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Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Ojdanavigator(m): 9:48pm On Apr 27, 2013
One big thing missing in most pick-up-lines and other pick up techniques is "masculinity". It seems like We've forgotten how to be manly men, and that's a not right because the ladies love it. Be A Man With A Purpose.

What makes men and women different? Women are more emotionally inclined and attached to relationships. Men are more purposeful. So, as a man one of the most important things you can do when trying to seduce a girl, is to demonstrate a purpose.

Most Women respond positively to men who have a purpose. The best way to pick up women is to have something better to do than picking up reason. It's the reason why some nice guys never have a problem getting laid.

If you have an overwhelming passion, you will get beautiful girls. The simple reason is that girls are attracted to that. Women want to be the swirling sea of emotion around the rock of your strength. Sounds funny huh, I know, but it's true.

The mistake most guys make is that they don't have that purpose. They let the woman become their purpose. A guy will bounce around the woman and let her make all the decisions. The only problem is that this turns her off because it's not in her nature.

Now, How do you demonstrate a purpose tactically? First of all, talk about your passion. Passion and fun are a winning combination for getting beautiful ladies. What do you want to do with your life? Start with that. Start planning to make things happen in your life.

Leading is also going to make a huge difference. Learning to lead is the most important thing you can do. There are so many levels at which you have to lead. Women aren't aggressive naturally. They're not going to make the first move. You've got to do that. Read more http://seductiontipsnaija..in/2013/why-some-guys-fail-when-trying-to.html
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by 190: 10:01pm On Apr 27, 2013
ask me again angry
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Caracta(f): 11:00pm On Apr 27, 2013
Wow! Nice cheesy
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by OkikiOluwa1(m): 12:10am On Apr 28, 2013
Caracta: Wow! Nice cheesy
Omoge how you dey? Blv you are good.
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Caracta(f): 12:12am On Apr 28, 2013
Okiki_Oluwa: Omoge how you dey? Blv you are good.
Lol @ Omoge. I'm fine though. Thanks cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by OkikiOluwa1(m): 12:22am On Apr 28, 2013
Caracta:
Lol @ Omoge. I'm fine though. Thanks cheesy cheesy
dnt mind me. Take care.

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Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Caracta(f): 12:38am On Apr 28, 2013
Okiki_Oluwa: dnt mind me. Take care.
You too birthday mate cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by daduke2k(m): 12:49am On Apr 28, 2013
Real helpful. But I thought u said pick up lines and seduction. Its no where near ur post.
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Nobody: 12:54am On Apr 28, 2013
If na naija babe u no need to speak too much grammer.just show her d sixze of ur wallet And she go say yees

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Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Scarpon(m): 1:31am On Apr 28, 2013
am 23 and never woo a lady in my life behaviour matters
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by gunuvi(m): 2:41am On Apr 28, 2013
Scarpon: am 23 and never woo a lady in my life behaviour matters
Your stepmother dey winch u. Better go see TB Joshua.
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Nobody: 8:47am On Apr 28, 2013
Ojdanavigator: One big thing missing in most pick-up-lines and other pick up techniques is "masculinity". It seems like We've forgotten how to be manly men, and that's a not right because the ladies love it. Be A Man With A Purpose.

What makes men and women different? Women are more emotionally inclined and attached to relationships. Men are more purposeful. So, as a man one of the most important things you can do when trying to seduce a girl, is to demonstrate a purpose.

Most Women respond positively to men who have a purpose. The best way to pick up women is to have something better to do than picking up reason. It's the reason why some nice guys never have a problem getting laid.

If you have an overwhelming passion, you will get beautiful girls. The simple reason is that girls are attracted to that. Women want to be the swirling sea of emotion around the rock of your strength. Sounds funny huh, I know, but it's true.

The mistake most guys make is that they don't have that purpose. They let the woman become their purpose. A guy will bounce around the woman and let her make all the decisions. The only problem is that this turns her off because it's not in her nature.

Now, How do you demonstrate a purpose tactically? First of all, talk about your passion. Passion and fun are a winning combination for getting beautiful ladies. What do you want to do with your life? Start with that. Start planning to make things happen in your life.

Leading is also going to make a huge difference. Learning to lead is the most important thing you can do. There are so many levels at which you have to lead. Women aren't aggressive naturally. They're not going to make the first move. You've got to do that. Read more http://seductiontipsnaija..in/2013/why-some-guys-fail-when-trying-to.html
abegi, why men fail is money. If you are broke you will always fail but when there is money, even when you cough, you will get like 3 gurls with it.
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Aklofs: 9:19am On Apr 28, 2013
@OP.I was about wooing a fine gal last wik wen a guy with ordinary mercedez benz 190 parked by d road.Wot he did was 2 wave @ her d@ was d end.
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Nobody: 9:21am On Apr 28, 2013
[size=13pt]It's much more than a guy not having a purpose. I don't like pickup lines because they're often recycled and don't represent his mind or true feelings; if he has any at all. Hearing pickup lines makes a woman feel cheap, used, or less worthy. Some women will even tell you it makes them feel like a piece of meat. I know that if I tell him no after his "heaven must be missing an angel" cliché, he'll use those lines on the next woman he sees.

A guy should be himself. Not only is that familiar territory, but women like confident men, and confident men are best at being themselves.[/size]

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Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Seun(m): 10:12am On Apr 28, 2013
ogugua88: A guy should be himself.
LOL. Nope. Not unless his goal is to remain single like me for all eternity. smiley

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Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by SLIDEwaxie(m): 10:18am On Apr 28, 2013
A guy will only fail to seduce a girl if he is broke. With a pot belly, and nice dough, i can fucck miss world!
Infact, that is wen the statement, 'love is blind' becomes a valid argument!
Go figure!
No be modelling queen marry seal?
Abi gerald pique fine reach me wen he marry shakira?
JZ nko, that ugly thing?
Like i said, go figure!
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Scarpon(m): 11:12am On Apr 28, 2013
gunuvi:
Your stepmother dey winch u. Better go see TB Joshua.
put on your glass and grab a dictionary please
Re: Why Guys Fail When Trying To Seduce Girls With Pick Up Lines by Nobody: 4:50pm On Apr 28, 2013
Seun: LOL. Nope. Not unless his goal is to remain single like me for all eternity. smiley

[size=13pt]Your own case is different. I'll find a solution for you, no worry lol. smiley[/size]

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