Pls i nid ur sincere advice. How can I test my fiance if he's double dating?He has always given me series of test unknowingly to me (of which I've never fumbled) and he always accuse me of not trying to find out somethings about him.Pls advise me as I've never had any experience with any man before.

sumthings are better left unkonown as long as you think he faithful 2 u then don't bother yourself with that crap

He ALWAYS accuses you of not finding out things about him right? Then hire a private detective

hummmm!
''some things are best ''
left unknown , ,,,unless
u can handle it,but if not
my dear i will say u should just look away

any way i don't no what ur relationship is
based on with him or how long u've been together
but the truth is if u no today that he is double dating
u will not trust and love him as u are now.
will that be what u want?

so think b4 u act my dear

Motun mi:

Please i nid your sincere advice. How can I test my fiance if he's double dating?He has always given me series of test unknowingly to me (of which I've never fumbled) and[b] he always accuse me of not trying to find out somethings about him[/b].Please advise me as I've never had any experience with any man before.

Simple! Ask him more questions!

it would appear u have trust issues in ur relationship,

why shd either of u find the need to test?

My advise is to asses ur relationship, where or when will the testing stop?

how long will u continue to live that way?

Why testing

Why would u wanna do that?

its like both of u don't trust each so why get married?
by the time u're married . . y'all be spying on each other.

spying on a man, following what he is doing and checking up on him takes way too much energy. I have far far better things to do with my life then try to figure out if my man is true.

i truely believe, and it has been proven to me, that what is done in the dark will come to the light.

Just tell your man you fully trust him and that if he cheats that yall are done, married or not.

r u double dating?

@POSTER

Please allow sleeping dof to lie !

AM CONFUSED HERE, Y WUD HE WANT U TO FIND OUT THINGS ABOUT HIM. the things u dont knw wud not hurt you, unless ure doubtin him. just leave tthin the way they re and enjot ur r/ship

He is trying 2 tell u that u are a little sloppy and care free with the relationship. make him understand thats how ur character is and u dont have any reason 2 be insecure

Re: I nid ur advice

tngtech, I'm not double dating and not even with the intention of doing it.

@poster,
I like this your question. I will give you one or two clues but, it depend on you and fiance.

1. Tell him you have HIV virus and watch his reaction. Do so after, you have heard him say something like, without you, he can't live.

2. If he use yahoo mail, toast him as a strange lady using new yahoo ID. Then watch his reaction. If you are good, you will see what you look for!

Re: I nid ur help

Thanks 4 Dat.Anyone with more ideas?

Just ask yourself, is this the best way to get to know him? Why not ask him to take you out for meals, where you can both share your interests and your take on life.

Seriously, I don't like the idea of testing one partner. It is sometimes, stupid act borne out of insecurity and lack of faith in the other person. On few occations, I have been tested by ladies. Though I passed the tests, I never take the girls serious again! In fact, I didn't go further in the relationships.

I am a natural a natural psychologist, I read through their minds faster than they could imagine. Once, I detect any dangerous motive, I would register my complaint if the insecurity persist, I would disengage before the relationship advance. Only one lady survived that.

Testing your partner is good but you must be VERY, VERY careful to avoid future kickback. You can know your partner in many honest ways than test him. The kind of test to choose, if you must test, must be something that won't lead to bad blood in future.

A lady tested me, I passed her test. Then, months later, I quietly gave her the same test, and she went berserk! Never give what you can't accept!

Instead of testing, know you guy very well. But if you insist on testing, I would give you more ideas.

michelin89:

Simple! Ask him more questions!

michelin89:

Simple! Ask him more questions!

Hire me and I will do a good job for u. I will spy on him and give you all the information in camera.