sexybash:
really den you have enough work to do

pastor prosper :
Now u see where am coming from. Honestly I have decided to have a heart talk with her and that would decide whether I continue.

DigitalSignal: @OP:
I can appreciate your feelings! Happenings these days have been so disquieting that guys no longer feel safe in thoughts about their ladies being in the company of EVEN their own blood relations, let alone a neighbor taking her out for a suya engagement! *Thinking why she even told him in the first place! Is she trying to get something he is not forthcoming with? Well, what's my business!* Suya engagement indeed! Anyway, you do not own her; neither is she your property! You can only express how you feel about her going out with this guy whom she sees as a family friend and not to stop her! You can assess how much she wants you in her life by her reaction! If she wants you enough, she may not want to displease you just because of one day suya date! Or she may make you see why it's not harmful to go out with this neighbor of hers? What I'm trying to say is that you can't stop her if she decides on the contrary! You should let her know your point of view on issues such as this so that tomorrow you won't have problems relating to them, for you would have known where the other person stands with regard to these issues!

pastor prosper :
Yeah thanks man. I just found out its not like a date. Dude just offered to buy her suya. Not like they wld be hanging out or anything. Besides they sort of grew up together.

pastor prosper :
Yes.thing is she has a child from a previous failed relationship.and she cld be naïve very naïve. Like when I started becoming too friendly she never suspected I had intentions.

pastor prosper :
Yeah thanks man. I just found out its not like a date. Dude just offered to buy her suya. Not like they wld be hanging out or anything. Besides they sort of grew up together.

ITbomb:
*checking her name on my record*
You are in.
Expect more from me everywhere you go

pastor prosper :
Peeps, this is sort of my first relationship. And I don't have a sister or a close female friend. So this dating thing is quite new to me. But thanks guys for ur contributions. I wld also advice that everyone shld learn to make friends with both sexes so u don't turn out so naïve abt d opposite sex as myself.

Arsenate: Is this even up for debate? Duh...the girl is definitely up to no good and definitely won't mind some "hitting". But of course the ladies here would tell u u are just insecured. That's what they do anyway; just lending support to their fellow sister in crime.
Folks, let's always call a spade a spade.

thats why i love my flytefallz
shes not human, she calls it out as it is
maybe except when 190's involved she lies occasionally ;

nobniger: Well Oga, just pray she doesn't like the dude's suya more than yours sir

and as someone said she could decide to offer the new guy her offering BOX

That line offering box cracks me up

pastor prosper :
. Offer someone her offerring box? Could u guys be serious pls.

190:


thats why i love my flytefallz
shes not human, she calls it out as it is
maybe except when 190's involved she lies occasionally ;D

pro01: Many relationships have been shattered and homes have been broken over irrepressible longings for awoof suya, peppersoup, shawama, isi ewu, etc.

Conventional wisdom suggests that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach; however, the facts on ground are beginning to challenge this notion. It seems the way to a Naija woman's heart is (fast beoming) through her. . . . . .

pastor prosper :
Honestly now I understand why we have too mature unmarried girls. At 30 a girl ought to have eaten every suya she desired. SMH.

pro01:

Awoof no get age limit, unfortunately. The easiest people to ensnare are those that that are ignorant of one of the most important laws of social interaction: Despise the 'free' lunch'.

The things we consider 'free' are often the most costly, and the things we deem innocuous may end up having devastating consequences. Fortunately for those of us in the field, most naija girls no sabi all those long grammar. . .and that's great! If mugu no fall, guyman no go chop.