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How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by Piro4rl(m): 9:54am On Jan 06, 2013
Hello Guys, i have a group of friends that are always flocking around me, but they are not making any good impact in my life, whenever i bring up something positive they are always be the one to scold me and when i single handedly achieve it they will the one to enjoy it more than me. So how can i get rid of them slowly. Your good contributions are welcome.
Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by Uwakuwak(f): 1:40pm On Jan 06, 2013
you claim to be busy when they are around, then giving them lesser attention.

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 06, 2013
Shun them all without caring whose ox is gored.shunning works faster than diplomacy and make new friends that will impact your life,because at the end of the day its your life and you will be the one responsible for the decisions you make,not friends.you are the ceo of your life so take charge of it

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by olu4life(m): 6:06pm On Jan 06, 2013
Uwakuwak: you claim to be busy when they are around, then giving them lesser attention.
kulyie: Shun them all without caring whose ox is gored.shunning works faster than diplomacy and make new friends that will impact your life,because at the end of the day its your life and you will be the one responsible for the decisions you make,not friends.you are the ceo of your life so take charge of it
They've said it all. Whenever they come around,simply excuse urself or u simply stop gisting with them. They will get the signal and leave u alone

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by greatgod2012(f): 6:42pm On Jan 06, 2013
By the time they come around, tell them you are about to sleep or you are about to go out, by d time you tell them that for about 2 to 3 times, they will get the message.

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jan 06, 2013
Don't call them, don't meet them always have an excuss to not meet them. dON'T LAUGH OR JOKE WITH THEM DON'T EVEN TALK WHEN THEY ARE AROUND THEY WILL GO AWAY AS FAST AS THEIR FEET CAN CARRY THEM.

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by Gambrosia: 8:55pm On Jan 06, 2013
STOP TAKING THEIR CALLS!
Never allow them to visit you. . . DON'T VISIT THEM! kiss

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by TableLeg(m): 8:57pm On Jan 06, 2013
Be brutal, direct and straight to the point ...Cut them off ... No communication, not any form at all!

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Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by ferhyntorlah(f): 8:19pm On Jan 07, 2013
Like others have all said, withdrawn the attention you give them. If your place is their general hangout, stop it! If there's a place you all hangout together, also stop going there.
Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by tpia5: 4:23am On Oct 23, 2013
if you already realize their impact is negative then move away from them.
Re: How Can Someone Get Rid Of Friends That Are Not Making Good Impact In Your Life by mumumugu(m): 8:40pm On Oct 23, 2013
Hypocrites

stop the lies.....tell them........

"i dont need you"
simple

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