Ujujoan:

Can you really cheat on someone you love? Could u do it out of mistake or out of lonliness. My point is, if you really love someone, can you cheat on her/him?

muchbabe:

shooo see question o, A man might love u but he will still cheat. Its like running after the forbidden fruit. u have your iyawo but your lusting for something else, Women cheat too so make i no victimize men o. Men cheat with their dicks and women cheat with their emotions

Ujujoan:

Can you really cheat on someone you love? Could u do it out of mistake or out of lonliness. My point is, if you really love someone, can you cheat on her/him?

TOYOSI20:

I doubt, it's possible, not if u truly love the person.

Dalby:

Totally not true, cheating cuts across sexes. A guy can sleep with a woman, with no strings attached, but for a woman that is near impossible.

In addition to the physical thingy their hearts also goes except for pros whose emotions lust for the monitory gains.

Totally depends on the prevailing circumstance

There is really, no scale to measure for us to analyse. The level of love is someone vulnerable to cheat
Sometimes things just happen. But we would rather condemn for what was done than the intent with which it was done. You could really be high on liquor and the next person takes advantage of you, male or female

Dalby:

Totally depends on the prevailing circumstance

Prevailing circumstances? lets say the girl is miles away and you get to see her in like 3-4mths. You really do love her, but sometimes you just cant cotrol your fellings.

Actually my question is, is cheating an impossible act for you to do when you are in love, no matter the circumstances?. or does cheating mean you are just not in love?

almondjoy:

In other words yes, ma Edo brother! All this professorial approach no necessary abegeeeeeeeeee!

And don't think that there are only women in Nigeria please. There are women all over the world who would not give a flying fig about whom they sleep with, just for the fun of it too--just like men. If you are familiar with most cultures, besides the "goody-two-shoe a.k.a Miss African Values" Nigerian prototype, you will find out that most women outside the world are just as carefree as men especially in 2008! Please do not set yourself up for a heartbreak. . . . .thinking "the" babe don gree ya own finish! Make you stick to those "Nigerian" kinds abeg!

_{What an expert on women's emotions!}

Actually my question is, is cheating an impossible act for you to do when you are in love, no matter the circumstances?. or does cheating mean you are just not in love?

Dalby:

Still think that women more than men, and especially in Nigeria give a flying fig about whom they sleep with. The only time you hear that I just slept with him for fun when they are talking with their peers, more so when she has lost the power play game with the guy. So her friends don't see anything wrong when she no longer hangs out with the guy as much as should be.

I know that abroad, the case is different, but was talking in the Nigerian context, from where I believe the poster resides. You know thats where we are always at variance with each other

Believe me I know when she don gree my own , just that most guys always are to optimistic even when The light shown is blood red

No it is not impossible when you are in love. Cheating does not necessarily mean you are not in love. Sometimes s**t happens

Dalby:

Totally not true, cheating cuts across sexes. A guy can sleep with a woman, with no strings attached, but for a woman that is near impossible. In addition to the physical thingy their hearts also goes except for pros whose emotions lust for the monitory gains.

amsky:

Yes,a man can love his wife,girlfriend or whoever and still cheat._{so they say.} That does not excuse the fact that he cheated anyway. For me,cheating is cheating, even if you love me more than yourself. The fact remains that you have cheated.So you get ready for whatever i'll throw your way.

In fact cheating on me and then telling me you love me will just worsen issues,so better shut up and start begging for forgiveness once you've been caught. That day,my pot of hot okra soup will end up on your head.That is if i don't leave the house for you and your mistress

Men can handle so many emotions at the same time. But it's not the same for women . Once i love,i do so with my whole heart,body and soul. I do not understand why you say you love me to bits and then go about inserting your third leg in other people.
In answer to your question dear poster, they said they can love you and cheat on you at the same time. Though i find it hard to comprehend.

R-Dynamite:

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ifyalways:

. . .you cannot love and cheat !
its either you are in lust or just having a good time but LOVE, NO way ! for both sexes too.
i wonder if people can cheat on who they claim to love,hmmn what happens to their enemies?

amsky:

@ Dalby
You see,i am married. 1. I know that lots o'women out there are just like i am-loving with their whole being. The reason why i don't get why guys or husbands can cheat and say they love their wives or girlfriends, honestly i do not understand. How can you cheat on someone and turn around and say you still love them?? 2. My elder sister whose hubby cheated on her with impunity could say ''but i still love you,i never stopped''. How does one explain that please?

i cannot love you with my whole heart and you cheat and say,you love me!!!! Cheating is of various kinds. No matter the kind cheating is cheating. The last straw that will break the camel's back is when sex is involved. A girl who met my Husband( then fiance) was calling the guy.This girl was in the US,and we were in Nigeria then. She was even planning to come to the town we were staying to see him. She used to call him at odd hours of the night,small hours of the morning and even when we are together. We were planning our winecarrying and she was always calling him. They used to discuss so many things 3. from her periods to Goodness knows whatelse. Is that not cheating? I noticed it but was keeping my cool,till the thing got out of hand. The mumu sent him her pics by DHL. That wedding was almost called off. All he kept saying was'' i love you,i'll always love you bla bla bla.

I do not just get it. 4. How can you love someone and then do all sorts of things that will hurt them. Some guys even have the nerves to flaunt it.

Easybaby:

@poster,
I know you have cheated on your boyfriend, that is why he dumped you after 2yrs

Easybaby:

@poster,
I know you have cheated on your boyfriend, that is why he dumped you after 2yrs