Please Read To The Very End.., Certainly Gonna Help You One Way Or The Other.

* Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady… So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife `category’…
* Never let the sweet talks of … guys deceive you, most times they just want to get between your legs and run off thereafter.

*Remove the mentality that guys will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the fewer toasters you shall have.

*Playing ‘too’ hard to get is the worst thing you should ever do, remember, nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE.

*Never extort things from a guy you don’t love, guys always have ways of getting paid back, either through their FRIENDS or total ‘PAID’ STRANGERS….BE CAREFUL.

*Never fool yourself, thinking you can trap a guy through sex. A man will always return to his wife/girlfriend who sex-starve him for months once he loves and trust her. You can never WIN a man over with your body or what you think you got between those legs of yours.

*If all you got for the relationship is the mindset of  EXTRACTING MONEY from him, don’t complain if all he demands from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer…

* Don’t be fooled when guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 80 year old lady they want to get intimate with. It’s a normal thing.., We’ll do it!

*A guy always taking you to SILVERBIRD, FAST FOOD, MALLS AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTRES/NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn’t care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his ‘SOCIAL MATE’ and nothing else…

*If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house or do his laundry, then you ought to know you are his “executive house help”. *If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.

*Don’t always change the TV station from ETV to CRYSTAL TV, MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out. Being a lil caring, wont hurt!

*If the only place he doesn’t frown when you enter is his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren’t welcome (only being used). Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end…?
*You are always with open arms, requesting for something and ready to receive… THE MORE YOU WIDEN YOUR ARMS, THE MORE HE WDENS YOUR LEGS.

*A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings female visitors to the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS ALREADY … BE SMART!

*FINALLY, It’s better to sit in a taxi smiling happily than to be in your husbands fresh air-conditioned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a fresh Gucci shades alongside a Burberry scarf.

@gyusfull says: “JUST REMEMBER THAT, DATING A RICH MAN DOESN’T GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE/LIFE … MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING, MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS MOST”.

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chaircover: Can we have advise for the men too please

L.O.A.D.I.N.G..........

@Poster, here is advice that will serve you better than that crap list you have up there. Stop feeding your brain trash that mo_rons with no job compile . . . spend that time on your books as they contain more facts than that list or any other you can come up all on your own.

Kobojunkie: @Poster, here is advice that will serve you better than that crap list you have up there. Stop feeding your brain trash that mo_rons with no job compile . . . spend that time on your books as they contain more facts than that list or any other you can come up all on your own.

Hello mister, I don't really know ur problem with my post here if it affected you anyway take a free trip to a neraby transformer in your area n hug it.... Wish yu save trip to Hell.. Nicompoop

balance it. One for the guys too.

chaircover: Can we have advise for the men too please

sauer: balance it. One for the guys too.

Ladies love to marry an Independent man who is gainfully employed that is expecting a bounty by month end as salary… For the guys who love to look around for "Omo baba Olowo" to hook up with in other to befit from his GF papa money pls focus on getting your career on the right track in other not to be liability to your woman so that you wont sell your birth- right.

* Ladies love a guy who value his life and have a focus for brighter future not a guy that will just be clubbing all through nights and got home drunk and turn them to punching bags.

* They like a guy thats dress corporately and even when not cooperate (presentably) not a guy dat would put on crazy jean with three boxers then sag with it....

* They love Playing ‘too’ hard to get (which they did intentionally) because they really want to test ur patience and endurance level to know whether you'll will be tolerable at home...

* Ladies love guys with listening hears that they will be free to share their thought with and advice them on how to solve the problem. And the one who will help them plan there future...

* Ladies love it when there guys are up to the task when it come to S*X....

* Ladies love to be cared for as in staying with her when she plait her hair, telling her you are staying with her throughout the day, keeping her company in the kitchen and playing with the kids when shes busy with other things in the house.....

* Ladies love to be fooled especially when you tell them you saw a pretty girl when driving home and you pick up ur phone immediately and call her in other to avoid distraction and to cast ur mind off the gurl not knowing that you even gave the gurl a ride to her place and even set a meeting place the next day.....

* Ladies love guys who take them to places like SILVERBIRD, FAST FOOD, MALLS AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTRES/NATIONAL THEATRE to show affection to them..

* Ladies love to show off with their fiance especially if he's handsome and Behind, so guy pls try to pay attention to ur look if you want your gurl to be proud of you in the midst of her friends...


*FINALLY, Ladies love to sit down in their husband fresh air-conditioned HUMMER H2 smiling wearing a fresh Gucci shades alongside a Burberry scarf rather than joining Taxi at d bus-stop or sitting together on a bike. so guy pls be up to the task if you are ready for a marriage or else you'll just be regarded as a house help when your woman carry another man to your matrimonial home....

@gyusfull says: “JUST REMEMBER THAT, DATING A LADY FROM RICH FAMILY DOESN’T GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE/LIFE … MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING, MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS MOST”.

chaircover:


LooooooooL

Of course we dont like men of integrity, men who respect us, men who work hard, responsible men, men who their yes means yes, we dont like men who make us feel secure, we font like God fearing men, we dont like men who are faithful . . . . . . .all we want is to get to silver bird in a Hummer jeep and he can afford to buy us popcorn

God help us!

Amen ooooooooo
Did you agree with my simple view?

chaircover:

No I didnt . . . because it is very superficial view and you are only looking at money and looks etc and this is one reason why so many women are languishing in bondage today in the name of relationships.

Snagging a good man goes a lot deeper than that; hence my tongue in cheek post.

Are yu a man or a woman?

I agree with your point but ladies nowadays ladies love physical and superficial tinz.. None of them sit down and give it a good thought before jumping into a relationship provided there man is up to d task financially.....

I always wonder why nigerians like unsolicited advice.@ poster d advice wey parents give ladies neva do,shey d one wey u giv dem na im go make dem change,u just typed load of crappp.dat stuff u typed up there is a definition of loads of buls*

kulyie: I always wonder why nigerians like unsolicited advice.@ poster d advice wey parents give ladies neva do,shey d one wey u giv dem na im go make dem change,u just typed load of crappp.dat stuff u typed up there is a definition of loads of buls*

Thanks for ur compliment... crap head

Yusfull:

Thanks for ur compliment... crap head

@ poster u just had to cover up ur high level of ignorance with an insult,anyway,i am not bothered,thats typical of nigerians and nairaland,always cursing and insulting.i wouldnt stoop low to give a sorry ass a reply,d advice is just an apology

kulyie: @ poster u just had to cover up ur high level of ignorance with an insult,anyway,i am not bothered,thats typical of nigerians and nairaland,always cursing and insulting.i wouldnt stoop low to give a sorry ass a reply,d advice is just an apology

Thats ur headache.....hun

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