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Grinder:
To be honest.. Before i start my story.. For the past 7 years ,, i haven`t daTED any single girl. i have lived a buzy life.... Like i explained in my other posts... Became a doc.. at 23... and.. my journey to achieving that dream in the US for that matter,,.. took away my interest in girls..But i guess its high time i start something fresh.....Now.....My question.... Should i go back to Nigeria..Find a trustable hubby. .. Study her for some months,,
Or,, I should start a distance relationship now..and propose when the time is right.... Now..Going back to Nigeria means for 5mnths..I wouldnt step into any hospital to work..It would be like taking a vacation.... And whereas. All these NYSC cheating threads i see up and down Where married and single ladies practice everytyn at camp.......Chuu..... E dey fear me.... buh i need advices from sensible naija peeps.. Note..I dont do whites... family..wants Nigerian
its not indecision that is bothering me..I just wanna hear from people.......thoughts and advices..

Lol....

Pls kindly correct your use of English
I'm trying not to get annoyed




Advises, hubby

Just go into town and scout, your friends and family can also help you in your search, If any girl is identified, there should be adequate Intel on her (I mean her past life ) to ascertain if she truly deserves you, then the courtship can start; you guys get to know each other and know if the two of you are compatible.

seriously, It's not hard to find a wife in Nigeria, The problem lies in finding the ideal and virtuous woman.

LaurelP:
Pls kindly correct your use of English
I'm trying not to get annoyed




Advises, hubby

Take it easy...

@Op, I can relate to your predicament.

Even when you travel back home, almost every girl you meet will start being nice to you which even makes it harder to pick out one at a time. I played the devil on this one and did serial dating .. gradually I'm scaling down the long list, but it hasn't being easy. Your senses have to be at full alert all the time to be able to handle this, else you might want your family to take care of that on your behalf.

9inches:
@Op, I can relate to your predicament.

Even when you travel back home, almost every girl you meet will start being nice to you which even makes it harder to pick out one at a time. I played the devil on this one and did serial dating .. gradually I'm scaling down the long list, but it hasn't being easy. Your senses have to be at full alert all the time to be able to handle this, else you might want your family to take care of that on your behalf.

As in ehn.. Even if i wanna hand pick..E no easy... some gals would change attitude..Like sey rapture would happen tomorrow... its a confusing world mehn.. I cant even allow family take care of the ish.. dey wuld just spoil everything

SeverusSnape:
Just go into town and scout, your friends and family can also help you in your search, If any girl is identified, there should be adequate Intel on her (I mean her past life ) to ascertain if she truly deserves you, then the courtship can start; you guys get to know each other and know if the two of you are compatible.

seriously, It's not hard to find a wife in Nigeria, The problem lies in finding the ideal and virtuous woman.

To find wife..Means one has to scout like a football agent..Chuu ..it has reached that extent in Nigeria

Grinder:

To find wife..Means one has to scout like a football agent..Chuu ..it has reached that extent in Nigeria

Yes,It has...do you prefer to get married to a former.......

Grinder:

As in ehn.. Even if i wanna hand pick..E no easy... some gals would change attitude..Like sey rapture would happen tomorrow... its a confusing world mehn.. I cant even allow family take care of the ish.. dey wuld just spoil everything

It is that hard mehn. It can force one to tone down his long list of criteria for a wife And since you might find it hard to getting those features you desire, you should be ready to compromise.

Tip: Virtuous ones are easier to spot in the campuses.

LaurelP:
Pls kindly correct your use of English
I'm trying not to get annoyed




Advises, hubby

like u didn't understand what he wrote

9inches:


It is that hard mehn. It can force one to tone down his long list of criteria for a wife And since you might find it hard to getting those features you desire, you should be ready to compromise.

Tip: Virtuous ones are easier to spot in the campuses.

In Campuses...Lool..I didnt school in naija..Got no idea aw campus gals dey be sef.. The most female friends i have are my facebook ones.. and Nigerian classmates.. Mehn..Dis thing go hard.. I really need to hear from someone that dealt with this same kinda situation...

i hate when someone quotes a long post.

Grinder:
To be honest.. Before i start my story.. For the past 7 years ,, i haven`t daTED any single girl. i have lived a buzy life.... Like i explained in my other posts... Became a doc.. at 23... and.. my journey to achieving that dream in the US for that matter,,.. took away my interest in girls..But i guess its high time i start something fresh.....Now.....My question.... Should i go back to Nigeria..Find someone trustable. .. Study her for some months,,
Or,, I should start a distance relationship now..and propose when the time is right.... Now..Going back to Nigeria means for 5mnths..I wouldnt step into any hospital to work..It would be like taking a vacation.... And whereas. All these NYSC cheating threads i see up and down Where married and single ladies practice everytyn at camp.......Chuu..... E dey fear me.... buh i need advices from sensible naija peeps.. Note..I dont do whites... family..wants Nigerian... . I really need to hear from someone that dealt with this same kinda situation...
its not indecision that is bothering me..I just wanna hear from people.......thoughts and advices..

then I guess you not ready yet SON... if you are this clueless how Nigerian relationships work.


I advice you stay in the USA and be friends with a black lady over there. truth is u've never really been on a date nor woo a lady not to talk of owning a GF.

don't waste your time coming here. naija girls are not easy...I advice you start with the cheap twerking ladies over there first. cos with naija chicks u need a whole lot of experience.

so do NOT think with your ''usa doctorate yankee boy effizee'' u can win any girls heart here solidly in 5months. then u on a long thing, that I can vouch for my lovely sisters.




Goodnight

tonididdy:
then I guess you not ready yet SON... if you are this clueless how Nigerian relationships work.


I advice you stay in the USA and be friends with a black lady over there. truth is u've never really been on a date nor woo a lady not to talk of owning a GF.

don't waste your time coming here. naija girls are not easy...I advice you start with the cheap twerking ladies over there first. cos with naija chicks u need a whole lot of experience.

so do NOT think with your ''usa doctorate yankee boy effizee'' u can win any girls heart here solidly in 5months. then u on a long thing, that I can vouch for my lovely sisters.





Goodnight

Abeg.. Who offend this guy this night..CHUU... nO be fight... Na advice person dey find... Oya wettin do u.. talk am... And whereas.. Av lived in naija almost all my life... Sometimes..Silence is better for people like u...

tonididdy:
then I guess you not ready yet SON... if you are this clueless how Nigerian relationships work.


I advice you stay in the USA and be friends with a black lady over there. truth is u've never really been on a date nor woo a lady not to talk of owning a GF.

don't waste your time coming here. naija girls are not easy...I advice you start with the cheap twerking ladies over there first. cos with naija chicks u need a whole lot of experience.

so do NOT think with your ''usa doctorate yankee boy effizee'' u can win any girls heart here solidly in 5months. then u on a long thing, that I can vouch for my lovely sisters.




Goodnight

You are a big mumu for this comment.. Very stupid of you...I dont blame Crazy Nigerians like you... The dude was not even proud about any shit.. He isnt clueless.. He even stated it that it isnt indecision..Yet u carry your mumu mouth... dey talk sey e dey form yankee... Am sure u are a big hater... i dont blame you... advicing him to start with cheap twerking ladies shows how immature you are... Haters like you dont grow up..am soo sure about that.. ..waka from this thread if u no sabi any guud thing 4 mouth... He didnt even say he wuld use 5mnths to win any heart..He said he would be out of job for 5months.. I dont know what stupid haters like you dey find 4 nairaland sef... Just confess..U are a bloody hater... #SPITS ..I dont know you..But i already know the kind of person you are..

OP. I know how it feels. I know you want to come back home to marry..Make i talk true.. it wouldnt be easy... My elder bro was in this same situation, Come home first.and settle

FuckModerators:

You are a big mumu for this comment.. Very stupid of you...I dont blame Crazy Nigerians like you... The dude was not even proud about any shit.. He isnt clueless.. He even stated it that it isnt indecision..Yet u carry your mumu mouth... dey talk sey e dey form yankee... Am sure u are a big hater... i dont blame you... advicing him to start with cheap twerking ladies shows how immature you are... Haters like you dont grow up..am soo sure about that.. ..waka from this thread if u no sabi any guud thing 4 mouth... He didnt even say he wuld use 5mnths to win any heart..He said he would be out of job for 5months.. I dont know what stupid haters like you dey find 4 nairaland sef... Just confess..U are a bloody hater... #SPITS ..I dont know you..But i already know the kind of person you are..

Biko Calm down with the dude.. He just wasnt in the mood when he was commenting

FuckModerators:
OP. I know how it feels. I know you want to come back home to marry..Make i talk true.. it wouldnt be easy... My elder bro was in this same situation, Come home first.and settle

haaaa....no wonder u so pained.



now tell us...did you bro get a wife in 5mnths...oh I see he relocated. permanently I guess


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You havent dated "any SINGLE girl?" What a qualification. Is "single" in reference to quantity or status?

27 is still young, don't neglect your career.

Pls Bro(OP), Just 1 thing.. Pls dont come to Nigeria to get a girl o.. They are not Loyal, ah swear.. o.. Ur fate has taken you to the US, dont change it oo.. Na beg I dey beg U

Go to this thread and Check the Video the OP pasted there.. Thats d kind of ladies we breeed in Nigeria..

https://www.nairaland.com/2016522/how-many-boyfriends-girl

Dont mind what all these nairaland ladies are saying oo.. All of them are pretenders.. Some of them are not even Female..

Pls there are Nigerian girls over there, just pick 1 and move On..

tonididdy:
haaaa....no wonder u so pained.



now tell us...did you bro get a wife in 5mnths...oh I see he relocated. permanently I guess


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Are u deaf... He never mentioned anything about finding a wife in 5months... He said... He wouldnt work for 5months.. I cant waste my night arguing with a sick ass dude like you.. You are just a bloody hater.. and no..it took my bro a long time to get a wife,,But i advice you Get a life first..

Bimffo:
Pls Bro(OP), Just 1 thing.. Pls Dont date any Nigerian girl.. They are not Loyal, ah swear.. Dont settle with any Nigerian girl oo.. Ur fate has taken you to the US, dont change it oo.. Na beg I dey beg U

Go to this thread and Check the Video the OP pasted there.. Thats d kind of ladies we breeed in Nigeria..

https://www.nairaland.com/2016522/how-many-boyfriends-girl

Dont mind what all these nairaland ladies are saying oo.. All of them are pretenders.. Some of them are not even Female..

Pls there are Nigerian girls over there, just pick 1 and move On..

See as i dey laff... Hahaha... How many boyfriends can a girl have.. See as them open mouth talk 5.., 6,,, Hahaha,, .. Am soo sure.. there are more loyal girls in naija..thanks for the advice tho...

FuckModerators:

Are u deaf... He never mentioned anything about finding a wife in 5months... He said... He wouldnt work for 5months.. I cant waste my night arguing with a sick ass dude like you.. You are just a bloody hater.. no..it took my bro a long time to get a wife ,,But i advice you Get a life first..

oh wow...u are answering sesame points am trying to make yourself.

all I'm saying to the OP is I'll never get a wife material in just a 5mnths vacation to Nigeria (for me u don't know her well enough) and hey! his topic says ''ready to marry'' to a Nigerian chick only (family request) .it means his 5mnths stay back to 9ja is to find a wife, I can read and understand. that's something u not good at

Grinder:

See as i dey laff... Hahaha... How many boyfriends can a girl have.. See as them open mouth talk 5.., 6,,, Hahaha,, .. Am soo sure.. there are more loyal girls in naija..thanks for the advice tho...

Bro.. Chaiii.. U think there are Loyal girls.

The time of Loyality stopped with our Mothers oo.. As U dey see me so, I cant Vouche for my Sisters, not to talk of 1 lady wey go dey for Nice for Yankee boy..

Baba, Once again, I take anytin beg U.. Just stay for Yankee, Chop ur Muller and settle with a good black Nigerian girl over there.. The ones at home are spoilt, rotten and Corrupt..

muafrika:
You havent dated "any SINGLE girl?" What a qualification. Is "single" in reference to quantity or status?

27 is still young, don't neglect your career.

i thought about that.. 27 is still young.. But there is nothing left... The pressure is creeping in..Am not confused..am not panicking.. I just wanna hear from people that have gone thru dis... Single..In terms of quantity...

Bimffo:


Bro.. Chaiii.. U think there are Loyal girls.

The time of Loyality stopped with our Mothers oo.. As U dey see me so, I cant Vouche for my Sisters, not to talk of 1 lady wey go dey for Nice for Yankee boy..

Baba, Once again, I take anytin beg U.. Just stay for Yankee, Chop ur Muller and settle with a good black Nigerian girl over there.. The ones at home are spoilt, rotten and Corrupt..

No make them girls catch you Lool.. Thanks bro...

Grinder:

i thought about that.. 27 is still young.. But there is nothing left... The pressure is creeping in..Am not confused..am not panicking.. I just wanna hear from people that have gone thru dis... Single..In terms of quantity...

Pressure will not cease so long us you continue to tolerate it. People can take over your life if you let them. After this it will be children, build a house, buy land, do this and that. Tell those people off or they will drive you crazzzy.

There is something left. Get an established career. Get more money first.

Marriage threads everywhere.....

Make I waka back to family section biko.

Op keep calm, you go marry when time reach.

Herzumpther:
Marriage threads everywhere.....

Make I waka back to family section biko.

Op keep calm, you go marry when time reach.

When be the right time

muafrika:
Pressure will not cease so long us you continue to tolerate it. People can take over your life if you let them. After this it will be children, build a house, buy land, do this and that. Tell those people off or they will drive you crazzzy.

There is something left. Get an established career. Get more money first.

YUp true.. More Money... GUess am gettin closer to my conclusion..thanks a lot..

Grinder:

When be the right time

Lol. I nor know o.
Just be careful about it and seek the face of the Lord, marriage no be beans and if you end up with the wrong person, my brother you go suffer pass job.lol.