donez:

I have been stuck in this evil shell for the part 8 years i have tried any possible way i can to stop it but all to no avail.sometimes i take it as a normal way of life.i have listened to several messages against it, i have read many books, i have been counselled, what haven't i done .i have even as God to punish me if i try to do it again just to refrain myself from doing it.

One suprising thing is that nothing really sparks off the urge in me most of the times it occurs spontaneously.


Many a time i had made up my mind to stop this afterwards give me at most 2 weeks and i will start feeling heavy and the need to discharge, also something in me keeps telling me that if i can abstain from it for 6 months i will see positive changes in my life. To me, this sounds like passing a camel through the eye of a needle because i have not even gone a month without it for the past 8 years. Can i really stop it. Pls help

Bigcake:

My guy mas.turbation is a sexual sin.

In the process of stimulating urself u picture some n.ude girls in order to help boost d pleasure.

Lustful tinking is a sin, because mas.turbation starts wit lustful tinking. Pray God shld help u out of it because dat ting na long ting.

donez: I have been stuck in this evil shell for the part 8 years i have tried any possible way i can to stop it but all to no avail.sometimes i take it as a normal way of life.i have listened to several messages against it, i have read many books, i have been counselled, what haven't i done .i have even as God to punish me if i try to do it again just to refrain myself from doing it. One suprising thing is that nothing really sparks off the urge in me most of the times it occurs spontaneously. Many a time i had made up my mind to stop this afterwards give me at most 2 weeks and i will start feeling heavy and the need to discharge, also something in me keeps telling me that if i can abstain from it for 6 months i will see positive changes in my life. To me, this sounds like passing a camel through the eye of a needle because i have not even gone a month without it for the past 8 years. Can i really stop it. Pls help

Pacify: Unless you identify a real need to want to stop it, I'm afraid there's little or nothing u can do. Besides, masturbation isn't a sin as far as I can tell, it has no side effects and if u read medical and psychological books, they tend to confirm these facts.

donez:

Many a time i had made up my mind to stop this afterwards give me at most 2 weeks and i will start feeling heavy and the need to discharge,

also something in me keeps telling me that if i can abstain from it for 6 months i will see positive changes in my life.

To me, this sounds like passing a camel through the eye of a needle because i have not even gone a month without it for the past 8 years.
Can i really stop it. Pls help

Kabieosi:

@donez

Complete abstinence of a habit for 21 - 30 days will be enough to stop or break it

so far you've only done 2 weeks i.e. managed to do 14 days

Set another date to stop the habit,

and after 21 days, return back to update us how you fared

donez:

21 - 30 days, is this for real? 0h GOD help me

Kabieosi:




@Bigcake

Why manipulate OP's post and making changes by putting words in OP's post

OP wrote ". . . suprising thing is that nothing really sparks off the urge in me, most of the times it occurs spontaneously"

and you came up with "In the process of stimulating urself, u picture some n.ude girls in order to help boost d pleasure."

Kabieosi:


Man up, unless you rather try this french anti-m,asturbation device then?

Alwaystrue: Getting 'Unstuck'! (1)


Tuesday, 15 October 2013

'...He rewards those who earnestly seek Him.' Hebrews 11:6 NIV

Icy winters tend to bring multiple pile-ups with cars in snow-filled ditches waiting for tow trucks to rescue them. The drivers have different reactions.
Some surrender to feelings of being powerless,
Others get frustrated and deepen the rut they're in.
But the wise think rationally of steps they can take.

In life, getting stuck isn't always an option; but staying stuck is! Good news: no matter how long you've been stuck, the right attitude can get you moving again. So here are some attitude changers:

(1) Forgiveness. The guilt that follows failure can immobilise you long-term, but forgiveness liberates you - freeing up your energy and creativity. Forgiveness is two-dimensional: First, you must receive God's forgiveness for your failures. Things you've done: betrayal, angry words, dishonesty, broken promises etc. Things you haven't done: love unexpressed, responsibility avoided, a child, parent or spouse neglected, the truth withheld. Heartfelt confession always brings God's forgiveness! (1 John 1:9) Second, you must forgive those who've failed you - parents, siblings, children, bosses, spouses, friends, enemies etc. Severing the chains to your past restores your options for the future

(2) Faith. When you've been stuck for a long time, forward momentum can seem impossible. You lack direction, energy and confidence. What to do? Getting traction requires a willingness to act in spite of your feelings. God calls this 'faith' and He always responds to it! 'He rewards those who earnestly seek Him.' When you act like you believe, God will reward your faith - and the feeling of faith will follow your action!


SoulFood: Ex 25-27, John 3:22-36, Ps 89:15-37, Pr 26:20-22


O This is the Word for Today

Elvisten10: The fact is, if you want to stop it you will stop it. But you still love it and you can't control yourself. Four things i want to share with you:
1)Try to reduce your dosage slowly. If you go 3 times a week, reduce slowly to 2, then 1 time in 10 days, then 2 times a week, and keep reducing it.
2)Get a girl, if you are capable enough get married.
3)Try to be as busy as possible. Never be idle
4)Any time you feel the hunger coming up, tell yourself you own your body and not that little boy between your legs.

aManFromMars: There's nothing wrong with masturbation. See it as God's gift and alternative to fornication.


or commit fornication and ask for forgiveness..