Teejayphillip: Bein possessive as 2 du wit d way u act.... Ow on earth as a man wil I date sumone whu's zo possessive rite 4rm d start... In as much as am loyal,carin n romantic,I dnt tolerate rubbish...

If I notice ur act of bein possessive,I'll rada take it out of u,or we both go seperate wayz... We all ave d traits of jealous,bur ow we tend 2 act mata's a lot...

2me my wife waz d greatest gift my God gave 2 me... I jus zo much luf her character,even dough sumtimes we ave misunderstanding...

Is she dead or av u divorced her?

carefreewannabe: One of my ex boyfriends was possessive and extremely jealous. It was hell on earth!

. One of your;that means you had so many of them.

yes smhw mi ex tried to be possessive, choosin where i work nd d kind of frnds i keep. Thank God i reused dat nonsense cos it would ve bin d worse after the breakup. To u out der never change ur life to please pple cos at the end of the day u will surely regret y did so.

Lemme see...
Am a secret agent, sowie i don't have time for gals. Hmmmmm Love once weaken ya. If in future i've one... Lemme see , Possessive? Nigeria gals are not. Period!!!

biggzman: . One of your;that means you had so many of them.

Hahaha na today?She dey change em like wrapper.I wonder what will be left for her would be husband,Poor him.Having to drill a soakaway pit.Hmm.No friction!I don die!

Popowaa: i resigned oo,we had a fight n he told because i had a job i'm behaving like an independent woman which he hates n dat he ll teach me a lesson,unknowingly he had taken my boss number from de fone,he called him n threaten him to stay off me if he does not any trouble.went to job n my boss called me to be careful of de guy.de embarrasement alone made me break up with de guy.he didnt understand n started threatening my boss till it got violent so i had to resign.

my dear 9ja gurls av gotten 2 a level dat men are begining 2 stop trusting dem wt their dads.(afterall a lady sh.aggd her father in law in ogun+PDP)
Most men wnt admit it here cos they are actn up "civilizd" bt a nigerian gurl wt her 70 yr old Prof lecturer are lyk NNPC & FEC(they both provide 4 ich oda) talkless of a boss in a private firm.
A girl once told me dat her boss was so nice he gives her 200k 2 shop. I investigatd n found out dat d man's wife suffers total neglect 4rm d same man.

megareal: God! that was the most terrible time in my life. The guy I never dated was over possessive. I said no to his advances over a hundred times but he claimed I was his wife and still pestered me. He'll come to the hostel at odd hours just to find me. He never allowed me a minute rest. Will abandon his job and come to the lecture hall to sit in during lectures and harass my lecturers if they so much as looked at me. He flooded my corner with gifts I never wanted. He came to my house during the holidays to peep into my room over the fence in the middle of every night! My mum once poured hot water on him thinking he was a thief. He called my guy up in Lagos and told him to leave me that I was preggers for him and this is a guy I never slept with for even a day o. He threatened any man he saw with me, from colleagues to friends. He labeled me his woman on campus and no amount of explanation made people to believe I had nothing to do with him. The whole thing was a big nightmare. Detaching him from my life was like trying to detach a leech from your flesh without using salt. Finally I gave him the greatest showdown of all times, I called some bad boys on him but not before he ruined the relationship I had (though I don't regret it one bit). When I finally got him out of my life, he went to a babalawo to make juju for me not to marry. His friend reported the thing to me and I almost committed murder that day. Thank God I'm now married and the nonsense is behind me. Now I hear he still visits churches for pastors to pray for me to accept him. The guys was and is still loco.

u be oprah winfrey daughter?

tawa89: u be oprah winfrey daughter?

I tire o!Guys dey fall hands big time.Babe no want u just dey make am feel like Beyonce,na wa oh.

Gabriel_sylar: hmmmmmm I will advice u to hold him well cos by the toime u biological clocks 35 u will wish otherwise.....ure running ur mouth now cos u tink u are still young and preety and listening to bad advices from ur gal friends who will take him away as soon as dump him due to flimy excuse of him being possessive...its natiral in a world of BB and 2go and FB ladies are becoming emotionally solvent and hence guys are more paranoid ....but remember we guys are predators and the “beautiful ones re yet to be born“ so enjoy what u have while it lasts and u may JUST be lucky it may last forever

most sensible post here!
Wt d advent of social networks gals are now online indecency stars & emotional wrecks. Washing their mind 2 total strangers they jus met online abt anythn & everythn.
Love & relationshp goes wt policing each other. If absent, there is no love. U cnt eat ur cake n have it.

I once did, but when I knew it, I stopped the next okada and zoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pls can somebody advise me what to eat dis evening
Beans and garri
Or Garri and egusi soup
Or just drink. Garri and top am up with milk n sugar

megareal: God! that was the most terrible time in my life. The guy I never dated was over possessive. I said no to his advances over a hundred times but he claimed I was his wife and still pestered me. He'll come to the hostel at odd hours just to find me. He never allowed me a minute rest. Will abandon his job and come to the lecture hall to sit in during lectures and harass my lecturers if they so much as looked at me. He flooded my corner with gifts I never wanted. He came to my house during the holidays to peep into my room over the fence in the middle of every night! My mum once poured hot water on him thinking he was a thief. He called my guy up in Lagos and told him to leave me that I was preggers for him and this is a guy I never slept with for even a day o. He threatened any man he saw with me, from colleagues to friends. He labeled me his woman on campus and no amount of explanation made people to believe I had nothing to do with him. The whole thing was a big nightmare. Detaching him from my life was like trying to detach a leech from your flesh without using salt. Finally I gave him the greatest showdown of all times, I called some bad boys on him but not before he ruined the relationship I had (though I don't regret it one bit). When I finally got him out of my life, he went to a babalawo to make juju for me not to marry. His friend reported the thing to me and I almost committed murder that day. Thank God I'm now married and the nonsense is behind me. Now I hear he still visits churches for pastors to pray for me to accept him. The guys was and is still loco.

Nope, i've neva dated any but i almost had the spirit of possesiveness in me until i dealt wit myself immediately. Thank God i came out of it.

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Kirinwa: Hahaha na today?She dey change em like wrapper.I wonder what will be left for her would be husband,Poor him.Having to drill a soakaway pit.Hmm.No friction!I don die!

This is unwarranted, undeserved, needless and inexcusable. Y'all are so bitter on this site. It's in poor taste and says a lot about your person!;(

ChopUrMoni: YES! I felt like someone was choking the life out of me in the relationship. Felt like a caged pet. He was the first Nigerian guy i have ever dated and since then i have been terrified of them... Seriously a nightmare . I can still remember his voice saying "you can't, you shouldn't, i told you not to do this and that". Oh good im so glad to be set free from that relationship...

You need not be afraid, dearie. Don't let him spoil the good naija guys for you.
I get what you say, though. I was there too. Thank goodness I'm making progress errday!

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ChopUrMoni:
so nasty! I think u just described ur wife to be. Congratulations!

God purnish you.Waka Shege!U no dey fear face

cyril83: A possessive person can never date a possessive person so therefore i am one myself and am okay with it, if you can't abide by my rules then get d f*ck out

I feel being Possessive is a natural thing, it can be managed but not completely eliminated..... I will appreciate a "Possessively Caring" lady.

babyosisi: All men are possessive
Every single one
Any man that denies it is both possessive and also a liar
It is their nature to mark their territory and stay in charge and guard it jealously some are just worse than others
If your man is not a tad possessive,he is either not into you or he is gay

I cannot say it any better.

pc guru:
Nice one i hate pple like that my aunt ended up with one and he stopped her from working and she was a big time banker,now she earns less than her peers

Why the thing they pain you? or she no dey settle u like b4 abi

My girl is d most possessive girl in d world.. She would want only me nd her to stay 24 hours a day nd would question any she dat cums close to me..

Possessiveness in a relationship is a very dangerous issue to a lady or a man. If either is possessive, it could lead to murder because each will be looking for his/her partner to be for him/her alone. When you notice that your boyfriend wants to know who calls you, whom you are speaking with, wants to always check your phone, always wanting to check your bag, checking your going out and coming in, as a lady, run for your dear life because he can kill. If a lady is after you, wanting to know any lady you speak with, wanting to know why you never came back home when you promised, checking your phone, your bag, even questions you about everything and wanting to be left alone with you and no breeding space, run because if she sees you with an opposite partner, she can kill you and end her own life.

Possessiveness in relationship is very dangerous. Love should be balanced and allowed to be worked out and not at all cost, I must have him or her to me alone is dangerous issue in every relationship. One should not love someone more than himself or herself. Only God you can put your love.

My ex garl was worse than possesive.she demands the attention that even kanye west will nt give kim k.once she flashes my line and i delay for 2 minutes before calling her,there will be fire on the mountain.tank God i ran.

oh yea.....wen i threatened 2brk up,.she cald my mum 2beg me nt 2 leave her..... Total hogwash! I stil went ahead,changed mi numb...n stil hiding frm her! Gosh.*

@andyanders.
Thank you. And to think some peeps are asking for it. I was just smh!

Dem neva jam overpossessiveness before. They should ask from the people that have experience first hand.
Trouble dey sleep, yanga wan go wake am!

lola.luv:
@andyanders.
Thank you. And to think some peeps are asking for it. I was just smh!

Dem neva jam overpossessiveness before. They should ask from the people that have experience first hand.
Trouble dey sleep, yanga wan go wake am!

U welcome. further to my earlier comment, to me, I still think possessiveness is a demonic decease that needs to be handled carefully. If a man wants to have you at all cost, be careful and trade softly. When a man or a lady start making statement of, lets be alone, do our thing alone and cannot do without each other,always wanting not to see anybody, is a dangerous issue cos if it goes sour, you might regret it.

Why i go dey disturb myself because of woman?If she want make she travel for 1month,i no send am...

I once married the worst possesive woman. She is caring, cooks well, domestically neat, industrious and even spends on me when i am broke. But..hmmmm, i saw hell with her. She hate to kiss, she never make love with any kind of light on, she never allow me to make love to her during the day, she never allow me to touch, feel her pus*y with my fingers, she hates all kinds of s*x styles except the missionary style and will never touch or play with my di*k. I believe she is down posses. I called her severally and even invited her pastor just to know what the problem was, but to no avail. I broke up the relationship after 15yrs. Now i am scared of every lady. Thank God i had two kids 4rm her. I just want to take care of my kids and be happy with the rest of my life.

onoerime: I once married the worst possesive woman. She is caring, cooks well, domestically neat, industrious and even spends on me when i am broke. But..hmmmm, i saw hell with her. She hate to kiss, she never make love with any kind of light on, she never allow me to make love to her during the day, she never allow me to touch, feel her pus*y with my fingers, she hates all kinds of s*x styles except the missionary style and will never touch or play with my di*k. I believe she is down posses. I called her severally and even invited her pastor just to know what the problem was, but to no avail. I broke up the relationship after 15yrs. Now i am scared of every lady. Thank God i had two kids 4rm her. I just want to take care of my kids and be happy with the rest of my life.

This must be the most flimsy divorce excuse ever...

onoerime: I once married the worst possesive woman. She is caring, cooks well, domestically neat, industrious and even spends on me when i am broke. But..hmmmm, i saw hell with her. She hate to kiss, she never make love with any kind of light on, she never allow me to make love to her during the day, she never allow me to touch, feel her pus*y with my fingers, she hates all kinds of s*x styles except the missionary style and will never touch or play with my di*k. I believe she is down posses. I called her severally and even invited her pastor just to know what the problem was, but to no avail. I broke up the relationship after 15yrs. Now i am scared of every lady. Thank God i had two kids 4rm her. I just want to take care of my kids and be happy with the rest of my life.

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