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| Why Do Relationships Break by ashe2(f): 4:53pm On Apr 28, 2008 |
am reali tired of being in and out of a relationship amalmost on the verge of giving up the stress of getting over and startin all over is so overwhelmin d problem is i have neva known why my relationships busted? |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Cayon(f): 2:07am On Apr 29, 2008 |
Not pertaining to you but some people don't get to really know each other before they begin a serious relationship. They don't wait to have intercourse. Heck some people have sex on the first date and just rush everything. Rush relationship leads 2 lack of trust. And trust binds love and other important relationship-related things together. If you can't trust each other, then doubts will appear and soon you'll start to dislike him or his habits. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Cadet(f): 2:14am On Apr 29, 2008 |
@post Not strong enough |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Radiant(f): 2:18am On Apr 29, 2008 |
ashe2: Who will know? |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Cadet(f): 2:20am On Apr 29, 2008 |
Radiant:Haba na! hehehe, play the role of the NL Therapist. They expect us to magically know the answer. @poster The string was too weak, it snapped from too much stress |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Cayon(f): 2:32am On Apr 29, 2008 |
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| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by NaJaHaJe(f): 9:43am On Apr 29, 2008 |
ashe2: errr. , . . . . . because they are made of glass?  |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Eclairs: 10:24am On Apr 29, 2008 |
NaJa HaJe: lol. Comes down to impatience most times especially when the girl's preserving her v like a trophy and the dude is in no mood to wait. It may also result from one of the duo not pulling his/her weight enough. Dnt knw the reason for your own breakup but ask yourself why, first person break up, second person break up, third person break up, then fourth person come breakup. Haba, you carry shit for head? I think you gat search yourself. Not to be rude o. Tryin to be funny. Perhaps not good enof but emmm, the truth is that after the first and second, you got to settle down and think, think, think, then pray as well, smfin's definitely not rte |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Steroid101(m): 10:39am On Apr 29, 2008 |
Is simply low attraction, you can check out why attractions falls here www.datingkeys..com/ , but since you are a woman, I suspect you might have character problem, which you think is right, but wrong in the sight of men. Do you know that men die for some girls, fight for her, quarrel just because of one girl, so why leave you. I suggest you search yourself very well, they said character cannot be changed, I don't think is true because, me I can change my character. Try yours and see what happens |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by yemivictor: 12:04pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
Because often times, we simply have our priorities misplaced! Imagine a babe on some other thread saying her boyfriend makes her cry!! Why? because she keeps hollering about both of them getting married in the nearest future & the chap seems not committed!!! This is a girl who should be facing her studies squarely while every other thing should be secondary! But sadly, she's got it twisted!! These kind of babes tend to experience a lot of heart breaks before they get married, if they are so lucky!!! |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by tngtech(m): 12:07pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
Sometimes, it could be distance. Distance relationship is very very, i mean very bad. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Eclairs: 1:49pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
tngtech: Appears you dont believe in long distance relationship |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Busta(f): 1:56pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
- one of the partners wants to compromise - one of the partners got too greedy and has wondering eyes - one of the partners don't wanna sacrifice to the relationship - The relationship was not reciprocal . . . one sides, one person is always taking and neva givin. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Templa(m): 2:05pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
@ post cos they r based on lust |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by onyekang1(f): 2:07pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
Busta:u're damn rite, not 4getting lack of trust,tolerance,understanding,, and the list is endless |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by tngtech(m): 2:55pm On Apr 29, 2008 |
Eclairs: Exactly, because it sucks. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by frank316(m): 11:53am On May 02, 2008 |
why wont it break? nothing good lasts forever. reletionship wil break because of people's misconception of what love is. to make your relationship last long enough, you must understand that love fades, therefore you must seek out those things that could serve as subtitution for love when it fades and bring them into the relationship. this is not a guarantee that it will last forever, but long enough |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by babyx(f): 12:20pm On May 02, 2008 |
@ashe2 relationships break because its about time, if the thing brings more PAIN than JOY, y should you stay.? Gal you need develop a SHOCK ABSORBING SYSTEM, get a grip on your EMOTIONS dont let them run wild, So live each day like its your last, let go of all those hurts and pains, all those excesse luggages will weigh you down, so you can appreciate other relationships,  1 Like |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by yemivictor: 12:52pm On May 02, 2008 |
babyx: Could this mean having extra-marital affairs in a marriage setting!? |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by babyx(f): 5:56pm On May 02, 2008 |
@yemivictor not applicable in a marriage setting, only 4 singles who are yet to get to that level of relationship. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Scopium: 7:15pm On May 02, 2008 |
[size=13pt]There's time for everything. It breaks because it has reached the breaking point.[/size] |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by CrazyMan(m): 7:24pm On May 02, 2008 |
Look before you leap; a relationship isn’t something you rush into. Take your time to study your partner before giving him your body; if you fall for a guy because he’s cute, rich, or because of fetish reasons then that relationship won’t last. And finally before you fall in love with someone, you must make sure that the person you’re falling in love with must love you the same way you love him. If not, such relationship won't last. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by sylvao2000(m): 7:29pm On May 02, 2008 |
@poster: Because you are still young, just wait you will soon find out why when you grow up. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by elizabetta(f): 12:04pm On May 03, 2008 |
There is no love and understanding.it is full of lust |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by frank316(m): 4:55pm On May 03, 2008 |
crazykid: if you dont fall in love withg a person because of these things, can you tell me the reason why we should fall in love? please be sincere, i really really need an answer so that i can know what to do to make my relationship last |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Youngpo413: 10:18pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
elizabetta: |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by ronald4lif(m): 10:43pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Cayon: Having sex early or not has nothing to do with relationship break ups, at least 90% of couples today had pre-marital sex but still tied the nuptial knots. Relationships today appears to have become a contract, a business one, majority of guys now believes when rendering a favour to their bae she owe him a duty to bed him. Similarly, its a common knowledge that girls takes it that whilst she's beding a guy he has to foot her bills. Footing a girl's bills shouldn't be a bait for sex normally but when the bills are not basics but unneccesary things it becomes a problem. The love for fancy lifestyles, having the best human hair, mac powder, designer wears, electronic gadgets which they use to intimate their fellow girls has become one of the top reasons why relationships hit the rocks. Buying these gadgets for someone who can afford them might not be the problem but when he realises that is the only reason you're with him then there's gobe. OP what do you bring to the table in a relationship; just sex and/or unbearable monetary demands? Do you encourage him, pay attention to his aspirations, get him even the least expensive gifts for special days as birthday or val's day, do you share same interest as him or at least show some concerns towards what relates to him generally. These are some of the reasons why many relationships last less longer than in the past. Yes sex its very vital in a relationship but sex alone can't keep him forever. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Jennydoris(f): 10:53pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Because the two parties fails to understand what they are into and the meaning of that word relationship. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by BreezyRita(f): 5:52am On Nov 28, 2014 |
Because shyt happens. All the time... babyx: Really?? And who are these divorcees?? |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by kelvinmuffins3(m): 7:07am On Nov 28, 2014 |
Because whatever as a beginning will surely end someday or somehow... Cheers! |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by Youngpo413: 10:10am On Jan 28, 2016 |
elizabetta:you are what you attract. |
| Re: Why Do Relationships Break by kunlexze(m): 11:47am On Jan 28, 2016 |
My g.f called me last week friday but i did't go out with my phone(i went out 3p.m nd came back 7p.m)just for me to see 47 missed called from her,then i called her and explain dat my phone was low nd i was charging it,she just hanged up d call on me saying i delibrately did't pick her call.i called her back for like 10 times,but she keeps cutting the call...later she called back nd i asked her why she did't pick my calls then she said "she did't feel like picking it" and i said ok then she hang up..up till today she haven't even call me or send a msg,on monday i called her she just talked in an annoying manner..i cant just help but to let the sleeping dog lie |
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