My aunt says its very wrong. She says the man ought to love the woman more than she loves him. She says the woman should not try it if not the man would start misbehaving. She sais the bible says the woman should submit while the man should love.

What do y'all think?  

nobody is meant to love each other more
its is supposed to be balanced

no its not wrong
but it is not proper
everyone has that special person made for him/her
but most of the time we rush thing
just for the fear of ending up alone

think its wrong too. when a woman shows a man that she loves him a lot more than he loves her,
he'll start seeing her as a desperate person and would not treat her right since she prolly can't do
a thing without him and can't leave him, more like her life evolves around his.

itz a socially constructed notion the society gat, itz feelings and itz feeling, but maself though, guys should show da feelings more than the gurls and I personally don't tell whoeva am dating dat hez cute and all those things so itz very dangerous to do so

dont see nothing wrong with that.

very very very very very very veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
WRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

dondele:

don't see nothing wrong with that.

of course u won't, U'RE A GUY!

Well, personally I think its wrong. The man should show more love and care.

My mother always told me that i should find someone who loves me more than i love him.

women should love more submitting means you are giving your all to your master(ur husband) so noo mistaking it.This is an objective view no bias

it wrong its just wrong a guy is suppose to love more because if a girl loves more she gon be taken for granted she gon be treated like a dirt bag

It is. It is safer he he loves you more. If not, you're going to be taken for granted, just like busta rightly said.

how u gunno kno who loves who more? ABEG, sometimes I can swear I love ma boyfriend more than he loves me.
cos he's not has mushy mushy as I am, u kno, he's so serious sometimes, ugh!!

Abeeeeg!

The men will say the women should love more. The women will say the men should love more.

We should all wish the best for each other, support each other, help, give, understand one another. All this emphasis on who should love more is just too gross in this present age, unfortunately.

How will u not love ur m,an, wat ur saying is that the woman should pretend to love the man so the man would love her more. It may not work that way so it better to love each other same way

i dont think a relationship can truly be 50/50, wts important is that the person doing all the caring and loving is taken
4 granted.

I agree with ur aunt, once a guy finds out his girl loves him more than he does to her, he will play her with the feeling ohh she loves me, I can always apologise to her and she'll forgive me because she loves me more, she cant do without me, bla bla bla

no matter what we all feel is right of wrong, the truth still remains that love is something no one really has control over. this is why some times you find your self falling in love with the someone you have no business being in love with or someone who obviouisly doesnt love you bac.

for me, love is the most wonderful emotion man feels, u just cant comprehend its intensity and the way it controls us. and if you have ever felt love, youl find out that staying with a man that u really dont love wil be like punishment. you either love someone or u dont , the person either makes your heart beat faster or doesnt, this is someone u can forgive every offense all so easily or not, this is someone u are ready to bend your self to the lowest for or not. what i feel the poster should be referring to is the level of affection and commitment and respect. it becomes love when there is passion and readiness to forgive and compromise. that is what makes love unconditional and every day is like a new day/.

yes it feels more comfortable when the guy in the initial stage is more commited and affectionate, but what if it wears of later which it usually does, it is the love the woman has that keeps the relationship going, and her strenght does not fail cos it is fueled by love which is why even when the guy has really erred, its so easy to forgive and move on with the relationship even when everyother chief adviser does not see any reason to not breaking up.

for me both parties have to be in real love to make it work, so that no one is cheated(yes the one with more love is usually cheated), or fustrtrated ( doesnt really love is usually fustrated and whould be unnessesarily difficult with the other with the party that is more in love, and given any opportunity might be tempted to even go as far as cheating or falling in love with someonbe else).

so for me, the guy should be really commited and affectionante with the ladyd really resp, while the lady should love the guy, it is this love that will later translate into respect while the man will grow to love her more because she has shown him unconditional love.

this is why the bible even emplores us that husbands love your wifes and wifes respect your husband.

respect in marriage is an advanced form of love. it implies willingful submission.

Its only a man's love for me that can make me love him that much.

I cannot stand a woman with too much mushy mushy love. . . . It freaks me out personally.

@poster

its not wrong as long as u love wt ur head and not ur weak emotions

No

my bible says,husbands love ur wives,wives,be submissive 2 ur husbands.its in black and white.

@ post

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!

It is wrong, wronger, wrongest !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

kiss_angel: no matter what we all feel is right of wrong, the truth still remains that love is something no one really has control over. this is why some times you find your self falling in love with the someone you have no business being in love with or someone who obviouisly doesnt love you bac.

for me, love is the most wonderful
emotion man feels, u just cant comprehend its intensity and the way it controls us. and if you have ever felt love, youl find out that staying with a man that u really dont love wil be like punishment. you either love someone or u dont , the person either makes your heart beat faster or doesnt, this is someone u can forgive every offense all so easily or not, this is someone u are ready to bend your self to the lowest for or not. what i feel the poster should be referring to is the level of affection and commitment and respect. it becomes love when there is passion and readiness to forgive and compromise. that is what makes love unconditional and every day is like a new day/.

yes it feels more comfortable when the guy in the initial stage is more commited and affectionate, but what if it wears of later which it usually does, it is the love the woman has that keeps the relationship going, and her strenght does not fail cos it is fueled by love which is why even when the guy has really erred, its so easy to forgive and move on with the relationship even when everyother chief adviser does not see any reason to not breaking up.

for me both parties have to be in real love to make it work, so that no one is cheated(yes the one with more love is usually cheated), or fustrtrated ( doesnt really love is usually fustrated and whould be unnessesarily difficult with the other with the party that is more in love, and given any opportunity might be tempted to even go as far as cheating or falling in love with someonbe else).

so for me, the guy should be really commited and affectionante with the ladyd really resp, while the lady should love the guy, it is this love that will later translate into respect while the man will grow to love her more because she has shown him unconditional love.

this is why the bible even emplores us that husbands love your wifes and wifes respect your husband.

respect in marriage is an advanced form of love. it implies willingful submission.

Wao! This is awesome. Nice post. Am going to use this for counselling to my younger married friends!