Your partner discusses u (intimately) with his/her friends. . .  How would u take that?

its not a crime,as long as he says sthg good about me

Shey, if hin good, no wahala

if hin bad, Devil solder his ass!!!

whitelexi:

Your partner discusses u (intimately) with his/her friends. . .  How would u take that?

Not all good things make good gossip. . .  For instance, imagine u overhear your boyfriend in the living room with his friends discussing how good u are in bed over a can of beer

Will u class that a good thing or bad?

Hmm, positive gossips are just fine o!

Please no negative gisting

Good or bad, gossip aint good

whitelexi:

Good or bad, gossip aint good

so its also a bad thing,if a guy discusses his lover wt his friends,as in telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character

u mean its also bad or wat?

lady u:

so its also a bad thing,if a guy discusses his lover wt his friends,as in telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character

u mean its also bad or what?

You have a point there, but i wouldnt class that as gossip. . . Is there anything like "good Gossip"? I ask because, gossip as a word has always had a negativity about it and nothing positive.
I wont class that as gossip because: "telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character", this is what is expected of every woman, so its somewhat normal or even ordinary. . . You dont expect a man to admit in public that his wife is ugly naa

whitelexi:

You have a point there, but i wouldnt class that as gossip. . .  Is there anything like "good Gossip"? I ask because, gossip as a word has always had a negativity about it and nothing positive.
I wont class that as gossip because: "telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character", this is what is expected of every woman, so its somewhat normal or even ordinary. . .  You don't expect a man to admit in public that his wife is ugly naa

your subject said gossip,but d main topic said intimate discussion

if my man discusses me wt his friends and tells them how lucky he is to have me and so on,then i don't see that as a crime or is it?your character as a woman/man speaks out for u,though u might not be d one doing the talking ,but people who has had a one on one contact wt u,will help u spread it all wide

and if u call that gossip,then i guess we both have a diff defination of that word

mellow:

There is absolutely nothing positive about gossip. If there is

it should not have been called gossip.

there is sthg positive about it ,sometimes its said in a good way,but not in your presence and dats wen its called a gossip

True sha.

All Gossip is bad.

its like saying Im a Good Witch
or
Politicians are greedy.

PLs Oga dont Gossip about me oh!!

whitelexi:

Your partner discusses u (intimately) with his/her friends. . .  How would u take that?

You said friends that means he or she has no value and respect for you and cannot protect you
But if it is a friend I can say it is fine to confide in someone experienced and matured ( a friend in need is a friend indeed)

rubi:

You said friends that means he or she has no value and respect for you and cannot protect you
But if it is a friend I can say it is fine to confide in someone experienced and matured ( a friend in need is a friend indeed)

not true,you're attaching so much emotions to this

a man can be wt his friends ,and his friends might be discussing about how terrible their girls r,and also their bad characters and so on

and then your man opens his mouth and says that

"well im lucky to have my own wife/partner/lover ,shes quite diff from all this girls u people r talking about,shes a God sent to me,shes got a good character and gives me peace,i love her so well"

now tell me if that guy has no respect for u,if he does not have respect for u,y did he say so many good things about u?

whitelexi:

Not all good things make good gossip. . .  For instance, imagine u overhear your boyfriend in the living room with his friends discussing how good u are in bed over a can of beer

Will u class that a good thing or bad?

GUSH!!!
tis goin to lead to our break-up.
dat's a certainty.

beauteous:

GUSH!!!
tis goin to lead to our break-up.
that's a certainty.

lady u:

not true,you're attaching so much emotions to this

a man can be wt his friends ,and his friends might be discussing about how terrible their girls r,and also their bad characters and so on

and then your man opens his mouth and says that

"well I'm lucky to have my own wife/partner/lover ,shes quite diff from all this girls u people r talking about,shes a God sent to me,shes got a good character and gives me peace,i love her so well"

now tell me if that guy has no respect for u,if he does not have respect for u,y did he say so many good things about u?

The poster said intimate If you understand what intimate means not general compliment. I don't know whether you are married or single but when a man discusses his intimate relationship with his friends that is not acceptable

rubi:

The poster said intimate If you understand what intimate means not general compliment. I don't know whether you are married or single but when a man discusses his intimate relationship with his friends that is not acceptable

Over a can of beer ohhh

rubi:

The poster said intimate If you understand what intimate means not general compliment. I don't know whether you are married or single but when a man discusses his intimate relationship with his friends that is not acceptable

intimacy comes from d heart ,now if my husband expresses d love he has for me to his friends intimately is not intimacy ,then d definition of dat word is different

whitelexi:

Over a can of beer ohhh

u r confusing us here,ur subject said gossips,ur topic said intimate discussions and now u r saying over a can of beer

lady u:

you're confusing us here,your subject said gossips,your topic said intimate discussions and now you're saying over a can of beer

Gossips are gossiping about intimate issues regarding their partners over a can of beer
U get my drift

whitelexi:

Gossips are gossiping about intimate issues regarding their partners over a can of beer
You get my drift

and im still saiyng dat as long as he says sthg good about me,and not about our sexual life or other personal matters then its fine by me

We gossip & men gossip. If he really matters to u, u know what to say & what not to say about him. (vise versa)

jkpretty:

We gossip & men gossip. If he really matters to u, u know what to say & what not to say about him. (vise versa)

my point exactly

lady u:

and im still saiyng that as long as he says sthg good about me,and not about our sexual life or other personal matters then its fine by me

If he says something good about u, whether u r there or not, thats a compliment but not a gossip

whitelexi:

If he says something good about u, whether you're there or not, thats a compliment but not a gossip

nope u seem to have forgotten dat sometimes we gossip about pple positively(wen they r not there)

gossip has got d good and bad side,thats d simple fact

lady u:

nope u seem to have forgotten that sometimes we gossip about people positively(when they r not there)

gossip has got d good and bad side,thats d simple fact

I never heard of good gossip sha

whitelexi:

I never heard of good gossip sha

diff peeps for diff things

jkpretty:

We gossip & men gossip. If he really matters to u, u know what to say & what not to say about him. (vise versa)

Real men do not gossip please.

Rather we gist.

Pataki:

Real men do not gossip please.

Rather we gist.

As far as u lay shit of women bare, its gossip!

jkpretty:

As far as u lay shit of women bare, its gossip!

No it is not so.

When we gist, we discuss every every. Politics, Sports, Current Affairs, Women. . . . etc

If I overhear him discussing me with his friends, I'll just make sure he overhears me discussing him with my friends.

He says I'm not that good, I say he is the worst I ever had, that sometimes I have to use all my will power to keep from yawning while we're doing it sef.

So you see. . . no biggie.

Bring it on, baby!!