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If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by abbeyseto(m): 1:13pm On Jun 17, 2013
LADIES, this question goes to you.
What will you do if your fiance confess to you he's HIV+ during courtship? And you really love him so much.
He hasn't had s*e"x with you when he decided to tell you and he's also deeply in love with you.

comment is also welcomed from GUYS.
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by AtheistD(m): 1:33pm On Jun 17, 2013
abbeyseto: LADIES, this question goes to you.
What will you do if your fiance confess to you he's HIV+ during courtship? And you really love him so much.
He hasn't had sex with you when he decided to tell you and he's also deeply in love with you.

comment is also welcomed from GUYS.

Life, health, vitality and safety first. It would take a lot to stay in that relationship.
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Sanboy25: 1:33pm On Jun 17, 2013
I leave him.
He lied by omission on a very important subject. undecided
wink
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by AtheistD(m): 1:39pm On Jun 17, 2013
Sanboy25: I leave him.
He lied by omission on a very important subject. undecided
wink

Yeah. I agree.

I'd dump her azzzz tongue
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Sanboy25: 1:43pm On Jun 17, 2013
Atheist:-D:
Yeah. I agree. I'd dump her azzzz tongue
lol, on top of it he made me lose my time with him... undecided when he knew he was not husband material...
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by AtheistD(m): 1:45pm On Jun 17, 2013
Sanboy25:
lol, on top of it he made me lose my time with him... undecided when he knew he was not husband material...

Yeah. To hell with the antiretrovirals angry angry angry angry
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Nosyke(m): 1:45pm On Jun 17, 2013
@op, this is for you!!!1

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Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Sanboy25: 1:51pm On Jun 17, 2013
Atheist:-D:
Yeah. To hell with the antiretrovirals angry angry angry angry
grin
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 17, 2013
sadly we'll have to end the intimate relationship, and look for separate spouses. But i'll still support her financially, emotionally and in eveey other way i can...
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by abbeyseto(m): 2:02pm On Jun 17, 2013
Nosyke: @op, this is for you!!!1

Nosyke, nice one!
But u know at times following your heart is the best thing to do. In life issues, brain can fail you. What if he keeps it to himself until two months after the wedding? its because theres genuine love thats why he came out.
Don't you think so?
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Monicasque(f): 2:13pm On Jun 17, 2013
my friend with aids is still my friend. Just because he's got hiv , it does not mean its the end. Atleast he would have been honest enough to protect me. We would take precautions and protect ourselves. I do not mind even adopting babies but its so nice now because an hiv parent can have a biological child without exposing the child to the Disease . I would continue and love him the best way i know how. I know so many people who have lived with HIV for a very long time and are leading healthy happy life styles. I know this topic brings so much fear to peaople but fear is just a mental thing.What would you do if you married a guy who did not have aids, then a few years into the marriage he makes a mistake, cheats with someone who infects him then comes back and passes it on to you? would you kill yourself? and hun never say never coz no one knows tomorrow. Atleast ask those who got the disease being marriage themselves.
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by 2goodbobo(m): 2:34pm On Jun 17, 2013
Short and long of the matter is that if he really love you, we ought to have told you the truth from the onset.
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by 2goodbobo(m): 2:35pm On Jun 17, 2013
He ought*
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Nosyke(m): 2:37pm On Jun 17, 2013
abbeyseto:

Nosyke, nice one!
But u know at times following your heart is the best thing to do. In life issues, brain can fail you. What if he keeps it to himself until two months after the wedding? its because theres genuine love thats why he came out.
Don't you think so?

I get your point, but lets face it, the truth has been said (thanks for the honesty), can you sincerely say that it wont bother you, can you sincerely live not to regret it? Lets not even start with the stigma, can you live with it.

Too bad its happened but hey..........life's too short not to be happy.
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Mynd44: 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2013
Wow
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by EMERITUS1(m): 6:57pm On Jun 17, 2013
stylishly breakup the relationship so you dont look like a bad person
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Mynd44: 6:59pm On Jun 17, 2013
EMERITUS1: stylishly breakup the relationship so you dont look like a bad person
So if I don't, I look like a bad person? :O
Re: If Your Fiance Confess To You He's HIV+ During Courtship, What Will U Do? by Nobody: 9:58am On Jun 18, 2013
I will break up with him but we can still be friends .

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