why is it that any time a man come back from work and decied to help in doing some house work like wash the baby or clean any part of the house, the next day the woman will take that to be your work, upon she is not working i am talking of people living in europe or america, should i call it that our women are lazy when the come to western world or what?

Stop making up stories and tell us what really happened.

noting much that is what i have just said, when you do any domestic work the next day your woman will ask you to be doing it or are you one of them?

You dont have to generalise it, not all women does that, my hubby do come back from work and do the cooking or even help in clearing the table and washing the dishes volunterily , that doesn't mean i will take that as an advantage by waiting for him to do that every time.
Do u find pleasure helping ur wife at home, ?? because the way u sound here seems u .

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chika98:

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Thank u, its the lords making

Not all women in the western world are like that, my husband cooks, clean, bath the kids, run errands etc. We both help each other out, he doesn't consider me doing everything on my own and does what hasn't been done, there are days i might not feel like cooking, he'll cook or we eat takeaway, i don't consider all this as his job and neither does he consider it as mine.

Please don't tell me you dont know what i mean, if your hubby is doing all that as you say, and one day he come back home very tired and tell you that he can't do any of those be/live me you will make the house hot 4 him or not? I am not saying all the women are the same, but,

coolboy100:

Please don't tell me you don't know what i mean, if your hubby is doing all that as you say, and one day he come back home very tired and tell you that he can't do any of those be/live me you will make the house hot 4 him or not?

I wouldn't at all, if i can i would do it if not we'll leave it till say maybe the next day, we've never had an argument because of such, it'll just be too petty, but i do understand what you're talking about though.

Hey hay stop there, I work FT so does my husband, he sweeps the floor once a week and washes the dishes maybe once a week. He cannot even boil water. When it comes to the kitchen its like there is some form of juju in it. Note* I am irish. Any nigerian lady I know of here in Ireland works like a horse hwile her husband sits down (even though they both work the same hours)

Ok irish wowan, thank you, are you married to an african or irish like yourself before i know what to tell you?

No what I'm telling you is Nigerian men need to stop to being lazy. 

I mean in cases where both parties work 9-5.

Its different when the woman doesn't work at all, bt even when she does, its obvious they do still NOTHING.

hello leileh, you did not answer my question,take care of your husband ok

why is it that no body is replying, i am still waiting,can some one tell me why this kind of thing is happening?

Not all women act like that.

My husband helps around the house when I am sick. He works nights so by the time he comes home the house is picked up and cleaned up so there is really nothing for him to do.

We have children and they have thier chores and really there is nothing for hubby to do with the only exception being when I am sick then he caters to me and takes care of the kids and the house. But because he does that when I am sick I dont expect him to always do it.

Most Saturdays if he is not working he will pitch in and help out with the special "saturday" chores.

and who said domestic work is only 4 women? abeg, wake up oooooooooo, in the western world is where both da woman and the man gat to to things together, that is collaborate

@sistawoman,you are the type of woman anyman will pray to have, as a wife,joining you in doing domestic work is normal but leavingthe work for him to come back from work and do is what i am against, do you understand?