She can get a new cloths for my daughter i am not against that or maybe she bought a new cloths for her own kids and does not seize size them, then i can take that, but sending used cloths from PH to Lagos please someone should advice me on this.

kingmorgan:
Please i need sincere answers, will you be happy when your wife cousin who live very far from your family and does not know how you live in the house always want to send your child used cloths used by her own children, and you are very comfortable, but each time you tell your wife it is not a good things, she complain it is nothing, because her cousin husband got a job for her brother and is also comfortable as you. I see this a let down because i can afford to buy cloths for my daughter and will soon move to my own House after 2years in Marriage, i dont know why her cousin does this things but i feel it is not right. She can get a new cloths for my daughter i am not against that or maybe she bought a new cloths for her own kids and does not seize them, then i can take that, but sending used cloths from PH to Lagos please someone should advice me on this.

mumumugu:



you made a mistske by being married.you are better single.

henrywoods1234:
Its not what you guys shld argue about try and see reasons with your wife/husband......but to me its a let down

kingmorgan:
Please i need sincere answers, will you be happy when your wife cousin who live very far from your family and does not know how you live in the house always want to send your child used cloths used by her own children, and you are very comfortable, but each time you tell your wife it is not a good things, she complain it is nothing, because her cousin husband got a job for her brother and is also comfortable as you. I see this a let down because i can afford to buy cloths for my daughter and will soon move to my own House after 2years in Marriage, i dont know why her cousin does this things but i feel it is not right. She can get a new cloths for my daughter i am not against that or maybe she bought a new cloths for her own kids and does not size them, then i can take that, but sending used cloths from PH to Lagos please someone should advice me on this. Please note this is not Pride but i feel you need to know the financials status of someone before giving out such things as used cloths.


Please if you are not married or experienced dont come here and say rubbish, we are talking about family issues here single ladies or guys should keep off, when you get to your turn, you will have your own experiences to share, so please do not criticizes people with nothing on your HEAD. RESPECT YOURSELVES.

taryour:


My brother I feel you jare, each family to its own choices. Sit your wife down and talk her,let her know how you feel. If she doesn't listen please call your wife cousin and tell her politely or in a stylish way. You can tell her to hold on with the clothes for now that your kids all have enough,you even given out some of them to the less privileged.

If she is smart enough,she should read the hand writing on the wall. I personally pay much attention to tiny details and body signs when dealing with people.

If after that she refused and still send used clothes to your kids then please by all means call her and be blunt. Gaskia.

Like I said earlier,to each family its own. A man's meat is another man,s poison.

lilmax:
op this is what you need

taryour:


My brother I feel you jare, each family to its own choices. Sit your wife down and talk her,let her know how you feel. If she doesn't listen please call your wife cousin and tell her politely or in a stylish way. You can tell her to hold on with the clothes for now that your kids all have enough,you even given out some of them to the less privileged.

If she is smart enough,she should read the hand writing on the wall. I personally pay much attention to tiny details and body signs when dealing with people.

If after that she refused and still send used clothes to your kids then please by all means call her and be blunt. Gaskia.

Like I said earlier,to each family its own. A man's meat is another man,s poison.

kingmorgan:
Your direct sister i dont see anything bad, If she is my wife sister which i know my wife is close to her sister, i dont see anything wrong in that, she can give maybe when she come for holiday, kids can wear each other cloths as sisters but cousins who stay very far and i have not even met only my marriage day, years ago was the first time i saw her. And buying Okirika (Used Cloths) from market i dont also see it as bad, but cloths already used by her own children, i am just so confused.

MarvellousGod:
Your wife who's in a better position to tell them doesn't see anything wrong with that hence may be difficult to stop..
Once she sends it, just take it to the less privileged/motherless babies or stylishly tell her to stop.. I understand how you feel but don't pick a fight over that because that may be their family trend....

xrayz:
broda,if u are not comfortable with d gift,u can show her appreciation by sending down a bigger package to her own children.mayb she'll learn.

KanwuliaJara:
It shows you LACK HUMILITY!
This is the SADDEST thing I have read all day to make me regret logging on to NL.

Not everything should be seen as a 'curse' you know?
You need to learn to be HUMBLE AND GRACIOUS!

It is the thought that matters. . . THE BLESSINGS OF SUCCESS can only be measured with HUMILITY!

Go and learn that!



*sick to my stomach. . . .PUKES*

mployer:


Now this is the best comment You've ever posted on NL

KanwuliaJara:


Really?
There is hope then.
Some parts of my brain work ONLY SOMETIMES!

taryour:


Chai kanwuliajara no go kill person with laugh for this nairaland oo.Lol

KanwuliaJara:


Help me praise una GODIOOOOOOH!
I made one sensible post in HIS YEAR 2014AD! . . . .After killing his ONLY beloveTH soN 2014 years later!!!!
Hallelujah!!!!

A miracOOOO indeed!

*Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew*