IYA NGBALI: you reason with your toto and that is very dangerous,you can kill

I can't kill.... I know myself . And I can never marry a man that has No conscience but only think with his dick..when it comes to marrying other women...it's extremely wicked and foolish of any man to marry another wife into the same house , he is co habiting with his first wife...but that's not mean I will kill... God will deal with him very well. .. God forbid, I marry such man!

Agrika: Though am not in support of this devilish act, i must say there is something men have to understand about women. Women are naturally jealous and possessive, you dont for whatever reasons, bring in another woman into a woman's matrimonial home, it infuriates us, even if she pretends she is ok with it, believe me internally she is boiling, women consider thier home as thier "own space" bringing in another woman is like encroaching into that space, is more or less like challenging her "oya lets see what u can do about it". Moreover in this case, this woman came from a religion, where polygamy is frowned at, one could see why she reacted so negatively to the idea.
Had it been the man was wiser he could have made arrangements, probably hired a room, in another compound where the new wife could stay.

From you post one can infer that;
1. Murder is smiled upon in her religion.
2. Murder is the recompense for infidelity in her religion.
3. She's the official avenger/executioner for polygamous crimes in her religion.

byvan:


I wonder why people can't understand that a situation can make one lose it.Everyone is capable of murder.

Even the guy who killed his banker wife.

babyosisi:

Gbam!
My mother says the first wife came for marriage,the others have Something else in mind
How many men with many wives live to a ripe old age?
Almost all of them quench before their time
If poison doesn't get them,heart attack or stroke from the sleepless nights and worries of which wife wants to get them will get them
All the scheming and babalawo visits and love potions and hatred and competition to be the favorite
Tufia
It has no advantage whatsoever at least to the women and their children.

Thank God my father and all my maternal and paternal uncles modeled monogamy to my siblings and I
No polygamy or complicated family structure in my lineage IJMN
It ended with my grandfathers and ancient custom
We do better now that we know better

which lineage.. so your grandpa or great grandpa were not polygamous
Oh.. you included them guess they did not make it to old age since they married more than one wife

OBJ must still be a young man then since he is also a polygamist
Diya, Dangote are all young snce they are not expected to live long
Saraki must have been cut short in his prime.. oh what a pity


Pres Yaradua lived to a ripe old age since he only had Turai!!

One Turai is more than ten women

Also i remembered that monogamic women dont consult spiritualists o.. because it is against the tenets of monogamy

freecocoa: Now I see why Coogar screams "hypocrites" at women at the slightest chance he gets.

Like seriously? Some people are making excuses as to why the woman lost it, I ask , is it impossible for the man to also have a reason for bringing in another woman?

We don't even know what has been going on in their marriage, a woman supposedly killed her husband in cold blood and y'all are making excuses for her, I can only excuse this woman if she killed him in self defense.

Na wa o, let's call a spade a spade and not a farming implement please.

Someone's making sense today.^^^

Nawah Oº°˚˚°ºh! See how things d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ happen in port Harcourt, B4 na Aluu community, п̥̥̲̣̥ow̶̲̥̅̊ na obio akpor community! Rip man!

biolabee:

Temporary insanity
Women will continually bring up new stories to justify their actions and existence

But the man that slapped his wife and is being deported for abuse/or could lose child custody is a bad person
You women are so hypocritical....

In the book of women folk, a man slapping a woman is worse than a woman killing a man
shebi na man
they are beasts, they deserve it

negro plz go sit down nd don't get married

adabeke12:


fuc.kkkkkkkkkkkkkkk trifling azzz nigerian men... who think that being a man means cheating!!!! ask the girl u wish to marry if she would love it if u cheated or brought home another woman and see what she sayz. Nigerians stop getting married y'all cant even keep marriage together. Do y'all even know the definition of marriage? Nigerian men do what Michael jackson did if u want to have a kid pay a woman to have your kid u stupPPPPid MUTHAFUUCKERRSS. STOP GETTING MARRIED YOU HYPOCRITES!!!!

I MADE A THREAD AS TO Y NIGERIANS LOVE TALKING ABT MARRIAGE ND I GOT LASHED FROM ALL OVER... WE ARE UPSEST WITH GETTING MARRIED. EVERY TIME MARRY MARRY MARRY... NOW LOOK. YOU CANT EVEN CONTROL YOURSELVES; CANT EVEN SURVIVE WITH ONE WIFE ONE HUSBAND. NOBODY DESERVES TO DIE LIKE THAT!!!!!! THIS REALLY PAINS ME BCUZ THE GUY TAUGHT HE CAN EAT HIS CAKE AND HAVE IT, NOW LOOK AT HIS PREDICAMENT . YOU MEN THINK IT IS OKAY TO BE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN YOU R IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED. SOME WOMEN LOVE HARD AND HATE HARD, THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE. SMH AT HIS DEMISE.

hmm...

adabeke12:

plz go sit down nd don't get married

why are u calling me names..pls modify your post so we dont spar here
Name calling can get nasty

i wonder what the view of some ladies here is on posterous, south african murderer who killed his girl friend.
the girl friend deserves the murder.i believe she cheated on him. the guy was emotionally abused by his girl friend actions, got angry and carried out the action.

i remember a story last year about a lady that was killed by her ex boyfriend because she dumped him. i guess she deserves it too.

we shouldnt forget the popular story of the married female banker that was killed by her husband, she deserves it too.

there are stories of husband killing their wives (unfortunate). logically, the victims deserves it. if u are ready to accept the man in this case deserves it, why wont you accept that the female banker that was murdered also deserves it?. men do get very jealous as well. they are also humans but only decide to hide their emotions.

if u dont like a 2nd wife, simply walk out of the marriage. nothing justify murder xcept in self defence for me.

nitlad:
You must think the legal system is in the pits for you to think it can be arm-twisted like that.
What evidence of abuse is there in the story?
Who says telling a ruse story of abuse acquits first degree murderers?


In case you missed this part

She poisoned him, to probably render him powerless or defenseless, then she brutally stabbed him to death!

100 lawyers with %100 records pespectively will not get her out of that quagmire!

all is fair in their book

adabeke12: WOMEN STOP LOVING THESE MEN WITH ALL YOUR HEARTS... YES THAT IS WHAT IT HAS COME TO, BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING IF U WANT TO GET MARRIED. ALWAYZ HAVE A BACK UP PLAN OR STAY UR AZZ SINGLE. DO U HEAR ME??!!!!!!!! THE 21ST CENTURY MARRIAGE HAS TURNED INTO SOMETHING ELSE... NO MORE TRUST, PEACE, LOVE, SERENITY ETC. THE MAN U GET MARRIED TO SHOULD BE ABLE TO KISS THE GROUND U WALK ON. I UNDERSTAND THAT WHEN MOST WOMEN LOVE THEY LOVE HARD AND PUT THAT MAN RIGHT AFTER GOD, BUT SOME MEN DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT. YOU CAN GIVE A MAN A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE WITHOUT KILLING HIM. I MEAN HE IS GOING TO WISH HE WAS DEAD AFTER U R THROUGH WITH HIM. LOVE BUT DO NOT LOVE WITH ALL UR HEART, ALWAYZ HAVE UR BEST INTEREST AT HEART. iF YOU CAN'T DO ALL THESE U HAD BETTER REMAIN SINGLE OR BE READY FOR A HEART BREAK.

BREAKING NEWS.. They never loved the men
Its all about the Benjamins
All y'all being talking about is who will inherit the money now hes gone

la furia: i wonder what the view of some ladies here is on posterous, south african murderer who killed his girl friend.
the girl friend deserves the murder.i believe she cheated on him. the guy was emotionally abused by his girl friend actions, got angry and carried out the action.

i remember a story last year about a lady that was killed by her ex boyfriend because she dumped him. i guess she deserves it too.

we shouldnt forget the popular story of the married female banker that was killed by her husband, she deserves it too.

there are stories of husband killing their wives (unfortunate). logically, the victims deserves it. if u are ready to accept the man in this case deserves it, why wont you accept that the female banker that was murdered also deserves it?. men do get very jealous as well. they are also humans but only decide to hide their emotions.

if u dont like a 2nd wife, simply walk out of the marriage. nothing justify murder xcept in self defence for me.

GBAM! GBAM!! GBAM!!!

victorian:


I can't kill.... I know myself . And I can never marry a man that has No conscience but only think with his dick..when it comes to marrying other women...it's extremely wicked and foolish of any man to marry another wife into the same house , he is co habiting with his first wife...but that's not mean I will kill... God will deal with him very well. .. God forbid, I marry such man!

what if he married her into another apartment, what do u think abt that

biolabee:

why are u calling me names..pls modify your post so we dont spar here
Name calling can get nasty

ain't callin u names arent u a negro?

biolabee:

BREAKING NEWS.. They never loved the men
Its all about the Benjamins negress
All y'all being talking about is who will inherit the money now hes gone

wtf is money. plzzz.... inherit wetin. Most of ya'll r broke

adabeke12:

ain't callin u names?

I take offense to that as i know u meant it in a derogatory manner, pls modify and deal with the issuess
Name calling can get nasty

adabeke12:

wtf is money. plzzz.... inherit wetin. Most of ya'll r broke

We like our 'brokeness'... Its not by force to get married to a Nigerian man or any man that matter

freecocoa: Now I see why Coogar screams "hypocrites" at women at the slightest chance he gets.

Like seriously? Some people are making excuses as to why the woman lost it, I ask , is it impossible for the man to also have a reason for bringing in another woman?

We don't even know what has been going on in their marriage, a woman supposedly killed her husband in cold blood and y'all are making excuses for her, I can only excuse this woman if she killed him in self defense.

Na wa o, let's call a spade a spade and not a farming implement please.

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biolabee:

We like our 'brokeness'... Its not by force to get married to a Nigerian man or any man that matter

greattt... it is not by force for a nigerian man to get married at all. they should stop getting married bcuz they do not know the meaning of commitment.

fresh_dude: Your first sensible comment in 2013.

Stop stalking me you sicko.

rezzy: This man caused his own death, he shouldnt have dared to think of bringing the other lady into their home. RIP

even at that it is not enough reason for one to take another person's life Rip

dbride:

Hmmmmmm...this does not happen in marriage alone, it can happen in any relationship that involves deep emotions. Note, I am not for or against, people react differently when they are hurting, some would not mind because staying in marriage is like a gold card, some would walk away like you suggested, some too cannot stand being treated like a discarded old rag as that is exactly what bringing in a second wife means, and this latter group can kill....LOVE turns HATE. He that is down needs fear no fall. They lose confidence in themselves, no self worth. When you dont value yourself anymore, then the one who has reduced you to that low level is in danger because his life also becomes worthless to you. It is not right but that's life.

That man took that woman for granted. Love is sweet and it can be deadly too! He thought he could get away with it being the man, but he was wrong!. May his soul rest in peace. It is a case of DO NOT COMMIT ADULTERY and DO NOT KILL.

to ''marry'' a second wife is adultery?? Where is the law that said that? And Do you know what marriage means?

adabeke12:

greattt... it is not by force for a nigerian man to get married at all. they should stop getting married bcuz they do not know the meaning of commitment.

Thats why Naija men are not marrying ur sorry a.rses no more
Even the ones from the village are worse

Are u not nigerian.. so because u were lucky to be born in yankee or u won green card some yrs back, u can now be spewing trash up and down
if naija pple annoy u u can go to [url]dollarland.com[/url] and get your yankee hunk there

Bit.ches and bit.ches... I see y'all screaming that the nigga deserves to die, why did he bring another woman home, y'all bitc.hes be bleeping people's husband and y'all call it runs, forgeting that u will get married one day and some lil bitc.h is gonna bring that karma to u. Y'all should take a chill pill. Nothing should make u take a life because when u were in school and sleeping with ur sugar daddies from on hotel to another, you were making ur bed, which soon and very soon, u gonna lay on!

adabeke12:


fuc.kkkkkkkkkkkkkkk trifling azzz nigerian men... who think that being a man means cheating!!!! ask the girl u wish to marry if she would love it if u cheated or brought home another woman and see what she sayz. Nigerians stop getting married y'all cant even keep marriage together. Do y'all even know the definition of marriage? Nigerian men do what Michael jackson did if u want to have a kid pay a woman to have your kid u stupPPPPid MUTHAFUUCKERRSS. STOP GETTING MARRIED YOU HYPOCRITES!!!!

I MADE A THREAD AS TO Y NIGERIANS LOVE TALKING ABT MARRIAGE ND I GOT LASHED FROM ALL OVER... WE ARE UPSEST WITH GETTING MARRIED. EVERY TIME MARRY MARRY MARRY... NOW LOOK. YOU CANT EVEN CONTROL YOURSELVES; CANT EVEN SURVIVE WITH ONE WIFE ONE HUSBAND. NOBODY DESERVES TO DIE LIKE THAT!!!!!! THIS REALLY PAINS ME BCUZ THE GUY TAUGHT HE CAN EAT HIS CAKE AND HAVE IT, NOW LOOK AT HIS PREDICAMENT . YOU MEN THINK IT IS OKAY TO BE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN YOU R IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED. SOME WOMEN LOVE HARD AND HATE HARD, THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE. SMH AT HIS DEMISE.

if you were a man you wont spit all this rubbish. . . .you think say na water dey flow for body

The man even disscussed it with his wife that he wants to marry another wife or maybe he should not have told his wife about it and start playing adultery...that would have save the man's life abi?

I remember a Shehu , where I use to live married a very quiet pretty Muslim lady.. She is the first wife. They had 4boys and 3girls. After several yrs of marriage , the husband then realize he had to take another wife... The first wife was so bitter, but no one suspected anything... She accepted calmly when he told her, he is bringing in a second wife.. The children grumbled, the mother cried quietly most nights, praying the husband will not bring in another woman. One fateful day, the husband was served his meal , as usual by one of his daughters, within few minutes of eating, he shouted with pain, held tightly to his tummy, shouting for water.. His wife came out quickly, with shock and fear on her face, screaming for neighbors to come help her.. Before they could rushed him to the hospital , he died on the way..
The wife was crying uncontrollably, her children , neighbors were consoling her.., late at night when it was only she And her children.. She then confessed that, she added Love portion to their father's soup, never realizing that the spiritualist that gave her the love portion , gave her poison instead... And that she is so sorry, and see what she has caused... The children know their mum is not An evil person, but very caring , accommodating and loves too much... It was desperation that pushed her to do what she did...all she wanted, was her husband to Love her back...
The children were very unhappy, but they couldn't resent their mum, but forgave her..
The eldest son, was the one who told me of their story... That in such situation? Will they kill their mum or banish her from their home? No , they cant.... cause they love her so much and its all a mistake!..Their dad died at the age of 47 yrs... Their mother will be 70yrs by the end of this yr...the children are grown, and taking care of her..
So tell me, is that a wise decision on the part of the husband?

victorian: I remember a Shehu , where I use to live married a very quiet pretty Muslim lady.. She is the first wife. They had 4boys and 3girls. After several yrs of marriage , the husband then realize he had to take another wife... The first wife was so bitter, but no one suspected anything... She accepted calmly when he told her, he is bringing in a second wife.. The children grumbled, the mother cried quietly most nights, praying the husband will not bring in another woman. One fateful day, the husband was served his meal , as usual by one of his daughters, within few minutes of eating, he shouted with pain, held tightly to his tummy, shouting for water.. His wife came out quickly, with shock and fear on her face, screaming for neighbors to come help her.. Before they could rushed him to the hospital , he died on the way..
The wife was crying uncontrollably, her children , neighbors were consoling her.., late at night when it was only she And her children.. She then confessed that, she added Love portion to their father's soup, never realizing that the spiritualist that gave her the love portion , gave her poison instead... And that she is so sorry, and see what she has caused... The children know their mum is not An evil person, but very caring , accommodating and loves too much... It was desperation that pushed her to do what she did...all she wanted, was her husband to Love her back...
The children were very unhappy, but they couldn't resent their mum, but forgave her..
The eldest son, was the one who told me of their story... That in such situation? Will they kill their mum or banish her from their home? No , they cant.... cause they love her so much and its all a mistake!..Their dad died at the age of 47 yrs... Their mother will be 70yrs by the end of this yr...the children are grown, and taking care of her..
So tell me, is that a wise decision on the part of the husband?

How does this concern what is on ground?

After poisoning him, she still stabbed him until he died.

Maybe the poison was a love portion she was mistakenly given by whoever, so what about the knife and the stabbing? is that a libido portion or an ultra-love portion?


Anything to justify a demon for being a demon?

Be it stabbing, gunshots or love portion or poison...any of these things can lead to death...why push partners to the limits emotionally.... For God sakes ....WHY?

victorian: I remember a Shehu , where I use to live married a very quiet pretty Muslim lady.. She is the first wife. They had 4boys and 3girls. After several yrs of marriage , the husband then realize he had to take another wife... The first wife was so bitter, but no one suspected anything... She accepted calmly when he told her, he is bringing in a second wife.. The children grumbled, the mother cried quietly most nights, praying the husband will not bring in another woman. One fateful day, the husband was served his meal , as usual by one of his daughters, within few minutes of eating, he shouted with pain, held tightly to his tummy, shouting for water.. His wife came out quickly, with shock and fear on her face, screaming for neighbors to come help her.. Before they could rushed him to the hospital , he died on the way..
The wife was crying uncontrollably, her children , neighbors were consoling her.., late at night when it was only she And her children.. She then confessed that, she added Love portion to their father's soup, never realizing that the spiritualist that gave her the love portion , gave her poison instead... And that she is so sorry, and see what she has caused... The children know their mum is not An evil person, but very caring , accommodating and loves too much... It was desperation that pushed her to do what she did...all she wanted, was her husband to Love her back...
The children were very unhappy, but they couldn't resent their mum, but forgave her..
The eldest son, was the one who told me of their story... That in such situation? Will they kill their mum or banish her from their home? No , they cant.... cause they love her so much and its all a mistake!..Their dad died at the age of 47 yrs... Their mother will be 70yrs by the end of this yr...the children are grown, and taking care of her..
So tell me, is that a wise decision on the part of the husband?

So this is a happy ending in your mind
Do you now see why some widows are disinherited because of witches like this who actually kill their husband

I will never forgive that woman for depriving me of a father due to envy
What is new under the sun

So now she prostituted herself to send her children to school, is that good
She sold her daughters to some kingpins so she can get the dowry ans survive ..is that good

SMH

victorian: I remember a Shehu , where I use to live married a very quiet pretty Muslim lady.. She is the first wife. They had 4boys and 3girls. After several yrs of marriage , the husband then realize he had to take another wife... The first wife was so bitter, but no one suspected anything... She accepted calmly when he told her, he is bringing in a second wife.. The children grumbled, the mother cried quietly most nights, praying the husband will not bring in another woman. One fateful day, the husband was served his meal , as usual by one of his daughters, within few minutes of eating, he shouted with pain, held tightly to his tummy, shouting for water.. His wife came out quickly, with shock and fear on her face, screaming for neighbors to come help her.. Before they could rushed him to the hospital , he died on the way..
The wife was crying uncontrollably, her children , neighbors were consoling her.., late at night when it was only she And her children.. She then confessed that, she added Love portion to their father's soup, never realizing that the spiritualist that gave her the love portion , gave her poison instead... And that she is so sorry, and see what she has caused... The children know their mum is not An evil person, but very caring , accommodating and loves too much... It was desperation that pushed her to do what she did...all she wanted, was her husband to Love her back...
The children were very unhappy, but they couldn't resent their mum, but forgave her..
The eldest son, was the one who told me of their story... That in such situation? Will they kill their mum or banish her from their home? No , they cant.... cause they love her so much and its all a mistake!..Their dad died at the age of 47 yrs... Their mother will be 70yrs by the end of this yr...the children are grown, and taking care of her..
So tell me, is that a wise decision on the part of the husband?

What I know is, you are not of a sane mind and doesn't deserve to dwell in parts inhabited by sane people.


Cocckk and bull story!

What's the relevance of this codswallop to the murderous witch you are all defending?

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