born2fuck: When boys have gone to malaysia to sell kidneys and the available ones sitting on system working hard to make money everyday, some in office sweating on counters, working 3 people jobs all in the name bank and you want them to come back pursuing women all in the name of what? when they can easily pick prostitutes and move on with their making money venture nextday.no time

Actually this does make sense and i rationalize this too except for the prostitute part, with the amount of price hike and NEPA issues and Job issues, chasing women is no longer a smart choice, because the energy used in chasing women, like those 2 guys chasing a babe for 2 years, imagine they put that energy into a business venture.

mascot87: Oh girls!!!! Sometimes I wonder what they really want in a guy. Their is this girl that I had a crush on so bad and I worked up to her and expressed my desire to go on a date with her. I spend @least 4 hours (fact) with her everyday for 3 weeks ( I am very serious) to consider my option and give me a trial but I can tell u categorically and enfatically that I wasted my previous time on her as I got a negative reply till d day I got fed up. I used all I have but she proved so unconvinced. I later let go and till today, I find it difficult to work up to a lady I like and waste my Precious time trying to let her see reason why she should give me a chance and prove my love for her because of my previous experiences. Ladies are to heartless. I can only go for a lady that I can see that she is also interested in me and I will NEVER EVER spend 2 days trying to woo a girl in my life again. If I ask u out on a date and u wanna think about it, I will ask u JUST ONE MORE TIME and after that I signout complete if no positive response. If you are mine them I won't have trouble getting u @least Adam didn't have trouble with Eve. Ladies of our days are not serious and when they start getting to there expiring period,they put there blame on some witches and wizards in there village. My experience and opinion

You are a good boy. You learnt your lessons quick.

pc guru:
Actually this does make sense and i rationalize this too except for the prostitute part, with the amount of price hike and NEPA issues and Job issues, chasing women is no longer a smart choice, because the energy used in chasing women, like those 2 guys chasing a babe for 2 years, imagine they put that energy into a business venture.

pick up quick service when kongi hold man, not until living in brothel job, all work no play make jack a dull boy..... No time for pursuing women jooh! Boys of today MMM Money Making Machine

its true and am sure d ladies caused it by over delaying d hide nd seek game.dey dont always no wen 2stop nd say yes. guess dey get carried away

Sagamite:

Your mental welfare should be the government's concern.

Lord have mercy!!, I don laff sotey I wan begin cry, this is what makes NL fun.

@topic. With all due respect to the ladies, I don't think any woman is worth 'wasting' time over. How do you expect a guy to 'chase' you for 2 years!!!, such a guy is either jobless and very ugly or has a low self esteem. If a lady really likes a guy she will go out with him in good time and not make him 'oversweat'. Whether you spend 10 days wooing a lady or 10 years is irrelevant, if babe like you, she like you be that, and if she no like you, if you like spend a century chasing after her, it won't work. All the wasted energy and time can be channeled towards making meaningful impact elsewhere.

By the way who wants to waste all that time chasing a skirt when life is so ephemeral and there are tons of things yet unachieved. Boys don wise up joor, seek yee first the kingdom of success (especially financial success) and almost every other thing shall be added unto you. I have spoken.

actually i see nothing wrong sleeping with a prostitute just that am not used to the whole concept of paying for sex,its new to me.

I don't purse women b/cos A̶̲̅♍ more focus in pursuing money...when I have gotten what I wanted, belive M̶̲̥̅Ƹ that then women Ẉ̲̣̣̣̲̣̣ȋ̝̊̅̄ƪ̣̥,ƪ̣̥, never be a problem..ßΰђ now I pretend I don't Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ them.. Since I can pay for sexx, what again! ☺

dick hardener: No be the hungry, wretched ashawos wey surround u make u dey think like that. There are women and there are women. I know very few who don't give a flying fuc.k what u have or who u are.

you are too magnanimous - this loser hasnt seen a real woman's toto since he came out of his mother's own.

look the closest this loser gets to toto is WWWP - WANKING WHILE WATCHING PO..RN

oluwaisaac:
After pursuing you, u go out there and look for hard men who don't care...ewu!

[Standing Ovation]

These kids are learning from Saga's lectures sha.

teeowl:

It means the guys chasing you are NOT valuable on the dating scene! Valuable men do NOT chase... they persist confidently and suavely 2, 3 or 4 times and they move on! They know they can get another girl so why stay on a girls case for too long!

Reason out what I wrote without emotion and don't lash back at me with insults!

Why would you make conclusions on something you know absolutely nothing about?

I replied the topic based on how the OP asked the question, how do you know the men who "pursue" me are not valuable because they may have stayed on my case for a period longer than what you think it should be?

A man should stay on a girl's case for as long as he feels he should, if a man genuinely loves me and wants to pursue me forever who are you to say he's got nothing to offer?

Joliecoco: cause they are not men , they are little boys. Real men have the guts to talk to a woman and pursue her.

As usual, reference to the "real men", i.e. trained mugus.

just passing oh

k2039: Infact, it's extreme stupidity to chase a girl for that long, their are billions of girls in the world, it just doesn't make minimum sense chasing a single gorl for that long when their are others who are far better than her.

The two guys are extreme mumus.

They are "real men"!

The problem with ladies is that they have unrealistic expectations of men...
Any girl that wants an intelligent, confident, suave, handsome, rich and tall man to chase her for 2 months or 2 years needs to start believing that one day PIGS WOULD START FLYING WITHOUT WINGS!

teeowl:

It means the guys chasing you are NOT valuable on the dating scene! Valuable men do NOT chase... they persist confidently and suavely 2, 3 or 4 times and they move on! They know they can get another girl so why stay on a girls case for too long!

Reason out what I wrote without emotion and don't lash back at me with insults!

Another [Standing Ovation]

Sagamite:

They are "real men"!

trained mugus.;

teeowl: The problem with ladies is that they have unrealistic expectations of men...
Any girl that wants an intelligent, confident, suave, handsome, rich and tall man to chase her for 2 months or 2 years needs to start believing that one day PIGS WOULD START FLYING WITHOUT WINGS!

When their are thousands of lady flocking after him.

Harvard-Grad:


Lord have mercy!!, I don laff sotey I wan begin cry, this is what makes NL fun.

@topic. With all due respect to the ladies, I don't think any woman is worth 'wasting' time over. How do you expect a guy to 'chase' you for 2 years!!!, such a guy is either jobless and very ugly or has a low self esteem. If a lady really likes a guy she will go out with him in good time and not make him 'oversweat'. Whether you spend 10 days wooing a lady or 10 years is irrelevant, if babe like you, she like you be that, and if she no like you, if you like spend a century chasing after her, it won't work. All the wasted energy and time can be channeled towards making meaningful impact elsewhere.

By the way who wants to waste all that time chasing a skirt when life is so ephemeral and there are tons of things yet unachieved. Boys don wise up joor, seek yee first the kingdom of success (especially financial success) and almost every other thing shall be added unto you. I have spoken.

Well said!

I know when a girl does not dig me, hence I should waka pass and move on.

No girl is worth chasing. And if a girl likes you when you show interest she would do her best to make you happy you did.

cap28:



you are too magnanimous - this loser hasnt seen a real woman's toto since he came out of his mother's own.

look the closest this loser gets to toto is WWWP - WANKING WHILE WATCHING PO..RN

Faggottt, shut up!

And don't post videos of gay men you love watching on youtube on this thread.

Bloody poof!

freecocoa: Why would you make conclusions on something you know absolutely nothing about?

I replied the topic based on how the OP asked the question, how do you know the men who "pursue" me are not valuable because they may have stayed on my case for a period longer than what you think it should be?

A man should stay on a girl's case for as long as he feels he should, if a man genuinely loves me and wants to pursue me forever who are you to say he's got nothing to offer?

Valuable men all know that there is no girl that is the ONE! They know that there is an abundance of good girls that fit their criteria as long as they are willing to make the effort to meet them. A valuable man would rather make a phone call to 30 girls 3 times than make a phone call to 1 girl 90 times.... In the first case, he learns a lot about female psychology and at the end of the day, his chances of being the kind of guy that his dream girl also likes improves drastically. As for the 2nd case of calling 1 girl 90 times, he gives up 100% of the control to the girl and has no say in the interaction! Valuable men are fiercely aware of that fact!!!!

A VALUABLE MAN CANNOT PURSUE A GIRL FOR 2 YEARS... BECAUSE HE HAS THE LOOKS, SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE, INTERPERSONAL SKILLS AND FINANCES TO GET THE KIND OF DREAM GIRL THAT HE WANTS!

A valuable man CANNOT purse a woman for 2 years... Can u imagine C.Ronaldo, Usher, Tyrese, Trey Songs pursuing a woman for 2 years?.... IMPOSSIBLE!!!

Trained Mugus!

I don die o!

Why pursue something that's not running?

freecocoa: Why would you make conclusions on something you know absolutely nothing about?

I replied the topic based on how the OP asked the question, how do you know the men who "pursue" me are not valuable because they may have stayed on my case for a period longer than what you think it should be?

A man should stay on a girl's case for as long as he feels he should, if a man genuinely loves me and wants to pursue me forever who are you to say he's got nothing to offer?

It would be harsh to say he has nothing to offer. But it would be apt to say he has something in his head that needs to be checked by a certified professional.

freecocoa: Why would you make conclusions on something you know absolutely nothing about?

I replied the topic based on how the OP asked the question, how do you know the men who "pursue" me are not valuable because they may have stayed on my case for a period longer than what you think it should be?

A man should stay on a girl's case for as long as he feels he should, if a man genuinely loves me and wants to pursue me forever who are you to say he's got nothing to offer?

He will only demonstrate extreme stupidity at that.

Between Freecocoa and K2039, we know a guy who waits for a girl who doesn't show the interest that she wants him is not just only stupi.d but also suffering from low self esteem.

That was then when woman was woman! Not now when they become something else..........

@poster
Na me and you from now on
"Dikwa ready"

Harvard-Grad:


@topic. With all due respect to the ladies, I don't think any woman is worth 'wasting' time over. How do you expect a guy to 'chase' you for 2 years!!!, such a guy is either jobless and very ugly or has a low self esteem. If a lady really likes a guy she will go out with him in good time and not make him 'oversweat'. Whether you spend 10 days wooing a lady or 10 years is irrelevant, if babe like you, she like you be that, and if she no like you, if you like spend a century chasing after her, it won't work. All the wasted energy and time can be channeled towards making meaningful impact elsewhere.

By the way who wants to waste all that time chasing a skirt when life is so ephemeral and there are tons of things yet unachieved. Boys don wise up joor, seek yee first the kingdom of success (especially financial success) and almost every other thing shall be added unto you. I have spoken.

Lmao @ the bolded...

Well said - imagine chics also giving useless rules like: no kissing on the first date, no sex for the first 6 months etc. like it's going to make any difference whatsoever... Guys are frustrated and most can't be ars.ed anymore - and they'd rather chase "other things" with greater returns than chase women... At the end of the day, when they become a success in achieving those "other things" - they'll get more women with ease...

@ Ladies
If you had a son chasing a lady for 2 years, wouldn't you scold him?


But women wicked sha o! Na so one tell say I have to woo and pursue her like a gentleman; yes, she literally told me so. Na so I knack her best friend. I just show am sey if you no ready, another person dey kampe. The kain curse wey she rain for my head when she find out, oh boy, come see creative curse.

Times af changed o.

Teeowl and Sagamite.

That one concern una, I don't see why I need to argue about this topic.

I dey go sleep.

afam4eva: Why pursue something that's not running?

Bwahahahahahahahahaha

DEAD!! - R.I.P on the day the world ended according to the mayans...

ChopUrMoni: Have you ever played hide and seek? If you have, then you know that once the person has been found by the finder its not the end of the game. The person found must run and the finder would have to pursue until they have caught them. Then and only then is the the game over.

I have noticed a trend among a lot of men. They have become so lazy that they do not bother chasing the girl they love. The saying "ah... its just a girl, they are many more out there" and "she's playing hard to get, i cant be bothered and she's not the only beautiful girl out there anyway" have become so popular among men especially black men.

What happened to the value of chasing a woman? Why has it become so worthless and looked down upon. Would men of today have survived many years ago. Men in those days didn't complain when they pursued the girl they loved, in many cases suffered in the hands of the girls family and then paid a massive amount to have her as his wife. Today it's a lot easier yet men are not willing or should I say are too lazy to pursue the woman of their dreams. Oh i forgot... there are too many fishes in sea. Why bother right?

Men, we love to be pursued and conquered by you. Why do you all think the stories of Cinderella, Snow white, Rapunzel and the like are so loved by girls? They all had one thing in common. A prince who not only found them but also fought for them. Trust me we love to be chased and caught by you.

If you are not serious with the girl then don't bother. But, if you do love her don't allow you friends to push you to get over her after she has rejected you twice. Try a little harder than twice. I noticed white guys have always chased me fervently. But when it comes to black men, even though they profess to loving me so deeply they don't bother if i don't respond to them after a specific time. If any race of man on earth should know how to pursue a woman fervently until he captures her it should be a black man because thats what you fathers and grand fathers did. It's in your DNA So now, what are you waiting for? Get started!

Honestly a lot of girls out there are not worth it! Some of you broads of nowadays are so vain! So materialistic and so fickle makes more sense to chase the greenbacks

You look at some girls and apart from what's between their legs there's truly not much else they bring to the table.

omo_to_dun: @ Ladies

If you had a son chasing a lady for 2 years, wouldn't you scold him?

But women wicked sha o! Na so one tell say I have to woo and pursue her like a gentleman; yes, she literally told me so. Na so I knack her best friend. I just show am sey if you no ready, another person dey kampe. The kain curse wey she rain for my head when she find out, oh boy, come see creative curse.

Times af changed o.

I gbadun you!!!!! No time, if one no do, another girl go do,no time for pursue, pursue money not Women