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We Need More Black Men Like This... by ChopUrMoni: 9:10am On Dec 22, 2012
[b]Film executive DeVon Franklin and actress Meagan Good made headlines when they jumped the broom in July — not only because of their beautiful, Hollywood-style wedding, but also because the couple famously touted their commitment to celibacy before marriage.
So how did Franklin, who'd gone 10 years without sex, and his bride-to-be make it work during their courtship? "We held each other accountable because we honored the commitment," he tells ESSENCE.com. "And we both were already committed to it."
The newlywed, who calls married life with Good blissful, credits his drive to obtain his higher purpose in life for keeping him focused. "I believe we all are called to a higher purpose," says Franklin. "That is the greatest motivator. What if I never get to my purpose because my lifestyle never leads me there? The poor choices in my life are the barrier to me getting to my purpose."


Franklin believes that marriage's higher purpose is love and healing. "The idea of disrupting that or potentially corrupting the union by doing anything less than honoring our commitment kept us both motivated and committed to keeping each other accountable," he says.
As for kids in the near future, Franklin says he and Good are in no rush to have a little one. "We just got married," Franklin says, laughing. "We have to learn each other as husband and wife first."

THIS IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT! A MAN WILLING TO WAIT 1O YEARS BEFORE HE SLEEPS WITH THE WOMAN HE LOVES... THANK GOD FOR MEN LIKE DEVON!!! smiley smiley smiley
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Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 9:14am On Dec 22, 2012
They were dating for the ten years, they got married after ten years.
They were both commited to the relationship, so what's your point.


Besides this is one out of I billion cases.

I can date you for ten years but dont expect me to propose to you and wait for a month without you telling me you are in.

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Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by hrmkz: 9:16am On Dec 22, 2012
Hope for hopeless!
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 9:18am On Dec 22, 2012
One trait about Hollywood marriages- they mostly end in divorce.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by ChopUrMoni: 9:20am On Dec 22, 2012
[size=16pt]I'm sorry... I refuse to comment on this thread. Read or don't read. Comment or don't comment. I have learned from my previous post that a lot of people don't like discuss just fights and insults. I don't have the energy. Peace [/size] lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 9:24am On Dec 22, 2012
How the fvck were they celibate for 10 years when Meagan Good was getting her back blown out by NFL player, Thomas Jones, up until two years ago

This nigga is GAY!! - next... undecided undecided

Meagan Good and Thomas Jones
[img][/img]

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Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 9:30am On Dec 22, 2012
ChopUrMoni: [size=16pt]I'm sorry... I refuse to comment on this thread. Read or don't read. Comment or don't comment. I have learned from my previous post that a lot of people don't like discuss just fights and insults. I don't have the energy. Peace [/size] lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
You just demonstrated to us all that you are mentally unstable.

Why open a thread when you knew you werent ready for the debate.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by ChopUrMoni: 9:43am On Dec 22, 2012
k2039:
You just demonstrated to us all that you are mentally unstable.

Why open a thread when you knew you werent ready for the debate.

Thank you. God bless you smiley
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 22, 2012
shymexx: How the fvck were they celibate for 10 years when Meagan Good was getting her back blown out by NFL player, Thomas Jones, up until two years ago

This nigga is GAY!! - next... undecided undecided

Meagan Good and Thomas Jones
[img][/img]

Thank you! The guy is gay cheesy
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 22, 2012
ChopUrMoni: [size=16pt]I'm sorry... I refuse to comment on this thread. Read or don't read. Comment or don't comment. I have learned from my previous post that a lot of people don't like discuss just fights and insults. I don't have the energy. Peace [/size] lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Get used to it, this is nairaland! It's naija style all the way.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 10:20am On Dec 22, 2012
@K2039

They weren't dating for ten years. They started dating in 2011 upon meeting on the set of Jumping The Broom, a movie in which Devon was a co-producer. He, however, was on a 10-year celibacy before meeting Meagan, and according to the couple, the celibacy continued throughout the courtship.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 22, 2012
we don't need more men like devon cos there is no where 'twas wriiten that devon is the perfect role model or that he is the best mr perfect..

Cos someone is deflowered doesn't mean he or she is bad.that belief is disgusting and archaic.he has been celibate for 10 years doesn't mean he has never boned any chick before...

What we need is a man/woman that won't cheat on his/her woman/man.a man/woman that will love and cherish his/her partner.that appreciate his/her partner and is ready accept his/her flaws and not a devon.

Even tiger woods that was an angel before everyone's eys turned out a serial flirt...HAPPY MARRIED megan and devon.you guys look cute together

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Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by blazingtrain: 11:27am On Dec 22, 2012
Nice guy.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by duni04(m): 11:48am On Dec 22, 2012
Lol..same hollywood? Like d op is actually comparing hollywood romance with reality? Can't wait for the breakup story
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Goldieluks: 11:55am On Dec 22, 2012
k2039: They were dating for the ten years, they got married after ten years.
They were both commited to the relationship, so what's your point.


Besides this is one out of I billion cases.

I can date you for ten years but dont expect me to propose to you and wait for a month without you telling me you are in.


Duh! After dating for ten years, what is one month that you are now so impatient and can't wait?? Typical Nigerian men hasty attitude huh?
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 12:01pm On Dec 22, 2012
He is handsome.

What was the thread abt again? LOL
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by turl(m): 12:32pm On Dec 22, 2012
lol
shymexx: How the fvck were they celibate for 10 years when Meagan Good was getting her back blown out by NFL player, Thomas Jones, up until two years ago

This nigga is GAY!! - next... undecided undecided

Meagan Good and Thomas Jones
[img][/img]
Gbamus!
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Meegadough: 12:34pm On Dec 22, 2012
Wait... They got to be kidding. They dated for ten years without sex? Hehehe, that ain't it! there is something wrong some where? I mean it. Damn... Can' t even date a month without sex, talk more of dating one girl for as long as ten year.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by chic2pimp(m): 12:39pm On Dec 22, 2012
Meegadough: Wait... They got to be kidding. They dated for ten years without sex? Hehehe, that ain't it! there is something wrong some where? I mean it. Damn... Can' t even date a month without sex, talk more of dating one girl for as long as ten year.

May be He waited for Ten Years but Megan Good certainly did not. And that's a FACT!!!
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by huninaija(f): 1:34pm On Dec 22, 2012
@chophismoni, i hope to God we don't get any more "black men" like devon, therein lies your problem, this is a pastor a leader of a church yet is chasing a woman Like megan up and down hollywood. Makes you wonder what kind of man he is in the firs place, i mean not to be judgemental but what the heck was he thinking? People wake up, hollywood is a lie its main aim is to enice the weakligs! Wake up!!
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Nobody: 1:43pm On Dec 22, 2012
you guys shouldn't be confused. They just started dating last year but Devon had been celibate for 9 years prior to them meeting. definitely, Meagan was shaggging every guy out there before they metundecided
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 2:07pm On Dec 22, 2012
Goldieluks:


Duh! After dating for ten years, what is one month that you are now so impatient and can't wait?? Typical Nigerian men hasty attitude huh?
I guess you probably don?t know my age, if you add ten years to my age, I will have grown grey hair by then.

Besides I don't have a problem with dating for as long as you want, my point has always been how long it takes a girl to say yes to a man.

Think about it, why should I waste my time waiting for a girl when I'm not sure she will say yes, it just sounds stupi.d to me.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 2:10pm On Dec 22, 2012
omo_to_dun: @K2039

They weren't dating for ten years. They started dating in 2011 upon meeting on the set of Jumping The Broom, a movie in which Devon was a co-producer. He, however, was on a 10-year celibacy before meeting Meagan, and according to the couple, the celibacy continued throughout the courtship.
Thanks jare.

ChopUrMoni I don't see the relevant of this thread then, since it didn't address the issue at hand.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2012
joeydozzy: you guys shouldn't be confused. They just started dating last year but Devon had been celibate for 9 years prior to them meeting. definitely, Meagan was shaggging every guy out there before they metundecided

She certainly did confuse me, she was trying to justify the thread she opened yesterday and from what you guys wrote she certainly has no point.
Re: We Need More Black Men Like This... by Dabss(m): 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2012
ChopUrMoni: [b]Film executive DeVon Franklin and actress Meagan Good made headlines when they jumped the broom in July — not only because of their beautiful, Hollywood-style wedding, but also because the couple famously touted their commitment to celibacy before marriage.
So how did Franklin, who'd gone 10 years without sex, and his bride-to-be make it work during their courtship? "We held each other accountable because we honored the commitment," he tells ESSENCE.com. "And we both were already committed to it."
The newlywed, who calls married life with Good blissful, credits his drive to obtain his higher purpose in life for keeping him focused. "I believe we all are called to a higher purpose," says Franklin. "That is the greatest motivator. What if I never get to my purpose because my lifestyle never leads me there? The poor choices in my life are the barrier to me getting to my purpose."


Franklin believes that marriage's higher purpose is love and healing. "The idea of disrupting that or potentially corrupting the union by doing anything less than honoring our commitment kept us both motivated and committed to keeping each other accountable," he says.
As for kids in the near future, Franklin says he and Good are in no rush to have a little one. "We just got married," Franklin says, laughing. "We have to learn each other as husband and wife first."

THIS IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT! A MAN WILLING TO WAIT 1O YEARS BEFORE HE SLEEPS WITH THE WOMAN HE LOVES... THANK GOD FOR MEN LIKE DEVON!!! smiley smiley smiley
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lol. How many black women will not call a man she has been dating for just 3 month, without him asking for sex impotent?

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