If she's Nigerian and doesn't demand for money - she's the-right one
If he's Nigerian and doesn't give you money but asks for sex regularly - he's the-right one

Oh please

Bad mind people, my frend minds go speak for u jor

Read Bellow and Get ur Answer character and understanding thats what will determine everythn https://www.facebook.com/pastoradeboye/posts/10151194688928488

I don't know. My pastor will have to see the vision for me

https://www.nairaland.com/1117102/just-before-choose-soul-mate

This link answers it all if you will be patient to read it all.

190-the-clown:
If she's Nigerian and doesn't demand for money - she's the-right one
If he's Nigerian and doesn't give you money but asks for sex regularly - he's the-right one

gr8

When your pastors told you that she or he are the peoples.

Watch and observe her overtime, you know what you want in a woman. If she's that person, go for her. However, if you want to really know how she views you, SPY on her. You can use this APPLICATION to get the truth.

Be ready to face the stark truth that may be revealed.

As for me if she looks like keri hilson she's d one

As for her if he is broke n still shares gud tym wif u his d one.

SHE'S D RIGHT ONE COS SHE NEVA LEFT

When u meet the right man or woman, ur instinct will tell u that this is the near perfect partner for u.

I just remain faithful in my relationship, and hoping that God will control everything.

If u both love each oda, if u both can tolerate and stand d oda's excesses, if u both respect each oda, can be able to mk each oda hapi, if u sure U r compatible, if h/s possess wat u r looking out 4 in a man/woman atlst 60% of wat u desire! Den h/s s d right one.

Mynd_44: You can't know. You only take a calculated risk

hmmm, odikwa too risky...

binger: You can know...
1.If he/she possess those qualities you've been looking out for
2.You feel comfortable and excited whenever you see he/she
3.There is a mutual feeling of love and care between you two
4...

better...