My brother cousin, who is my age mate, got married yesterday to his amazing love.

Naturally everyone started telling me that they know my turn is coming soon, at least by next year.. and you i just say yes ooo! Na so na! Meanwhile i dont even have a babe. How will i get one. luv her unconditionally and vice versa Date her and ask her to be my partner for eternity

The problems is that i dont even know how to woo a lady...O Lord God, Please come to my aid. I look to you for Mercy, Grace, Love n Favour for I'm really troubled about this and i need your advice convince a lady to be

no think of marry first o
think of getting a girlfriend.

and you don't get a girlfriend by staying at home or being afraid of women.

Do you have a work ?
Do you have a stable salary ?
Are you sure you can bear the weight of wedding because you don't seem to me like someone who should be talking about marriage

Let's say you still want to marry its simple go on dates with ladies at least go on a date with ten get to no them well and the one your hearth clicks with you can initiate a relationship then propose marriage to her

P.M me and i will make you fishers of women

samflexxy:
Do you have a work ?
Do you have a stable salary ?
Are you sure you can bear the weight of wedding because you don'to seem to me like someone who should be talking about marriage
Let's say you still want to marry its simple go on dates with ladies at least go on a date with ten get to no them well and the one your hearth clicks with you can initiate a relationship then propose marriage to her

Thanks alot for your advice. to answer your question. Yes i do have a job. a steady one too. it may not be much, but it can still suffice.

KiddaBlingzz:
no think of marry first o
think of getting a girlfriend.

and you don't get a girlfriend by staying at home or being afraid of women.

I get it. but i'm a natural introvert by nature..I've been trying really i have.. it not easy for someone like me to keep conversations going and interesting.

NicxonXXX:
P.M me and i will make you fishers of women

I'm tempted to take u up on ur offer. What do you really propose Sir..

Ar u rili sure u wanna gt married, or is it all abt Bleep

endie44:


I get it. but i'm a natural introvert by nature..I've been trying really i have.. it not easy for someone like me to keep conversations going and interesting.

is that you are shy or you are timid, which one of them is the case?

You have the wedding fever singles have just after attending a wedding. You'll probably get over it soon, I know because I've attended 5 weddings within the past 3 months and I still have one, two Saturdays from now .. my dear, be sure it's what you are ready for and want and not just the fever and what people are saying. Good luck sha

johnstar:
Ar u rili sure u wanna gt married, or is it all abt Bleep

I'm really sure its Marriage i want.. Not Bleeps. thankz.

sweettease:
You have the wedding fever singles have just after attending a wedding. You'll probably get over it soon, I know because I've attended 5 weddings within the past 3 months and I still have one, two Saturdays from now .. my dear, be sure it's what you are ready for and want and not just the fever and what people are saying. Good luck sha

I get ur point. but i assure you, i truely luk foreward to havin sumone special in my life now and getting Married. Its not about the wedding fever only.. its just dat i ve gotten to dat stage wen its d major thin on my mind

You dont need a g.f before settling down.

pawn89:


is that you are shy or you are timid, which one of them is the case?

Actually not at all in any of the above case. i used to be though but wont. say im typically shy or timid. I can talk with ladies but i ffund ut extremely dufficult to make my self interesting to dem so they wish to hear from me again.. and as such i ve not had a relationship dat realy made any sense. its was just me.. nost the ladies... I ve missed chances with a lot of fine ladies you know..

akpur1:
You dont need a g.f before settling down.

How do you mean.. i think it shud start feom dere isnt it ??

endie44:


I'm really sure its Marriage i want.. Not Bleeps. thankz.

ok bt u hv 2 patient in gtn married, I wish u gudluck tho

come mk i give u girlfriend

johnstar:
ok bt u hv 2 patient in gtn married, I wish u gudluck tho

is 30 not patient enuf

lindachi86:
come mk i give u girlfriend

Are joking or serious. i take this matter quite seruously. Please.

Start by having a conversation with an outspoken girl in your office ur neighbourhood. You need to build your confidence first before you approach a lady

If there is a particular girl you like try to make her your friend first and don't show any sign you want to ask her out. Find out if she has a boyfriend. If she doesn't, show her you care for her not by spending your money. You can always call her to check on her or send SMS.

From her responses you will know she's into you. Then you can build something from there

You should be able to do this within 2-3 months.
All the best

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endie44:


Are joking or serious. i take this matter quite seruously. Please.

i am dead serious

ERCROSS:
BITG

Pls wats BITG..

KiddaBlingzz:
no think of marry first o
think of getting a girlfriend.

and you don't get a girlfriend by staying at home or being afraid of women.

You kids should stop this Nonsense.

It is evil to DATE before Marriage. No where in the Bible was it stated or induced that you have to have a girlfriend that you would be sexing constantly before marriage.

If you want to get married, Just be ready say the word, and you will find a woman who is ready and know whats up. All these yeye dats are the ones that later turn out to divorce, or serial killer marriage.

OP dont listen to kids, when you are ready just shout out the word.

diluminati:


You kids should stop this Nonsense.

It is evil to DATE before Marriage. No where in the Bible was it stated or induced that you have to have a girlfriend that you would be sexing constantly before marriage.

If you want to get married, Just be ready say the word, and you will find a woman who is ready and know whats up. All these yeye dats are the ones that later turn out to divorce, or serial killer marriage.

OP dont listen to kids, when you are ready just shout out the word.

Hmmmm...you are lukin 4 sum1's mouth sha o..

LadyCaty:


Pls wats BITG..

Ask Andyblaze..
He's the copyright owner of the word...

Abi make i give u my sis number...?

Chai! 5yn gls plenty 4 dis thread oo,.. op u beta grap your copy now..

1st - have u been in a relationship b4?




2nd- how old are you (sorry to ask)