I av a problem of trusting people and dis is even affecting my relationship despite d fact that i av not caught her with something stupid. Pls, i need ur advice on what to do.

That's prolly bcus u don't trust in yaself. Free ur mind.

When it comes to trust, you must first of all build a strong trust for yourself before extending it to others. You only give out what you have likewise whatever you gives out comes back to you.

I also find it difficult to trust.
I maintain this principle___ Trust no man until proven otherwise

trust nobody my guy
expecially daughters of eve

. . . especially sons of the daughters of eve.

na trust samson trust his wifey,
and he paid for it with his life

trust is a very difficult virtue to build.
d only solution is; take it that what u dont see does not exist,
dont imagine things u've not seen so u wont form a wrong impression

@poster
please don't trust.even yourself.you enter the mart,buy a canned beer,how sure are you that youve not purchased poison?.but you still go ahead and consume it.Isnt that trust?poster,its easier said than done.trust is inevitable.we just have to trust.

All u guys saying u don't trust anybody. Remember u've got to give trust to love someone. If u can't trust enough You can't love enough.

@Joey Hi

Trust nobody!!!!! i mean NOBODY!!!!!! . . . . . . .Girls are very deceptive & Malignant. . . . .
Talking from experience. .

Na wa oooo
Why are all the guys talking abt dnt trust girls, women, daughters of eve abi na Sophia?
ino be u(men) we learn from?
as good students as we are, we're learning gr8tly from our teachers!

@pretty
hi, i trust u.

Joey82:

@pretty
hi, i trust u.

trust u too

@ Poster

The thing is that you can trust a lady but dont trust 100%- Thats the truth.
If you trust a lady 100% and you get caught off balance, mehnnn you'll nearly commit suicide, I've seen so many things and its funny because i know i'll see more. I personally dont trust anyone 100%, yep i mean anyone- not even my parents, brother and sisters - dats just me

Na wa oooo
Why are all the guys talking about dnt trust girls, women, daughters of eve abi na Sophia?
ino be u(men) we learn from?
as good students as we are, we're learning gr8tly from our teachers!

The truth is bitter ma sister. . . . .u just gotta accept the fact!!

@POSTER

Trust is an investment
not an inheritance,
if u willin to invest,
u should be prepared to make profit,
or lose out.
cos u can't win always,
and u can't lose always too.


Personally, i don't even trust myself

tboy1:

@ Poster

The thing is that you can trust a lady but don't trust 100%- Thats the truth.
If you trust a lady 100% and you get caught off balance, mehnnn you'll nearly commit suicide, I've seen so many things and its funny because i know i'll see more. I personally don't trust anyone 100%, yes i mean anyone- not even my parents, brother and sisters - that is just me

thank u, May be not 100% cos i don't trust 100% too. But u've got to give some quantity of trust to someone u love.

@Sly
There's no truth in whattya saying, and it's neither bitter!  Men are worse! ^{dnt quote me o!}

There's no truth in whattya saying

Which means? i am responsible for ? or aint that what u insinuating?

The thing is that you can trust a lady but don't trust 100%- Thats the truth.
If you trust a lady 100% and you get caught off balance, mehnnn you'll nearly commit suicide, I've seen so many things and its funny because i know i'll see more. I personally don't trust anyone 100%, yes i mean anyone- not even my parents, brother and sisters

Nice!!!

®~^Sly^~®:

Which means? i am responsible for ? or aint that what u insinuating?

ehen. . . u're bringing it up again o, this shadow of urs is really haunting u spill it now.

I dare not trust! Not until when we have exchanged rings, and I hear the word I do.


Until then, I/We play it safe.

pahtahkee:

I dare not trust! Not until when we have exchanged rings, and I hear the word I do.


Until then, I/We play it safe.

If u don't trust, u can never love. . . don't fear I do, u gotta say it someday.

ehen. . . u're bringing it up again o, this shadow of urs is really haunting u spill it now.

haaaaaaaaa!! house is still full!!. . .too many ''i too know'' in the house. . . . .
Ima spill it when i see at least 9offline users right here. . .

This secret na huge one. . . oya, efflybody, log out!

efuah:

If u don't trust, u can never love. . . don't fear I do, u gotta say it someday.

Where did you get that theory from? That I love the perfume I am using today, does not mean I trust it to always forever be there. Just an analogy though to my point.

I can love, but trust? Not yet!

pahtahkee:

I dare not trust! Not until when we have exchanged rings, and I hear the word I do.

LOL -  even if u say you exchange ring 10 times you can still get hurt BIG time, go and check out the main reason why married couples end with divorce- 'Adultery' or 'Unreasonable behaviour(and i think Adultery can also be linked to this)'

efuah:

This secret na huge one. . . oya, efflybody, log out!

Very very huge!!. . . .

@poster

Probably not recovered from the last show downs in the gulf in your past relationships. The reason you are paranoid despite the fact that your new girl has not given you any reason to "wonder". I hope you heal from those before this new one gives you her own "shocker"!   That's life ma dear.  TRUST NO ONE, BUT LOVE ALL!

Love has nothing to do with trust honey.  Just make sure you sleep with one eye open at all times.  Trust no one, including yourself!  Less disappointments and heartaches that way. . . . .we live in an "imperfect" world and with "imperfect" beings.  I just leave the rest for the spiritually and abundantly able.  When I get to the spirit world. . . .i will get my full powers of trusting fellow spirits.  Right now. . . .no way.  Not even with 1 kobo not to talk of emotions!

This is business I say!  No room for sentiments at all!

pahtahkee:

I can love, but trust? Not yet!

Doesn't love n trust work hand in hand? How can u love when u don't trust the fellow? Perhaps i need to know the type of your love u talking about.

I need to trust u first, before i can fall in love.

AJ. . . i think there shd be degrees of trust if not totally. I can't love without trusting, at least 0.5% will do.

®~^Sly^~®:

Very very huge!!. . . .

what's the weight. . .sey if we measure?

efuah:

Doesn't love n trust work hand in hand? How can u love when u don't trust the fellow? Perhaps i need to know the type of your love u talking about.

I need to trust u first, before i can fall in love tackie(^{lol pet name)}

efuah:

AJ. . . i think there should be degrees of trust if not totally. I can't love without trusting, at least 0.5% will do.
what's the weight. . .sey if we measure?

Okay!  I hear you!   Do you see me on nairaland asking for "self-help" modules?   I have "do it yourself" kits and can't fall into such a helpless trap.  Just tell me one thing you can trust a fellow human being with. . . .including yourself? 

Just name one! And I will leave the thread for all your "romantiques"!

Nothing!
That na bible version!  You know how that goes. . . . everlasting repentant matter while commiting new havocs!