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Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by gem87(f): 1:57am On Sep 14, 2008 |
From experience: I'm Igbo and my then boyfriend was Ishan (Edo State) he was so so so insecure about the fact that our tribal backgrounds are different and seemed to think that I would rather be with and Igbo guy, I had to constantly reassure him that I wasnt going out with him because there was a shortage of igbo guys to choose from, it got irritating, he wouldn't introduce me to his Igbo friends because they might want to 'get to know me' and acts funny when i get calls from Igbo guys, Please my fellow nairalanders, am i alone? |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Nobody: 1:58am On Sep 14, 2008 |
sounds like you're alone. A girl is a girl, doesnt matter where she's from. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 1:59am On Sep 14, 2008 |
gem87:Are you kidding me? I know that Most Naija men are insure, but this is just past insecurity! What does he want oyu to do? Leave him for Ibo men? nonsense |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:01am On Sep 14, 2008 |
@post Well. . . . . . i have never ventured out of my cultural group(igbo). Except for when i was in highschool i dated akata boys but that is besides the point. Anyways, i really don't know what to tell you. Except to say that your boyfriend has some serious insecurity issues that need to be dealt with. Your relationship will never go further with that ginormous obstacle in face of progress. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by gem87(f): 2:05am On Sep 14, 2008 |
@ Morenike sorry i meant he wouldnt introduce me i have modified this , |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:09am On Sep 14, 2008 |
gem87:Ok, but seriously, this is just past insecure. Maybe he feels that he's not in your league. Like they say, beautiful women are hard to keep. Maybe he's worrying abt losing you? |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:09am On Sep 14, 2008 |
gem87:Seriously gurlie, this is just the start. First with the insecurities then him not wanting you to go out where ndi igbo are at. Seriously, can you imagine a life dealing with a guy who lacks trust in you? I mean c'mon, dude think by introducing you to his friends might persuade you into venturing for one of them. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by jgirl3: 2:10am On Sep 14, 2008 |
I have dated outside my tribe but I never go into one long enough to start experiencing the insecurities. All my bfs have had not problem with my tribe. Religion? Yes. Tribe - not yet. . . . I know it's coming. I just haven't had it that bad yet. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Nobody: 2:11am On Sep 14, 2008 |
this my desktop who wont talk to me . . . ok o. gnite. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:13am On Sep 14, 2008 |
@post Are you guys still together? |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by idupaul: 2:19am On Sep 14, 2008 |
@post ur boyfriend mite have been making sense since ur ibo. ibo girl always end up with some ibo chap at the end of the day |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:20am On Sep 14, 2008 |
idupaul:It is Igbo, not ibo. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by idupaul: 2:21am On Sep 14, 2008 |
onyinye2: what do u know about the east, abeg just go and sleep |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:22am On Sep 14, 2008 |
I no blame him, give me an Ibo man that's fyn, and I'll forever praise the lawd jk jk |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:24am On Sep 14, 2008 |
*Morenike:Hey, back off my men sis. lol. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:24am On Sep 14, 2008 |
Too late, don't you think? |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:25am On Sep 14, 2008 |
*Morenike:LMAO!!! Never too late. . . . |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:29am On Sep 14, 2008 |
onyinye2:In this situation, Uche2nna is already MINES |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:30am On Sep 14, 2008 |
*Morenike:So i guess Morenike has igbo fever. . . . LMAO. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:31am On Sep 14, 2008 |
onyinye2:Yet I got yoruba cure with it |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by onyinye2(f): 2:32am On Sep 14, 2008 |
*Morenike:Hmmm . . . . don't believe there is a cure for igbo fever, maybe treatments. |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by Morenike3(f): 2:37am On Sep 14, 2008 |
You just don't know |
Re: Insecurities While Dating Someone From A Different Tribal Background? by iice(f): 9:42am On Sep 15, 2008 |
Never have, never will. If he's insecure, too bad for him. |
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