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I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by jinx(m): 12:58am On Jul 04, 2006
Would You Quit?

What would you do if you still don't know if your girl loves you 6 months into the relationship?

Assuming you intend to marry her and she's aware of your intention?  And why is it a mistake for a guy to be the first to say I love you?

Three question boys and girls feel free to reply to any or all if you have the time. It might help me save someone.
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by smartsoft(m): 2:56am On Jul 04, 2006
talking from experience, she might love ya, but she doesn't wanna tell you so you do start feeling like a super start just watch when ever you say to her you do love her, her response should be "Thank you" or "I know" the way she does to you, you will know
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by diddy4(m): 3:43am On Jul 04, 2006
seun hmmm,


yeah i think imm@ go with smartsoft. when you tell her i love you, whats her responce, thank you, i know, i love you too. each of them have a difference.

as a guy, if you are after a girl, you are the one to say i love you first cuzz u came at her first. but in some cases, the girl does that if she can no longer wait for the boy.
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by smartsoft(m): 3:58am On Jul 04, 2006
it sound odd when a gurl says that first, in most cases you are meant to say that first !
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by retro(f): 3:42pm On Jul 05, 2006
I told my boyfriend that I loved him and he was like 'I hmm you too'. I wasn't angry, I knew he loved me but he was having a tough time expressing his feelings. Some people are like that, you know, reserved.
In a way, it's a good thing. When my boyfriend tells me he loves me, I'm in 7th heaven, it's like hearing it for the first time.

Your girlfriend might love you but is shy to tell you. I think you should be patient, don't force the words out of her. If she doesn't love you, normally, she'll tell you.
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by iice(f): 3:50pm On Jul 05, 2006
I might get blasted 4 this but what da heck tongue, it sounds weird 2 me that the guy shud b the 1st 1 2 say i love u, I guess i still stick to the chauvanistic view of men lol. Hmmm me sha the guy that will hear those words from my lips 2 thank his lucky stars that i feel that 4 him, there will b no doubt that i might be lying, or just feeling lust/infatuation. Here's my experience, a guy tells me he loves me, i cringe tongue Am like hmmm ok, do u want to do something? undecided
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by edygirl(f): 4:24pm On Jul 05, 2006
If my response after hearing ma boyfriend say I love you is "hmm Thank you" then that means I am not in love with the person. I may like the person but not in love with the person. If I say "love you too". Then I must be joking or I said it to please you. If I say "I know" then maybe I am and I know person does too . But If I truely love you, I will wait for you to say that first to me then I will give you my beautiful smile and look you in the eyes and tell you much I love you.

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Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by lizzy47(f): 4:52pm On Feb 19, 2007
well go edygirl i agree with u. besides we girls pretend a lot although its for our own good because a lot of guys don't know how to treat ladies especially when they know they are loved so i wont blame any chick hiding her love for a guy. but on the other hand, if the guy is a real kool guy then show your love so that he'll treat u better. i hope i'm not deviating too much. so my advice to u jinx is to let your heart out and then her reaction will tellu where u stand and what to do[color=#770077]
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by ima1(f): 9:51pm On Feb 19, 2007
i am not saying I Love You until he says it first, i don't wanna end up looking like a fool if he actually doesn't feel the same way, if i get I hmmm you from my guy, lol he should start finding another woman cuz i'll be out, bcoz if he can't say the words then he doesn't feel anything 4 you.
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by Youngpo413: 6:05am On Jun 10, 2015
B!tches and love stories, but they see the love they will run away,useless set of human beings
Re: I am Confused About My Relationship. - I'm grateful everyone by IamLEGEND1: 6:37am On Jun 10, 2015
i couldnt care less about what a girl says in reply to my romantic gestures. what bothers me most is how she reacts after everything has been said and done. does she still act sweet and lovey-dovey ? or does she act like tge wall of jericho had been built around her heart?
u observe and make ur judgement call from dat.

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