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I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by bingbagbo(m): 8:23pm On Apr 07, 2013
HELP!
I often watch pporn with my legally married wife, and i just want to find out if its okay as a christian or not, of course backed with scripture. thank you
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by ume(m): 9:02pm On Apr 07, 2013
Watching pono with your wife is not sin bcs as married couple sometimes the spirit might not be there and u might need a precusor*
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Apr 07, 2013
YES !

It's called perversion and can lead to more wicked sexual practices and demonic possession.

Run away....................from it.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by alexleo(m): 9:12pm On Apr 07, 2013
bin gbagbo: HELP!
I often watch pporn with my legally married wife, and i just want to find out if its okay as a christian or not, of course backed with scripture. thank you

You people are watching other people's unclothedness. Also you are patronizing their sinful acts. It doesn't matter if it is you and your wife. supporting sin is sin so two of you are sinning in your action.

The people you are watching are committing the sin of fornication so why patronize their activity.

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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 07, 2013
alexleo:

You people are watching other people's unclothedness. Also you are patronizing their sinful acts. It doesn't matter if it is you and your wife. supporting sin is sin so two of you are sinning in your action.

The people you are watching are committing the sin of fornication so why patronize their activity.

What if the pornstars are married?

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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 07, 2013
frosbel: YES !

It's called perversion and can lead to more wicked sexual practices and demonic possession.

Run away....................from it.
lol @ demonic possession.. Is this Frosbel?
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by agohavivi(f): 9:51pm On Apr 07, 2013
Ask yourself that question. I'm very sure that you know the answer.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by sizzlers(m): 9:59pm On Apr 07, 2013
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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by jimino(m): 9:59pm On Apr 07, 2013
musKeeto:

What if the pornstars are married?
it is a sin 4 a married couple to b porn star because dey will b exposing der unclothedness 2 d public.

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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by alexleo(m): 10:08pm On Apr 07, 2013
jimino:
it is a sin 4 a married couple to b porn star because dey will b exposing der unclothedness 2 d public.

truth
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by bingbagbo(m): 10:14pm On Apr 07, 2013
frosbel: YES !

It's called perversion and can lead to more wicked sexual practices and demonic possession.

Run away....................from it.



how?
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by eyenCalabar(m): 10:14pm On Apr 07, 2013
There is nothing like sin. Sin is actually a thing of the mind because it's your mind telling you that you've comitted a sin doing this or that. Okay, just imagine some parts of Africa still going bare bodies as they were created, if that was here, we would have tagged it a sin for working around seducing others. But for these people, that's not what their mind is telling them and so they don't see it as sin. But that doesn't mean there are no other things they don't regard as sin. So, it's actually our knowledge that is fighting us and this is what God wanted to protect but Satan beguiled Eve and you know the rest of the story. Question now, how should we go about with all the things our knowledge/thoughts throw to us as sins?
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 07, 2013
jimino:
it is a sin 4 a married couple to b porn star because dey will b exposing der unclothedness 2 d public.
lol, now u are defining what a sin is...
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by italo: 9:30am On Apr 08, 2013
SIN!
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 08, 2013
Lol.. Funny christians...

So when you watch a movie that contains some 'soft porn' scenes, is that also sin?

By extension,is it a sin to watch crime movies?
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by italo: 10:42am On Apr 08, 2013
musKeeto: Lol.. Funny christians...

So when you watch a movie that contains some 'soft porn' scenes, is that also sin?

By extension,is it a sin to watch crime movies?

If you watch movies where the actors actually kill one another...with the intention of enjoying the killings and perpetrating such, you are sinning.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by frank317: 11:00am On Apr 08, 2013
italo:

If you watch movies where the actors actually kill one another...with the intention of enjoying the killings and perpetrating such, you are sinning.
what are the possible intention of watching an action movie. why must there b an intention? besides, what do u say about watching pornographic movie with my wife with intention of making love with my wife
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by italo: 11:25am On Apr 08, 2013
frank3.16:

what are the possible intention of watching an action movie. why must there b an intention?

There are various intentions for which we can watch action movies. You should know this. The intention goes a long way in determining whether one is sinning or not.

besides, what do u say about watching pornographic movie with my wife with intention of making love with my wife

From the Catechism of the Catholic Church:

CCC 2354 Pornography consists in removing real or simulated sexual acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense. Civil authorities should prevent the production and distribution of pornographic materials.

Those who are not of the Catholic faith can refer to St. Matthew's Gospel (5:28) where the Evangelist says:

"Everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery in his heart."

To learn more click: http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/resources/life-and-family/pornography/the-harmful-effects-of-pornography/ http://www.integrityrestored.com/?q=PornographyAndTheCatholicChurch

Forgive me, I'm Catholic so I always speak from that point of view on issues concerning faith and morals.

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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by alexleo(m): 12:56pm On Apr 08, 2013
eyenCalabar: There is nothing like sin. Sin is actually a thing of the mind because it's your mind telling you that you've comitted a sin doing this or that. Okay, just imagine some parts of Africa still going bare bodies as they were created, if that was here, we would have tagged it a sin for working around seducing others. But for these people, that's not what their mind is telling them and so they don't see it as sin. But that doesn't mean there are no other things they don't regard as sin. So, it's actually our knowledge that is fighting us and this is what God wanted to protect but Satan beguiled Eve and you know the rest of the story. Question now, how should we go about with all the things our knowledge/thoughts throw to us as sins?

You are just making noise.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by alexleo(m): 1:00pm On Apr 08, 2013
frank3.16:

what are the possible intention of watching an action movie. why must there b an intention? besides, what do u say about watching pornographic movie with my wife with intention of making love with my wife

It is sin. What are you watching fornicators for? And why do you want to see someone unclothed. Must you be driven by such silly acts to enjoy your spouse?
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by frank317: 2:55pm On Apr 08, 2013
alexleo:

It is sin. What are you watching fornicators for? And why do you want to see someone unclothed. Must you be driven by such silly acts to enjoy your spouse?

i am not saying its not a sin, just replying the post i quoted. i only need some people to be more inteligent in their replies, not just opening their mouth to talk out of sense
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by alfaman2: 3:36pm On Apr 08, 2013
Sin is delicious. Only death can remove me from sin.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by fallguy(m): 3:54pm On Apr 08, 2013
it's no sin. It's just like runaway from that sexy hor.ny boss of urs like joseph did, God gives u thumbs up and bellows "this is my beloved son (and his wife) in whom I am well pleased (watchg dat teen get an an.al from 3 guys )". But in d movie store, wen confused abt which porn film to buy ask d Jesus 4 directions. He is with u and will guide u. If u go with ur wife, 2 of u can hold hands in a prayer of agreement 4 wisdom and direction concerning d po.rn film purchase.. It wud look really romantic seeing husband and wife close eyes,bow head, lock hands in a public place in serious heartfelt sincere prayer (that availeth much). I wonder if angel's laff because God may have to prioritise a wisdom 4 which po.rn film to buy prayer and a other more "important" requests coming in at the same time.. But giv it a try man!
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by eyenCalabar(m): 8:46pm On Apr 08, 2013
alexleo:

You are just making noise.

You don't just drop insulting comments. If you feel my opinion doesn't make sense to you, argue it. Don't insult. There are higher words of communication.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by yemisolar(m): 9:55pm On Apr 08, 2013
@op i will not join the bandwagon of criticizing or praising you, i would like to lay some points and let you judge for yourself:

FOR
1) you are watching with your wife with the intention of making better love.
2) it is in the seclusion of your home and hence no other person is hurt
3) it could be educational as you can be taught different styles.

AGAINST

1) when you look at the woman, do you picture your wife or when you are doing it with your wife you will have the picture of the woman in mind. (whoever looks at a woman lustfuly...)

2) would you be willing to allow someone tape your lovemeking session and sell as tapes for others to watch. How about is the woman in the vidoe was your sister, would you still be comfortable?(do unto others what you want them to do to you)

3) do you have children? Dont tell me that they cannot come across it, so how would you feel when they do?

Finally, sometimes we feel se**x is an aspect of our lives God is not interested in or at least concernen about. who said the Holy Spirit cannot give you ideas on creative styles? we would rather turn to the devil for that not knowing that the devil does not have anything original.

So the decision is yours
I rest my case.

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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by yorubaamerican(m): 8:41am On Apr 09, 2013
This is an amusing thread. ...I suppose just about everything is a sin nowadays when it comes to Christian logic!
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Alwaystrue(f): 9:09am On Apr 09, 2013
yemi solar: @op i will not join the bandwagon of criticizing or praising you, i would like to lay some points and let you judge for yourself:

FOR
1) you are watching with your wife with the intention of making better love.
2) it is in the seclusion of your home and hence no other person is hurt
3) it could be educational as you can be taught different styles.

AGAINST

1) when you look at the woman, do you picture your wife or when you are doing it with your wife you will have the picture of the woman in mind. (whoever looks at a woman lustfuly...)

2) would you be willing to allow someone tape your lovemeking session and sell as tapes for others to watch. How about is the woman in the vidoe was your sister, would you still be comfortable?(do unto others what you want them to do to you)

3) do you have children? Dont tell me that they cannot come across it, so how would you feel when they do?

Finally, sometimes we feel se**x is an aspect of our lives God is not interested in or at least concernen about. who said the Holy Spirit cannot give you ideas on creative styles? we would rather turn to the devil for that not knowing that the devil does not have anything original.

So the decision is yours
I rest my case.

I think this is the best answer so far.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 9:54am On Apr 09, 2013
How anyone can justify this hideous and dark behaviour under any circumctance is beyond me.

It is PLAIN Wrong and the stuff of P.erversion.


"26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. 27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error...... They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity.....Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them. - Romans 1:26-32

Why is normal s.ex with one's wife not sufficient , why should we introduce deviant behavior into the equation ?


Ephesians 5:11-12
New International Version (NIV)
11 Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by olubuffett: 11:07am On Apr 09, 2013
@ bin gbagbo

As a teenager most boys saw those porn got charged up look for a girl to release the tension on.

What you are doing is sowing seeds for the destruction of your marriage, suppose your wife went on a course or you have to be apart for a period of time, then started playing those movies in your head because of loneliness. would you be able to control yourself and not sleep with another woman that comes around? if you can, what about your wife will she be able to control herself.

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Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by Nobody: 11:17am On Apr 09, 2013
olubuffett: @ bin gbagbo

As a teenager most boys saw those porn got charged up look for a girl to release the tension on.

What you are doing is sowing seeds for the destruction of your marriage, suppose your wife went on a course or you have to be apart for a period of time, then started playing those movies in your head because of loneliness. would you be able to control yourself and not sleep with another woman that comes around? if you can, what about your wife will she be able to control herself.

Thank You.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by alfaman2: 12:01pm On Apr 09, 2013
bin gbagbo: HELP!
I often watch pporn with my legally married wife, and i just want to find out if its okay as a christian or not, of course backed with scripture. thank you

I didn't know they let children marry these days.
Re: I Watch Pornograffic Movies With My Wife, Are We Sinning?? by frankson12000(m): 9:58pm On Aug 25, 2013
yes it is a sin, with the following reasons, it can cause one to be promiscuous, it occupies the mind and makes one to be thinking about sex always thereby leading to committing the act in ones mind which Christ condemns, it opens one up to evil spirit infestation, it is called the lust of the eye in the scripture, Ephesians 5:19 warns us against sexual perversions, so you see why you have to resist it; God bless you as you do that Amen.

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