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What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by topup: 12:41am On Aug 13, 2008
What are you looking for right now in relationships?

Sex or Love.


Easy way of finding out:

Which one will make you stay with someone who has annoying habits?
(Don't know how to create polls sad )

Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by Nobody: 12:42am On Aug 13, 2008
Neither. . . . . right now, the reflection in the mirror I see, every morning I wake up, is the most important thing to me at the moment.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by topup: 12:43am On Aug 13, 2008
Love , always been, maybe this was determined from birth by my sex,
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by onyinye2(f): 12:43am On Aug 13, 2008
Well I definately aint looking for sex
Love. . . . not sure about that one either
I guess im in that stage of life
Where im just barely finding myself
So love and sex aren't really in the equation.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by cescky(m): 12:46am On Aug 13, 2008
@post
my soul mate grin
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by Nobody: 12:50am On Aug 13, 2008
Nothing tongue
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by HRhotness(f): 12:53am On Aug 13, 2008
I've got an open mind concerning relationships

I am not actively looking for one but that doesnt mean i am ruling it out

i m focused on me at the moment and getting the best i can out of life
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by Okijajuju1(m): 12:56am On Aug 13, 2008
I am at that stage where I need to start securing my future.

I am in a relationship which I hope ends in marriage cos I really am not ready to start searching again,
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by topup: 1:08am On Aug 13, 2008
onyinye2:

Well I definately aint looking for sex
Love. . . . not sure about that one either
I guess im in that stage of life
Where im just barely finding myself
So love and sex aren't really in the equation.



So you're not really looking for a relationship?

I am finding myself too, but I know if I was to enter into a relationship it would only be for love, smiley

Good luck in your search smiley
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by topup: 1:09am On Aug 13, 2008
Okija_juju:

I am at that stage where I need to start securing my future.

I am in a relationship which I hope ends in marriage because I really am not ready to start searching again,



I kinds know how you feel, especially when you give all you have to that relationship, you can almost feel like you have nothing left to give.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by onyinye2(f): 1:14am On Aug 13, 2008
topup:


So you're not really looking for a relationship?

I am finding myself too, but I know if I was to enter into a relationship it would only be for love, smiley

Good luck in your search smiley

Thanks. wink
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by vivaladiva(f): 1:16am On Aug 13, 2008
am lookin for heated sex, passion, chemistry raw pure undilluted lust and just a wee bit of love
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by eldee(m): 1:18am On Aug 13, 2008
@topic
Adventure, Fun, Conquests, Stories to tell my grandkids
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by HRhotness(f): 1:22am On Aug 13, 2008
vivaladiva:

am lookin for heated sex, passion, chemistry raw pure undilluted lust and just a wee bit of love

Got that right girl. . .
nothin beats heated sex, with raw passion wink wink grin
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by CodeRED(f): 1:24am On Aug 13, 2008
eldee:

@topic
Adventure, Fun, Conquests, Stories to tell my grandkids

See your face, conquests from where? angry angry angry angry, I visited the AIDS ward today and I saw many "Conquistadors". Soalang, have "fun". Just know the black dresses in my wardrobes are far too sexy to wear to funerals wink grin
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 1:25am On Aug 13, 2008
I'm at the stage where i'm trying to understand the difference. So many guys take one as the other.
I want love but with the way things are going. . . . . I'm going to say i'm at the stage where i'm looking for sex.
Friends WITH BENEFITS ALL THE WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grin
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by CodeRED(f): 1:30am On Aug 13, 2008
j-girl:

I'm at the stage where i'm trying to understand the difference. So many guys take one as the other.
I want love but with the way things are going. . . . . I'm going to say i'm at the stage where i'm looking for sex.
Friends WITH BENEFITS ALL THE WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grin

cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin[b], WORD!![/b]

@topic
SECURITY, SECURITY, SECURITY( FINANCIAL) God forbid if I lose my job, and cannot pay my bills, rent, etc that someone can afford. Afterall, I do "work" for him otherwise now cheesy
Well I aint saying am a gold digger, but I aint messing with broke-ass nigga, grin
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 1:36am On Aug 13, 2008
CodeRED:

cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin[b], WORD!![/b]

@topic
SECURITY, SECURITY, SECURITY( FINANCIAL) God forbid if I lose my job, and cannot pay my bills, rent, etc that someone can afford. Afterall, I do "work" for him otherwise now cheesy
Well I aint saying am a gold digger, but I aint messing with broke-ass nigga, grin
Lol!

You crazy!
I told you, I wanna be a trophy wife jare. I wanna have so much money and no worries.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by CodeRED(f): 1:39am On Aug 13, 2008
j-girl:

Lol!

You crazy!


I know na, erhmmm. my "shrink" confirmed it last week. Therefore under no circumstance am I responsible for my actions cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy



j-girl:


I told you, I want to be a trophy wife jare. I want to have so much money and no worries.

You've got that right. I am too sexy to work dread grin grin grin, I will even have him hire a "baby carrier" for the nine months, just to ensure I dont lose my figure grin grin grin grin grin LOL,
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by eldee(m): 1:43am On Aug 13, 2008
CodeRED: See your face, conquests from where?    , I visited the AIDS ward today and I saw many "Conquistadors". Soalang, have "fun". Just know the black dresses in my wardrobes are far too sexy to wear to funerals  
AIDS?? Nah . . . STDs are passed on by choice
Conquests are won by tact, determination and passion.

Infact I've always wanted to stop phishing, but nah . . . eLDee wasn't born a quitter grin
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 1:44am On Aug 13, 2008
CodeRED:

I know na, erhmmm. my "shrink" confirmed it last week. Therefore under no circumstance am I responsible for my actions cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You've got that right. I am too sexy to work dread grin grin grin, I will even have him hire a "baby carrier" for the nine months, just to ensure I don't lose my figure grin grin grin grin grin LOL,
This is why i really just want to end it all right here. Go marry some rich kid or sommin. Get a Ferrari and have all the fun in the world.
Gucci, Versace, Fendi, Miu Miu and all that. Why can't I see my future now? I wanna know it all.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by debosky(m): 1:47am On Aug 13, 2008
I'm at the get your act together stage - prepare for taking the relationship to the final frontier - marriage.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by CodeRED(f): 1:50am On Aug 13, 2008
eldee:

AIDS?? Nah . . . STDs are passed on by choice
Conquests are won by tact, determination and passion.

Infact I've always wanted to stop phishing, but nah . . . eLDee wasn't born a quitter grin

NOthing is wrong with phishing jare. Matter of fact it's one of my favourite things to do in my spare time.  The trick is where you phish and for what?tongue tongue.
I love being chased, it gives me orgasms grin cheesy cheesy. So I am not ready to give up being a "phishee" cheesy grin,

As per being a "conquestee", Hmmmmm, No way. If I am, then I must find a way of getting revenge. Remember, I am woe--Man tongue


j-girl:

This is why i really just want to end it all right here. Go marry some rich kid or sommin. Get a Ferrari and have all the fun in the world.
Gucci, Versace, Fendi, Miu Miu and all that. Why can't I see my future now? I want to know it all.
LOL, I have made sure to purchase some for myself, just in the event things don't work out, he wouldnt claim to have been the one to upgrade me, cheesy cheesy cheesy. But having someone pamper you with the likes is heavenly girlfriend. Trust me cheesy. Just make sure you keep that hidden bank account incase he wants to get jiggy with his secretary. By then you will be collecting "double" alimony cheesy
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 1:56am On Aug 13, 2008
CodeRED:

LOL, I have made sure to purchase some for myself, just in the event things don't work out, he wouldnt claim to have been the one to upgrade me, cheesy cheesy cheesy. But having someone pamper you with the likes is heavenly girlfriend. Trust me cheesy. Just make sure you keep that hidden bank account incase he wants to get jiggy with his secretary. By then you will be collecting "double" alimony cheesy
I want them all from HIM wink We're not signing pre-mup. In case of divorce, I'm moving to Afghanistan and he can't get jiggy with anyone, I'll cut his lipsrsealed off! Bobbit-style baby!
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by topup: 2:00am On Aug 13, 2008
debosky:

I'm at the get your act together stage - prepare for taking the relationship to the final frontier - marriage.

Wishin' you all the best smiley

j-girl:

I'm at the stage where i'm trying to understand the difference. So many guys take one as the other.
I want love but with the way things are going. . . . . I'm going to say i'm at the stage where i'm looking for sex.
Friends WITH BENEFITS ALL THE WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grin

Well if you want love, satisfying these guys is just gonna delay you reaching your destination, but hey, you never know.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 2:03am On Aug 13, 2008
topup:

Well if you want love, satisfying these guys is just going to delay you reaching your destination, but hey, you never know.
That's why I'm so pissed off.
I guess most guys equate love with sex when they say if you love me, you'll do it.
But the truth about the whole situation is that FWBs make life easier for women.
No strings attached but one will eventually get hurt in the end.
As long as i'm not the one getting hurt, I'll be allowed to stand on my own two feet and maybe find the lovey-dovey part
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by topup: 2:06am On Aug 13, 2008
j-girl:

That's why I'm so pissed off.
I guess most guys equate love with sex when they say if you love me, you'll do it.
But the truth about the whole situation is that FWBs make life easier for women.
No strings attached but one will eventually get hurt in the end.
As long as i'm not the one getting hurt, I'll be allowed to stand on my own two feet and maybe find the lovey-dovey part

What are FWBs? But do you think you can truly have a relationship with someone (even if it is a fling) that you won't get hurt? How can you have a relationship if you don't invest even just a bit of emotion into it, it becomes just cold doesn't it.
I know how you feel, but I prefer to wait until I see that guy who is serious about his life, and has already done the 'whoa boobies, whoa sex' phase!
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 2:11am On Aug 13, 2008
topup:

What are FWBs? But do you think you can truly have a relationship with someone (even if it is a fling) that you won't get hurt? How can you have a relationship if you don't invest even just a bit of emotion into it, it becomes just cold doesn't it.
I know how you feel, but I prefer to wait until I see that guy who is serious about his life, and has already done the 'whoa boobies, whoa sex' phase!

EXACTLY!
A lot of guys are so fixated on the sex part that they can't even keep their heads straight.
Cheating with every girl in sight.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's only FWBs that are the solutions.
Of course every relationship even normal friendship comes with so many problems.
When relationships where you give yourself don't work out, the best thing is to withold yourself and gain what you want.

I've learned one thing in life. It's to turn hot and cold whenever I really want to.
I can love a guy with all my might today and then not care if he's tumbling into a river tomorrow. A lot of guys don't give a rat's head about you.
When you find something useful to invest your emotions in, then go ahead.
For now, a lot of guys are not serious and now that I am, I seem to be meeting all the unserious ones so it's best to become unserious till you find that serious one.
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by Nobody: 2:14am On Aug 13, 2008
Also, Right now, am about to make the biggest decisions of my life, and I'll need all the help (God) my hands can get on.
This stage, I must be sure, can't turn back, that this is what I want to do.
Am I ready for this? Do I have the energy for this? Do I have enough resources for this?
If I make this choice, is it going to make or break me?
Right now, am just taking a step inside an orb called "Life", and I have to be able to overcome any obstacle thrown my way.
Life is just beginning, and I'm just a Permanent resident in it, doing all I can to become a citizen. And to become a citizen,I have to give my all, my strength, my time, I have to be ready to give my all.
Well, I think I'm ready. smiley
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by CodeRED(f): 2:19am On Aug 13, 2008
topup:

What are FWBs? But do you think you can truly have a relationship with someone (even if it is a fling) that you won't get hurt? How can you have a relationship if you don't invest even just a bit of emotion into it, it becomes just cold doesn't it.
I[b] know how you feel, but I prefer to wait until I see that guy who is serious [/b] about his life, and has already done the 'whoa boobies, whoa sex' phase!


Huney you may wait until you are grey. The truth is MOST men dont know what they want. Look around you, the so-called playas, during their useless lives, came across some great women. But due to them thinking with their 3rd hand instead of their brains, they lost those gems. Look at the "twats" they later end up marrying. Why? by then their history has already been published, therefore, no good girl will even touch their shadows. Wisen up dear. Love can work, if you make it work. As my good ole ex used to say "if yo find ah donkey, ride em"
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by CodeRED(f): 2:21am On Aug 13, 2008
j-girl:

I want them all from HIM wink We're not signing pre-mup. In case of divorce, I'm moving to Afghanistan and he can't get jiggy with anyone, I'll cut his lipsrsealed off! Bobbit-style baby!

LOL, mean girl cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy, Well to tell you the truth I dont think I will waste my energy bobbing it, Will rather show off my rabbit to him cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy. Yes o, NO PRE _NUP, Hit em where it hurts jare, $$$$$$
Re: What Stage In Life Are You Right Now? by jgirl3: 2:23am On Aug 13, 2008
CodeRED:

LOL, mean girl cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy, Well to tell you the truth I don't think I will waste my energy bobbing it, Will rather show off my rabbit to him cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy. Yes o, NO PRE _NUP, Hit em where it hurts jare, $$$$$$
Professional gold digger. No guarantees.
LOL!
You know? I will always have my Cayman accounts.
At least that was what I was promised two days ago.

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