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Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 19, 2008
I have been a member of Nairaland for some time, you have shared in my Joys, Pains and Troubles. You have laughed with me, cried with me and Given me invaluable advice. I have made great friends here that will last me a lifetime.

Before i tell you guys the juicy gist, I want to say, God always has a much bigger plan for us than we can ever dream of. Beginning of this year, I could not go to Church because my Sister was Pregnant almost due and I was alone with her. I stayed at home and prayed, God told me that this year would be my best. I thanked him and i started the year, but when the year started i stared doubtijng that it was really the voice of God i heard. First, I went for my routine Pap Smear and found that i had pre- cancerious Cervical Cancer cells which are the Human Papiloma Virus had began to move to the pre-cancerous levels, i could not tell my family because we had lost two people to cancer and they will be scared and since i had so much info on Cervical Cancer and i knew it could be reversed, I started treatment without telling anyone. My Boyfriend was misbehaving so i broke up with him, The break up hurt so much but not as muich as the pain of the treament, I was losing wieght and people around me thought it was because of the break up.

Next, I was due for a promotion in my office, i was denied because my Boss would ask me to forge documents and based on my principles i would refuse to. By Feb, my office advertized for some positions, I applied and was called for interview in May, i came first in the interview was congratulated and i was waiting for my letter but my former Boss again went and did some things and i was denied the position, When i confronted the DG about the delay in my letter he told mne that the woman had sent a nasty letter about me to the Borad of Trustees. Anyway, i wrote my resignation letter effective one months notice. I had no Prspects or opportunities but me and my sister prayed and God said it will be well.

A week to my departure I hosted a meeting for some of our Volunteers and at the end of the meeting i was supposed to take them to dinner, i decided to take them to Dinner and a movie. When i went to get the movie tickets, I met the most wonderful man in the world. It seems God decided to compensate me for all my pain, heartbreak and hell i went through. I am a very open person, anytime i date i open my whole heart and emotions and i get hurt really bad, i never stop trying or stop loving. Anyway, when i met him, my life was almost in pieces, nobody knew because i always put up a happy face, but he saw right through me and told me am pretending to be happy but am in pain. He asked me to go on a weekend vacation with him and we went and talked, i laughed genuinely for the first time in months. When i came back to work, on my last day in my former office, i received a mail that i got a grant for a project i had written, so i registered and started my own organization.

Its been hard and tough but God has given me strength, support and Love, we have successfully done two of our project activities and God has given me favor every where, I cannot even begin to Thank God and you all for you advice and support.

No matter how dark the night is, God has shown me that Morning will come. Don't be afraid of hard times, like in my case I can tell you that Gods strength is made perfect in our time of weakness. Thank you all so much
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by cixluv(f): 10:10am On Jul 19, 2008
aisha, i'm so happy 4 u. i also thank God. congrats.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Busta(f): 1:21pm On Jul 19, 2008
u go girl!!! . . . congrats to u!
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by karlken(m): 1:26pm On Jul 19, 2008
@aisha my enemy,congrats!.Success has siblings.You are now my sister. grin grin
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by cixluv(f): 2:11pm On Jul 19, 2008
@karl ken
na wa 4 u sef. is this time to remind us of old wounds? grin
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Pataki: 4:06pm On Jul 19, 2008
Congrats Aisha.

May you continually wax stronger and stronger.

Wish you all the best.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jul 19, 2008
@post
Goodluck darling.

Hope the new man IS better than the old

God is good, darling, and he works in mysterious ways. Goodluck.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by sistajay(f): 4:31pm On Jul 19, 2008
@ Poster

You are a true survivor girl, so glad you made it through the pain and hurt. . . . . .ooops I have tears welled up my eyes. Here's a BIG hug and a kiss from me.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by PERO79(m): 7:34pm On Jul 19, 2008
Thank God 4 ur courage & resilience,lie is just full ups & down,congrats
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by StephenP(m): 8:04pm On Jul 19, 2008
Congratulations Aisha.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Gamine(f): 8:09pm On Jul 19, 2008
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 21, 2008
hey girl!
thanks for sharing this with us, it couldnt have been easy.
Congrats !this your testimony is sealed


PS
I didnt think you wud end up with ur ex anyway
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Pataki: 8:23pm On Jul 21, 2008
salsera:


PS
I didnt think you would end up with your ex anyway
So Salsera, you are now a seer? cheesy

How are you doing BTW? Long time.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by CrazyMan(m): 8:33pm On Jul 21, 2008
Good story; am really happy for you.

this definately call for some kind of celebration

Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Ola8(m): 8:38pm On Jul 22, 2008
i'm happy for u.it is not over until it's over.
i beg hold the man tightly cos it was a god sent mirracle ofthe year.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Ola8(m): 8:43pm On Jul 22, 2008
i'm happy for u.it is not over until it's over.
i beg hold the man tightly cos it was a god sent mirracle ofthe year.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Ezinwannem: 8:54pm On Jul 22, 2008
aww, congrats, am so happy for you
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Chat2MeBac(f): 10:22pm On Jul 22, 2008
@Aisha,
That brought tears to my eyes, While reading through, the scripture that goes "No weapon that forms against me shall prosper" immediately came to mind. Continue to believe God for who he says he is. I have learnt that nothing beats prayers, May the good Lord continue to bless and keep you.

Grace & Peace!!
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by mohawkchic(f): 2:56am On Jul 23, 2008
~Your Experience Is Very Inspirational  Aisha! Goes to show in Life,"It Isn't Just About How To Survive The Storm, But How To Dance In The Rain."
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by DeepZone: 3:01am On Jul 23, 2008
No matter how dark the night is, God has shown me that Morning will come. Don't be afraid of hard times, like in my case I can tell you that Gods strength is made perfect in our time of weakness. Thank you all so much

Beautiful!!!!! I'll bless God on your behalf.

This thread would've been in the religious section tho.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Nobody: 3:34am On Jul 23, 2008
aisha my sister from another mother. You know say we must still argue. grin
God bless you even more.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 23, 2008
My De
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 23, 2008
Thank you all oh. Na God fit bless una. During my darkest times, Nairaland was my refuge, i will come here gist, laugh and reply messges, that kept me going, God Bless you.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by orobski(m): 8:17am On Jul 23, 2008
i dont know what to write but congrats dear .ur ar indeed a rare gem i was so close to tears while reading ur testimony it was well presented i guess it was d way u presented it .it so capitivating .if u use it as a novel it will be a best seller but sincerely u ve a good command of english.i hope ur organisation as something to do with writing if not do some thing about it it is rare gift
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Hazeleyed(f): 8:56am On Jul 23, 2008
Hi aisha,am happy for u.the good work which God has started in ur life will never stop, your story just inspired me and gave me hope for light at the end of this dark tunnel.
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by onyekang1(f): 10:45am On Jul 23, 2008
I praise God 4 u gal
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Eclairs: 11:53am On Jul 23, 2008
congratulations
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by spikedcylinder: 12:20pm On Jul 23, 2008
Awww, this is so touching. Good for you! I'm sure there are even better things to come. smiley
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by smooooooth: 1:35pm On Jul 23, 2008
i had pre- cancerious Cervical Cancer cells which are the Human Papiloma Virus had began to move to the pre-cancerous levels, i dnt know what that is, but with the name, i feel say na BIG thing o, you tried, the name would have killed me,

well i wanna congratulate u, and tell you, if you can survive that big name then you will surpass any hurdle in life, infact i blive devil don tire for your matter, he don comot hand, CONGRATS!!!!!
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by micklplus(m): 1:45pm On Jul 23, 2008
Aisha, one of my greatest friend on Nairaland ! I say to you once again, congrats. Yeah, i am so happy for you.
I'mma gon see you soon.
Cheers
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by zignor(m): 1:46pm On Jul 23, 2008
So when the wedding will be taking place? undecided grin cheesy
Re: Got A New Man, Got A New Everything by Caliente(m): 7:36pm On Jul 23, 2008
[size=13pt]Congrats girl. I rejoice with thee. What the Lord has done for you shall be permanent in thy life[/size]

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