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14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by AdeniyiA(m): 4:40am On Jun 17, 2013
While the ability to communicate, honesty, and reliability came out as top traits, and those make perfect sense, there are many of other characteristics that make a guy a keeper . this list is a collection of my mental picture of a great guy. I hope I too'll be able to perform all cos it's one thing to say/write it, it's another thing to do it. May God gives us understanding.

Without further ado ...

1. He's supportive no matter what. Whether you're struggling with your career or health or any other personal challenge, ladies want a man who is going to be encouraging, stick by their sides, and want to support them financially, emotionally, etc. even when he would have no need to.

2. He's loyal. Obviously someone who would never cheat or sell you(ladies) out, but also ...

3. ... not a mama's boy. No lady wants to spend a lifetime with a man who will repeatedly put his mom before her.

4. But he's not disrespectful of his mom. *If a man is disrespectful of his mother, he will disrespect you. If he does not get along with his mother, he is a bad risk.*

5. He's family-oriented. To the ladies now, Even if you don't necessarily want to have kids, you probably want to marry a guy you can build a home and a life with. And who prioritizes togetherness with loved ones. Every time I see how important it is to be close with one's family.

6. He's patient. File a guy with a hair-trigger temper under "do not want."

7. He would drop what he's doing to help little old ladies or children or anyone in need cross the street. Self-explanatory.

8. He's fun to be around. Life's short, but also too long to be bored by your partner.

9|. He's sexy. It never hurts to find your man irresistibly attractive.

10. He's flexible. Some people are just naturally more stubborn, but a marriage is a two-way street, so he's gotta be willing to compromise.

11. He's compassionate. Being able to sympathize and empathize with others proves he's got a huge heart.

12. He's intellectually curious. Gotta love a man who never wants to stop learning. Keeps the conversation flowing and life exciting!

13. He's motivated and strong. Conviction, drive, passion, etc. isn't just hot but it'll help him push through life's adversities.

14. He helps you tackle your to-do list without being asked. He'll take your little fluffy lap dog out for a walk or go get your car's oil changed, just to make your life less stressful.

You can add yours, I think I try small, I don reach to get married now. *sml*
NL ladies, what do you think?

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Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by gerrardomendes(m): 7:01am On Jun 17, 2013
kud one. first to commence sha. but gom o,a man fit ket all dis tings?
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by tpia5: 7:09am On Jun 17, 2013
this guy only exists in fantasyland.
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 7:36am On Jun 17, 2013
Seconded
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by daisyella: 7:53am On Jun 17, 2013
Fairytales.. Buh ladies never give up hope of finding him cheesy
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by blood1(f): 8:52am On Jun 17, 2013
TDH&R grin tongue
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 9:31am On Jun 17, 2013
I have got almost the qualities written up there...

But girls/ladies often want the opposite because they are as blind as BAT to see.

However, there seem to be an exception with one lady now who I think can see those qualities and she is fighting to keep me.

And I ain't doing anything serious to get her attention but just being myself.

They exist in reality land but our ladies have their heads in the clouds and building castle in the air.

I am proud of me!
tpia@:
this guy only exists in fantasyland.

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Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 9:36am On Jun 17, 2013
Thats my baby grin
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 11:46am On Jun 17, 2013
Nice... Tell that lady up who say the only exist in fantasy land...
mondi_cheeks: Thats my baby grin
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by daisyella: 12:14pm On Jun 17, 2013
2s£xy:
I have got almost the qualities written up there...

But girls/ladies often want the opposite because they are as blind as BAT to see.

However, there seem to be an exception with one lady now who I think can see those qualities and she is fighting to keep me.

And I ain't doing anything serious to get her attention but just being myself.

They exist in reality land but our ladies have their heads in the clouds and building castle in the air.

I am proud of me!
What is dis one talkin, since u can brag abt ¶τ̲̅, I bet u r worse
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jun 17, 2013
Good list. For some reason, when I saw the word "strong" I immediately thought of Henry Cavill in Man of Steel, damn. I need to get that movie out of my head now.

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Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by mekaboy(m): 12:53pm On Jun 17, 2013
Its not all about husband or wife material anymore, its about how many yards of husband or wife material. There are a lot of husband/wife material out there. The question remains, how many yards?
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 17, 2013
My friend, did I quote you?

You must be mentally sick..
daisyella:
What is dis one talkin, since u can brag abt ¶τ̲̅, I bet u r worse
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jun 17, 2013
Choi... I need to watch that movie ooh.
Yield: Good list. For some reason, when I saw the word "strong" I immediately thought of Henry Cavill in Man of Steel, damn. I need to get that movie out of my head now.
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jun 17, 2013
2s£xy:
Choi... I need to watch that movie ooh.

You should cheesy. It seems to have mixed reviews; some people're a bit critical of it, while others like it. I enjoyed it and I'm really liking Russel Crowe now too! I just loved him and his whole aura in the movie. I think he's a very clever actor and he's now one of my favourite actors. He's replacing Will Smith lipsrsealed. After Earth was meh; I was disappointed; he could've done better.
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jun 17, 2013
Adeniyi A.:
While the ability to communicate, honesty, and reliability came out as top traits, and those make perfect sense, there are many of other characteristics that make a guy a keeper . this list is a collection of my mental picture of a great guy. I hope I too'll be able to perform all cos it's one thing to say/write it, it's another thing to do it. May God gives us understanding.

Without further ado ...

1. He's supportive no matter what. Whether you're struggling with your career or health or any other personal challenge, ladies want a man who is going to be encouraging, stick by their sides, and want to support them financially, emotionally, etc. even when he would have no need to.

2. He's loyal. Obviously someone who would never cheat or sell you(ladies) out, but also ...

3. ... not a mama's boy. No lady wants to spend a lifetime with a man who will repeatedly put his mom before her.

4. But he's not disrespectful of his mom. *If a man is disrespectful of his mother, he will disrespect you. If he does not get along with his mother, he is a bad risk.*

5. He's family-oriented. To the ladies now, Even if you don't necessarily want to have kids, you probably want to marry a guy you can build a home and a life with. And who prioritizes togetherness with loved ones. Every time I see how important it is to be close with one's family.

6. He's patient. File a guy with a hair-trigger temper under "do not want."

7. He would drop what he's doing to help little old ladies or children or anyone in need cross the street. Self-explanatory.

8. He's fun to be around. Life's short, but also too long to be bored by your partner.

9|. He's sexy. It never hurts to find your man irresistibly attractive.

10. He's flexible. Some people are just naturally more stubborn, but a marriage is a two-way street, so he's gotta be willing to compromise.

11. He's compassionate. Being able to sympathize and empathize with others proves he's got a huge heart.

12. He's intellectually curious. Gotta love a man who never wants to stop learning. Keeps the conversation flowing and life exciting!

13. He's motivated and strong. Conviction, drive, passion, etc. isn't just hot but it'll help him push through life's adversities.

14. He helps you tackle your to-do list without being asked. He'll take your little fluffy lap dog out for a walk or go get your car's oil changed, just to make your life less stressful.

You can add yours, I think I try small, I don reach to get married now. *sml*
NL ladies, what do you think?

Next time take my permission before writing about me but because i like the post very much i will let it slide, don't do it again. grin

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Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by daisyella: 10:55pm On Jun 17, 2013
2s£xy:
My friend, did I quote you?

You must be mentally sick..
Def not sicker Dan u
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by Godson201333(m): 6:46am On Jun 18, 2013
Okay i will show my girl and she can rate me!!
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by cityhood: 9:40pm On Jun 20, 2013
Adeniyi A.:
While the ability to communicate, honesty, and reliability came out as top traits, and those make perfect sense, there are many of other characteristics that make a guy a keeper . this list is a collection of my mental picture of a great guy. I hope I too'll be able to perform all cos it's one thing to say/write it, it's another thing to do it. May God gives us understanding.

Without further ado ...

1. He's supportive no matter what. Whether you're struggling with your career or health or any other personal challenge, ladies want a man who is going to be encouraging, stick by their sides, and want to support them financially, emotionally, etc. even when he would have no need to.

2. He's loyal. Obviously someone who would never cheat or sell you(ladies) out, but also ...

3. ... not a mama's boy. No lady wants to spend a lifetime with a man who will repeatedly put his mom before her.

4. But he's not disrespectful of his mom. *If a man is disrespectful of his mother, he will disrespect you. If he does not get along with his mother, he is a bad risk.*

5. He's family-oriented. To the ladies now, Even if you don't necessarily want to have kids, you probably want to marry a guy you can build a home and a life with. And who prioritizes togetherness with loved ones. Every time I see how important it is to be close with one's family.

6. He's patient. File a guy with a hair-trigger temper under "do not want."

7. He would drop what he's doing to help little old ladies or children or anyone in need cross the street. Self-explanatory.

8. He's fun to be around. Life's short, but also too long to be bored by your partner.

9|. He's sexy. It never hurts to find your man irresistibly attractive.

10. He's flexible. Some people are just naturally more stubborn, but a marriage is a two-way street, so he's gotta be willing to compromise.

11. He's compassionate. Being able to sympathize and empathize with others proves he's got a huge heart.

12. He's intellectually curious. Gotta love a man who never wants to stop learning. Keeps the conversation flowing and life exciting!

13. He's motivated and strong. Conviction, drive, passion, etc. isn't just hot but it'll help him push through life's adversities.

14. He helps you tackle your to-do list without being asked. He'll take your little fluffy lap dog out for a walk or go get your car's oil changed, just to make your life less stressful.

You can add yours, I think I try small, I don reach to get married now. *sml*
NL ladies, what do you think?
Re: 14 Ways You Can Tell He's 'Husband Material' by kliq(m): 8:40am On Jun 21, 2013
I disagree wit point #3....puttin ur mom ahead in a way dat is not disrespectful doesn't mean u are a mama's boy...jus appreciatin mom for bin there all ur life

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