I used to believe that there are some women who understands but I was proved wrong when I got married. I'm a type of guy that like to say things the way it is. I don't buy the idea of lying to partner. Now I have got know no woman wants to hear the truth.
From my findings,I have realised that women are the cause of change in men's attitude after wedding.
What do you think?

Complete and utter bullshi.t.

If a man changes his attitude it just goes to show that he is irresponsible and that his life is dependent on the woman.

Why would u change your good character in order to please a woman, a good wife should be able to accept her husband d way he is, and d man too must always be transparent enough. Truth is bitter, if she cant cope with it, u just say it, it is now left for her to decide what to do about d matter.

THE THING THERE IS AFTER DAY MARRY DAY THINK DAY HAVE GET EVERY THING IN THE WORLD AND FOR GET TO RD THERE BIBLE AND PRAY .

Maybe.
But, you would have to explain further WITH EXAMPLES!

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@ihediramma what language was that?

Op
People change at times to attune to what they perceive to be what suits their partner. But it's not usually the best because at the end of the day they'll still go back to been their original self. So it is better to remain who you are so that your partner will know you that way. It will be easier for both of you to thoroughly know each other and map out ways to deal with each others' differences.

zayhal: @ihediramma what language was that?

Op
People change at times to attune to what they perceive to be what suits their partner. But it's not usually the best because at the end of the day they'll still go back to been their original self. So it is better to remain who you are so that your partner will know you that way. It will be easier for both of you to thoroughly know each other and map out ways to deal with each others' differences.

THANK YOU! GOD BLESS YOU

AMEN. THATS GOOD ONE . DAY WANT TO MARRY HIM OR HER THAT IS WHY BOUT I BELIVE WHAT U SD NOW .

Chai,women! You can't understand woman. Just play along. Immediately you are become married lies must be part of you if want peace to reign in marriage. All women are not trustworthy. Imagine the mess I found myself this morning,helping a woman to lie to her husband to save her marriage. It's a long I would have to post story as a topic.
I fear woman! All girls may not be the same but all married women are the same.

Anyone who says he can see through women is missing a lot.

omiobo: Chai,women! You can't understand woman. Just play along. Immediately you are become married lies must be part of you if want peace to reign in marriage. All women are not trustworthy. Imagine the mess I found myself this morning,helping a woman to lie to her husband to save her marriage. It's a long I would have to post story as a topic.
I fear woman! All girls may not be the same but all married women are the same.

Guy if you don't post the gist, e go pain person o

Yes ! Am a change in his attitude ! Positive change! A lot is going for us emotional, financial, name it! I love positive chAnge

‎​Ɣε̲̣̣̣̥S̶̲̥̅,I think they do,the thing is that most women feel that as soon as they get married(landed their man) they've arrived,they then go about wearing wrapper and getting fat then thus become very unattractive......the man will look else where with time .Speaking 4rm experience

Of course if pple don't change is it God that will change? I ve a guy who wants a girl that is a party type not quite so if we end up together i'll change to suit him b4 he gets another girl.

AND HOW DOES THIS AFFECT THE PRICE OF GARRI AND FRIED YAM IN OWERRI IMO STATE? I BEG NEXT TOPIC JOOR

YES

nedu2000: ‎​Ɣε̲̣̣̣̥S̶̲̥̅,I think they do,the thing is that most women feel that as soon as they get married(landed their man) they've arrived,they then go about wearing wrapper and getting fat then thus become very unattractive......the man will look else where with time .Speaking 4rm experience

Yes, yes, yes, I feel you die!!!!!!!!!

ihedioramma: THE THING THERE IS AFTER DAY MARRY DAY THINK DAY HAVE GET EVERY THING IN THE WORLD AND FOR GET TO RD THERE BIBLE AND PRAY .

Did you even understand what you wrote ^there? Cross-check and re-post.

Wen a man whu had a milion naira b4 mariage now has 20,000 after bride price.,traditional mariage and church mariage/reception.why wont he change

ihedioramma: THE THING THERE IS AFTER DAY MARRY DAY THINK DAY HAVE GET EVERY THING IN THE WORLD AND FOR GET TO RD THERE BIBLE AND PRAY .

na wao @ur language

mumumugu: Wen a man whu had a milion naira b4 mariage now has 20,000 after bride price.,traditional mariage and church mariage/reception.why wont he change

You got a point there, bro!

Am really sorry, but i dont the type of English some people speak here.

Plz peeps, cross_check before you post.

Lets not confuse some kids who are now getting interested in Nairaland website.

There is always a reason for every action; Probably the husband return home later than usual.

@poster,
are you saying you told your beloved wife a truth and she got furious with you about it?
hmmm -pray tell,
what is that truth?

ihedioramma: THE THING THERE IS AFTER DAY MARRY DAY THINK DAY HAVE GET EVERY THING IN THE WORLD AND FOR GET TO RD THERE BIBLE AND PRAY .

Bros.... How far nah? WW3 dun start?

I don't care if my wife changes after the wedding because I anticipate it and therefore would have contingency plans in place to address such issues.

Women (especially Nigerian women) needs real iron hand, a husband needs to forge them into what he wants by any means necessary

endless relationship questions. even the generation that need signs cannot understands signs.

those who seem to know too much and advice others, still face the challenges and fall.

This generation is so Knowledgeable, but the weakest ever.

won't say more; coz its beyond the human brain.

ozodigboo: Am really sorry, but i dont the type of English some people speak here.

Plz peeps, cross_check before you post.

Lets not confuse some kids who are now getting interested in Nairaland website.

But you didn't cross check yours, because if you did, you could have seen your error on the first line.

Practise what you preach, talk is cheap.

50calibre: I don't care if my wife changes after the wedding because I anticipate it and therefore would have contingency plans in place to address such issues.

Women (especially Nigerian women) needs real iron hand, a husband needs to forge them into what he wants by any means necessary

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Lasinoh: Maybe.
But, you would have to explain further WITH EXAMPLES!

Amebor!
Just say u wan hear d full gist! :p