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Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 3:33pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
You have 500 friends on Facebook, 350bbm contacts..etc. How many do you get to mingle with in the real world? How many friends have you made outside social network that have turned out to be very close friends? These days we realise people are so glued to their electronic gadgets that they miss the opportunity to make cool friends in the real world. If you are guilty of a situation were your phone, laptop or tab is taken away from you, you become very lonely and isolated like you are in the world of your own you need to do the following and more: 1. Be open minded to people around you. 2. Smile when someone approaches you. 3. Stop chatting in a public place, look around and say hello to someone. N/B: I'm not trying to act as one guru or something, you can do what works for you. It's not bad to make friends online, I am more concerned about how it affects your ability to make friends in the real world. CHEERS! |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
So all those drama that occurs at work,traffic,church,market etc is not enough to stay in your house and gain more from cnn or aljazeraa or even E! ,keep looking for people that will hate on you at the end of the day. |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Am guilty of it shar. It kills confidence. |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 4:52pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
aaronson: So all those drama that occurs at work,traffic,church,market etc is not enough to stay in your house and gain more from cnn or aljazeraa or even E! ,keep looking for people that will hate on you at the end of the day.You are right Bro. It's good to stay out of trouble but you can still encounter trouble even if you stay indoors all your life. Making Real friends is cool mehn. If you are guilty, make amends..cheers! |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 4:55pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Is it not same ppl u meen online u meet offline? Its not affecting me as a person o, infact I like my NL familes so much |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 5:05pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
urhoboman: Am guilty of it shar. It kills confidence.Aside from that Bro, you'll be lonely when you Aint connected to the internet. |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 5:21pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Is it not same ppl u meen online u meet offline?The difference is that You don't see those friends around you when your electronic gadget is taken away from you. Also, you are at a risk of meeting fake people. Don't take it wrongly, meeting friends online is very cool. I do that a lot too. The emphasis here is that you shouldn't let it affect your ability to make cool real friends in the 'Real world'. Don't be too rigid on people that approach you, be nice and friendly. Try this from today, and see how things will turn out in your life. Have it at the back of your mind that it doesn't hurt to say hello to somebody around you and make a polite complement. 1 Like |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 5:54pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Eden007: . Hehhehehehe Sounds like u will see them frnds when u down Same as when ur gadget is down. I am not afraid to meet ppl in the real world infact, over friendliness dey worry me, am jst sayin ni All are same, fake/good/bad/evil/lovely ppl They cld come frm anywhere |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by RoyalRoy(m): 6:04pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Dyty Dyt. You on point. 1 Like |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 6:15pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
RoyalRoy: Chai Each time u write my name ehn My hrt skips a bit *how do they call love one in igbo* Oxone ooo |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 6:17pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe:Your case is different since you don't have an issue making friends in the real world. At the same time I suspect you get too engrossed in your gadget that you miss an opportunity to say hello to that person who would've made a positive influence in your life.. |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by RoyalRoy(m): 6:21pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Lolllz. You are one of a kind . |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 6:22pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Eden007: Your case is different since you don't have an issue making friends in the real world. At the same time I suspect you get too engrossed in your gadget that you miss an opportunity to say hello to that person who would've made a positive influence in your life.. My being engrossed to this gadget of mine made me see u pass a positive influence Abi Oshisko |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Oxone(m): 6:25pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Lol Love one? Nkem (my own), obim (my heart).............. Or just call him Oxone |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 6:28pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Oxone: Oh no U too dey Totori mi Chai *u don't pick calls*frowns* |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Oxone(m): 6:34pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: You too deary Seriously? Can't remember seeing any call from you. How are u? |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 6:39pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Oxone: Guess u were busy Hehehehhehehehe I called u ended it and put off the phone, was on a friday night sha The caller shld show private number or unknown *shocked* and a lady picked it Tell her sorry ooo |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Oxone(m): 6:54pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Lol Oh that's was u? Well some lunatic keeps calling with a private number & wldn't say a thing *I dey suspect one chic sha * so I stopped picking calls from private number. So when I saw another call from a private number, I hurt gave d fone to her |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 6:59pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Oxone: Na wa oo We don suffer oo Me was jst pulling pranks ni jare Tell her say mk she no vex o Say na one married woman frnd o Stress the frnd ooo U hear |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by sexylogan(m): 7:06pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Eden007: You have 500 friends on Facebook, 350bbm contacts..etc. How many do you get to mingle with in the real world? How many friends have you made outside social network that have turned out to be very close friends? The fear of Ebola is now the beginning of wisdom... Eden007: Most Naija babes greet you with a frown... Eden007: Try another country. Even on dates, most girls will continue pinging and fiddling with their fones |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Oxone(m): 7:12pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Lwkmd! Friend ke? She's knows u're wife numero duo and that there's a chance of a coup |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 7:16pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Oxone: Obim Nkem |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 7:17pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
sexylogan:hehehe.. That's the drill Bro. Dytbabe your romance in this thread is getting me jealous..#looks away with envy. |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Oxone(m): 7:24pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
dytbabe: Omalicham *My beauty* |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Oxone(m): 7:27pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Eden007: hehehe.. That's the drill Bro. Lol keep away jor |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by dytbabe: 7:30pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Eden007: hehehe.. That's the drill Bro. Hehehhehehehe Now I know Chai Oxone tickle me softly Ayamu laughing with the whole of my face Gimme groundnut |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 7:36pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Closed my eyes since Jor! dytbabe:Closed my eyes since Jor! |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by tpia1: 9:08pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
its possible. |
Re: Is Social Network Killing Our Ability To Mingle In The 'real' World? by Eden007(m): 3:24am On Aug 11, 2014 |
Yeah BRo..are you guilty? |
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