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Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by phemygee(m): 5:27pm On Nov 14, 2008
Imagine a woman that justifies herself by employing a private teacher for her daughter all in the name that he does not want her daughter to mingle with guys outside. But fortunately for her, same private teacher slept with her and impregnated her. Are we really helping our female daughters at all Oya COmments
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by iice(f): 5:38pm On Nov 14, 2008
phemygee:

Imagine a woman that justifies herself by employing a private teacher for her daughter all in the name that he does not want her daughter to mingle with guys outside. But fortunately for her, same private teacher slept with her and impregnated her. Are we really helping our female daughters at all Oya COmments

What's fortunate about the situation?
Would it be acceptable to you for her to get impregnated by one of the guys outside?
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by mccassy(m): 5:42pm On Nov 14, 2008
Where they having the classes in an isolated area or even behind closed doors. parents should always remember that action and reaction are equal and opposite
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by abujabooks(f): 1:58am On Nov 15, 2008
Educate our daughters! Some men r paedophiles.

Train a child in d way she shd go & when she is old she will nt depart from it.

Try d good old trick of scaring d brains out of our daughters. It worked 4 me. My mum used 2 hammer it into our heads that, if u get pregnant, she will throw u out of her house. I was scared.
Also, tell daughters nt to sit beside drivers.

No houseboys.

No male lesson teachers.

Prayer to God really.
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by Outstrip(f): 3:32am On Nov 15, 2008
I think we should help our male daughters more. I mean female daughters come with too much wahala. The male daughters respect themselves.
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by KarmaMod(f): 3:37am On Nov 15, 2008
Outstrip:

I think we should help our male daughters more. I mean female daughters come with too much wahala. The male daughters respect themselves.

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Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by tpia: 4:22am On Nov 15, 2008
abi oh. Female daughters are more wayward than male daughters.









@ topic: you dont want your daughter mingling with guys, yet you couldnt find her a female teacher? Something's fishy.
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by Akinagirl(f): 5:19am On Nov 15, 2008
I no fit to laugh o grin grin grin
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by sammyjl(f): 2:17pm On Nov 20, 2008
smiley The more u try and keep yo daughter in, the more she becomes wild the minute u let her out. Its like a goat which has been a a kraal for days, running ol kinds of directions wen the kraal door is open. Making her experiment ol sorts of things in a short time and not learning wats wats by seeing rather by actuall doing.
Give a little freedom,
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by plappville(f): 2:43pm On Nov 20, 2008
I don't think is wise to cage our daughters, we could lecture them with the method member
@ abujabooks parents used, i can remember vividly well that my mum used to tell me to always becareful not to fall for any man until certain age. she told me the complications and i listen to her.

Parents should not stop talking with they daughters, but that does not mean u should watch her everywhere she goes.

The male lesson teacher stuff wasn't a good ideal, if she was really scared that her daughter don't mingle with other guys outside she wouldn't ve employed a male teacher.
Re: Are We Really Helpin Our Female Daughters by Dbaby4: 3:13pm On Nov 20, 2008
Personnally i think educating the female child is d best way, do not restrict them, cos when u do u will only make them curious. Let them be free but never stop educating them, and mothers should make their daughters their own best friends.

tpia:


@ topic: you don't want your daughter mingling with guys, yet you couldnt find her a female teacher? Something's fishy.

GBAMMMM TRUE TALK! maybe she wanted someone that comes close to the family to shag her daughter not an outsider

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