Enegod: We see posts all the time about high
standards, about people's lists of
requirements in a date. Posts about what
people will or will not put up with, about
not being willing to settle. We even see
people post about never wanting get
serious with someone again, or at least
never wanting to get married again. We
frequently see "Dump him!" posts, or "I'd
be outta there so fast!" Most of us have
participated in discussions like this and
maybe even made such claims ourselves.
What about when you're actually dating
someone that you are really into? Do you
find yourself remaining logical? Do you
actually practice what you preach here in
the forum? Or do you find that chemistry
and emotions plays much greater parts in
your choices than you remembered, and
that your willingness to do things or
tolerate things depends on the person
you're with?

Mrs.Chima:

Vivly: This is a faceless forum. Most people come here to try to be what is very unrealistic for them.
In reality, it is very difficult to strongly act what you preach because our lives are determined by many other factors other than our choices. Remember the saying 'easier said than done'. Some post good and moral stuff to maintain their reputation even when they practise otherwise.
Others form saints to attract good girls on nairaland.
Others criticize what is considered bad either because most people are criticizing it, to get in with the popular crowd, to get likes or maybe to confound their confusion.
In essence, this is a faceless forum where a runs girl might tell you that she hates it when girls demoralize themselves by sleeping around.
All those wayo wayo people for nairaland eh, na laff i dey use read their post.

hiden_conyo: Face it IF people practiced what they
preached more people would be dating.

jmoore: my words reflect my lifestyle.

Enegod: ya, people like mrs chima for don dey date by now...smh

Mrs.Chima:


Your fada.

Enegod: awwww..you must be very lonely

Mrs.Chima:


Actually Chima is next to me reading a book.

Enegod: sorry, he is tired of you, i guess. You aint doing your job as a wife..smh

sexytabhi: Practice what you preach like no sex before marriage,like I am a virgin,and blabla

REALITY101: Op are you Mynd or related to him?

Mrs.Chima:


He is an educated man and he does what educated people do....read.

You might want to refresh with your elders...the basics of marriage cos your perception is a bit uhmmmm.

Enegod: yes...so, do you?

Enegod: ok, you're a great woman..so, do you practice what u preach here? i.e, cursing people in real life or should i say your husband?

Monicasque: what do u have to gain by giving fake advice to someone u will never even get a chance to meet?