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| Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by silverdam(m): 12:32am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Hi! Am a student of Olabisi Onabanjo University and I am confused on what to do ever since I discovered my hallmate and classmate was sleeping with my husband. I discovered through my husband's phone when I saw a text message sent by my hallmate, indicating her name and her account number, I was furious and I had to confront my husband to the extent of threatening him for a divorce. After the threats and insult my husband finally confessed that he met her through facebook that he never knew she stays in my hall and the girl even asked her out on facebook, to the extent that my husband and this my shameless hallmate met like 5 times in a Cheap chalet hotel that cost for 1000 naira per hour, my husband had sex with her like 4 times and she even gave my husband a Mouth Gig to the extent that she asked my husband if she was good on bed. I seriously don't know what to do cos this girl knows my husband very well to the extent I do give her things out of what My husband do bring for me in school, she has seen my husband countless time both on phone and in real life, although my husband does not recognise her. After this incident I told some of my other hallmates about how the harlot has been sleeping with my husband to my own surprise one them told me that she has done it to her before, that she tried to snatch her boyfriend to the extent she caught her in a hotel room with her boyfriend, and I was told she has been doing such for a long time and she has done it to so many people, calling her a husband snatcher. They told me she once said she Was going To Deal with me one time me and her had a misunderstanding. Ever since the incident the girl has refused to come back to the hall we live on campus, she's scared and ashamed. I don't know what to do to this situation, my hallmates said we should beat her me while some advise me to embarrass and humiliate her in class because we are both in the same class in the same department of Mass communication, everybody knows her in our class, they call her Alhaja because she is a muslim and she is always covering hair and everybody in our class thinks she's a holy girl. Pls help me what can I do? 1 Like
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| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nobody: 12:51am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Leaving your husband is a no-no. Otherwise, the other lady wins. The problem is with your husband not the girl though. I suggest you shakara him, get a word of promise from him and, most importantly, stay very close to him. On a lighter note, I suggest you go watch Why Did I Get Married Again if you need help on monitoring. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Popowaa: 12:55am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Padlock it and keep the keys so that u will be the only person to have access to his joystick |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nobody: 1:01am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Why the eff would I stay with him? Even God would pardon my divorce. In this scenario, the girl is of no consequence to me. Let her be the device some men will be tested against. Leave her alone. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by mecussey(m): 1:11am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Can this Op swear that she has not gone out with any guy in school since marriage. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nobody: 1:15am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Stup1d girls! Your husband cheated on you and you and your fellow fool1sh friends are planning to beat the girl he cheated on you with? Did she force him to cheat on you?? Don't you think he could have cheated on you with any another girl? Did the girl vow to stay faithful to you?? Is it the girl that owes you her loyalty or your husband?? The girl has done nothing to you, she can choose to open her legs to whoever she deems fit. 5 Likes |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by emorse(m): 1:24am On Sep 26, 2013 |
IMHO, I don't think you have any score to settle with your classmate. You should be more concerned about your husband. Fact is he cheated on you and you found out. It couldn't have been any better if she wasn't your classmate. You both (you and your hubby) should have a good talk about it and he must convince you that it will never happen again. Maybe a little punishment could help you feel better.. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nobody: 4:16am On Sep 26, 2013 |
mecussey: Can this Op swear that she has not gone out with any guy in school since marriage. simpleton that doesn't tackle the issue bro no need for the smear tactics.  smh typical nigerians |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by lomaxx: 4:44am On Sep 26, 2013 |
SMH for all these married folks without basic foundational maturity. Notice how your husband had an affair( irrespective of who), and you took it to your hall mates. Notice how you took your marriage/family issues to outsiders for evaluation and advisory response. Your story lacks some substance though. You claimed your husband can't recognize the very girl that lubricates his manhood with her womanly juice and her oral action? The same girl he pumped his phallus into furiously on countless occasions?? Ha!! Are you trying to exonerate your husband in the affair by that cheap line? Finally, kindly update us the line of action(or series of actions) your marriage-counsellor-hallmates recommend for your husband.  |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Exponental(m): 6:59am On Sep 26, 2013 |
If ur hubby isnt d 1st then, dont blame him, she's got d talent. Work on ur hubby n hope for a brighter future. BTW, are u guys married or almost? |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by veave(f): 7:14am On Sep 26, 2013 |
the problem lies with your husband. you have no bizness with ur coursemate... it could be another girl you know... 3 Likes |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by obyrich(m): 7:17am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Wu Zetian: Stup1d girls!Birds of a feather flock together. Remember this your advice when your own time comes. I'm sure you didn't read where the Op said the so-called Alhaja had vowed to deal with her because of a quarrel they had. The OP and her mates see Alhaja as a traitor and a betrayer. There are millions of people she could open her legs for but her friends husband. Since you didn't see anything wrong with her action I wish you plenty of such friends. My take is that both the Alhaja and the Op's hubby are at fault and the Op should reassess her trust level with them. A randy husband is as dangerous as a traitor friend. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Danhumprey: 7:26am On Sep 26, 2013 |
The OP is a male(as shown on it moniker),the story is about a female. Na wetin dey happen? 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Danhumprey: 7:29am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Popowaa: Padlock it and keep the keys so that u will be the only person to have access to his joystickThat is greediness na.  |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nomski0(f): 7:30am On Sep 26, 2013 |
lomaxx: SMH for all these married folks without basic foundational maturity.@bolded, its like you read my mind. And Op....forgive me but this your story is just too unbelievable. I feel its not real. But if it is true and it did happen, they you're going about it all wrong, sit your cheating husband down and ask him the what the hell he was thinking. Forget your friend o cause your husband could always find someone else to bang. Ask yourself why he would cheat on you. Are you sloppy in bed? Are you not dressing right? Fix your marriage angel and leave your friend to the judgement of karma. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nomski0(f): 7:32am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Danhumprey: The OP is a male(as shown on it moniker),the story is about a female. Na wetin dey happen?  |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by AbuMikey(m): 7:53am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Danhumprey: The OP is a male(as shown on it moniker),the story is about a female. Na wetin dey happen?**in sound sultan's voice** It is a Natural Something!!!  |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by iropelebe(m): 8:13am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Woman,your husband is the dog,too cheap. The babe is a street animal and any man can sleep with her. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Popowaa: 8:21am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Danhumprey: That is greediness na.that is her husband we are talkin abt,his penis belongs to her and her only |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nobody: 8:22am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Your hubby fell too cheap no sign of class. Anyways the deed has been done,you can hunt the girl down and beat her I don't have a problem with that but then sit yourself down and ask questions. 1. As a married woman,why am g in the hostel? 2. What is it I am not doing right that makes my husband cheat? 3. How is my performance in bed? You mentioned blow*job,and seem surprised like you don't give it to him. My one kobo talk. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by Nobody: 8:36am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Your husband is the problem. He is a randy man. Just tell him to shove it. Leave the babe alone. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by jmoore(m): 8:53am On Sep 26, 2013 |
The op is a male and has a husband. Are you gay or what? |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by homesteady(m): 9:21am On Sep 26, 2013 |
My usual advise for this type of case - Pour acid on the girl#Moral of the story - Nobody has a monopoly on wickedness! |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by bukatyne(f): 10:21am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Nomski0: Are the bolded reasons for cheating? |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by bukatyne(f): 10:23am On Sep 26, 2013 |
obyrich: Birds of a feather flock together. Remember this your advice when your own time comes. I'm sure you didn't read where the Op said the so-called Alhaja had vowed to deal with her because of a quarrel they had. The OP and her mates see Alhaja as a traitor and a betrayer. There are millions of people she could open her legs for but her friends husband. Since you didn't see anything wrong with her action I wish you plenty of such friends. My take is that both the Alhaja and the Op's hubby are at fault and the Op should reassess her trust level with them. A randy husband is as dangerous as a traitor friend. And what really has the 'alhaja' done to the OP? If the OP kills the alhaja, does it stop the husband from sleeping with another woman tomorrow? Imagine someone sick with typhoid and he/she keeps using flagyl for stomachache |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by obyrich(m): 10:41am On Sep 26, 2013 |
bukatyne:Read the last line of my post you quoted. Re-read the Op's quote. Then comment. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by silverdam(m): 11:28am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Yeah! I'm a male but this story happened to my bestfriend, she's married to this man with a kid.. Its a true life story |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by otunbashonny(m): 11:31am On Sep 26, 2013 |
As far as she's an OSU/OOU babe. No story. Na dere way. |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by bukatyne(f): 11:43am On Sep 26, 2013 |
obyrich: Read the last line of my post you quoted. Re-read the Op's quote. Then comment. Wu Zetian said Wu Zetian: Stup1d girls! You quoted the bolded in Wu's post and posted obyrich: Birds of a feather flock together. Remember this your advice when your own time comes. I'm sure you didn't read where the Op said the so-called Alhaja had vowed to deal with her because of a quarrel they had. The OP and her mates see Alhaja as a traitor and a betrayer. There are millions of people she could open her legs for but her friends husband. Since you didn't see anything wrong with her action I wish you plenty of such friends. My take is that both the Alhaja and the Op's hubby are at fault and the Op should reassess her trust level with them. A randy husband is as dangerous as a traitor friend. I quoted your post with emphasis on the bolded and said... bukatyne: No matter how the alhaja swore to deal with the wifey, if the hubby no gree, she will have found another way to deal with her. However, the alhaja might have used diabolical means to get the hubby. If that is the case, I wonder what beating her with solve. P.S.: Most jujus work after first contact (according to Nollywood anyways). |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by dridowu: 11:45am On Sep 26, 2013 |
What should i do now ? |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by silverdam(m): 5:54pm On Sep 26, 2013 |
dridowu: What should i do now ?self-service yourself to it now |
| Re: Help! My OOU Coursemate/hallmate Is Sleeping With My Husband by veave(f): 10:31pm On Sep 26, 2013 |
silverdam. how far with your close friend... has she talked to her husband yet? |
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