I am going through what is
a classic midlife crisis with
a bit of a twist. I’m in my
early 40s and have a great
wife and two great young
kids, all of whom I love
dearly. I’ve been with my
wife for over 20 years.
Everyone tells me how
lucky I am to have the
perfect marriage. But, of
course, I don’t feel so
lucky. Instead I feel
burdened, trapped by the
overwhelming obligations
of family and of keeping up
appearances. The way I’ve
tried to deal with these
feelings is by seeing
prostitutes.
About eight months ago, I
met and paid for the
woman of my dreams.
She’s beautiful, a sexual
dynamo, smart, funny and
sweet. She’s not a typical
prostitute; she’s more like
the girl next door who
wants to get paid for her
great looks and abundant
sexual talents.
I soon went from being her
client to being her friend
and confidant. Her
presence in my life does
two things for me. First I
get to feel those incredibly
strong emotions that I
haven’t felt in years about
my wife (lust and longing),
and more important, I feel
so free during the few
hours a month I get to see
her. Not only do we explore
sexual fantasies that would
be completely out of
bounds with my wife, but
more important, I can
completely relax around
her and joke around and
talk frankly, and not have
to worry about things like
who’s picking up whom
from school.
Of course, I know that this
whole thing is incredibly
stupid and immature, but I
can’t figure out how to
unring the bell and go back
to a life without this
woman. Do you think it
will be possible to not see
her and forget about the
pleasure, love and passion
that we had? I’ve tried for
a few weeks at a time, but
I’ve always felt the need to
see her again — the urge
for release, both literally
and metaphorically, was
too strong. I have a hard
time imagining life without
her, but at the same time,
she could never be a part
of my “real” life — I have
too much invested in my
marriage and family to
break it up.
So the question boils down
to this: How do I give up
sexual (and emotional)
nirvana for the sake of my
family?

its simple

when u are ready to change, relax with ur wifey, play with her, feel free with her, confide with her, value her and explore proper sexuality with her...then u will be back on track

for now, u are lost and not yet ready to be found

Another stray sheep, head of household indeed .

danielmichael:
Not only do we explore
sexual fantasies that would
be completely out of
bounds with my wife, but
more important, I can
completely relax around
her and joke around and
talk frankly, and not have
to worry about things like
who’s picking up whom
from school.

sëxual compatibility issues.....
why did you marry a woman that cannot make your sexual fantasies come true?

Just let your wife know.

she might be so scared of seperation and welcome you in (including the hoe) because she wants to save face or she throws your azz to the curb(which in these case makes you legally right to shag the hoe) .

Either case you win.

Reality check though.the hoe dosnt love you,all the smile is just for her money.she is being professional while you are just being a puzzy.

Magazine story for the gods. Congrats.

Life isn't perfect and my friend , It isn't meant to be.
Sometimes, it's the little burdens and the difficulties in life that makes it all worthwhile and meaningful.But then again, it's those very issues that can make life and romance miserable too.

Did you try addressing these issues you seem to have with your wife?Do you even know if she is going through the same ordeal?
Family is tough,being a man,husband and father demand work,dedication and love.
Going to a prostitute is not a relaxation but rather a door to more trouble,you might be enjoying it now but you won't when you drive that poor woman who is also sacrificing just as you to her untimely death.

Be a man and face your duties,stop looking for a cheap way out.

byvan:
Another stray sheep, head of household indeed .

For goodness sake!
Can we for once not turn this into another gender war? Please?

baby124:
Magazine story for the gods. Congrats.

U dey smoke ikpo na y!!!

danielmichael:


U dey smoke ikpo na y!!!

You de craze. You no sabi copy and paste simple story. Fraudulent impostor. Story teller.

Op, you are in bondage. The kind that requires you to put Tasha Cobb's "break every chain" on repeat.

5minsmadness:

For goodness sake!
Can we for once not turn this into another gender war? Please?

This has nothing to do with gender..its about a man not making use of his God given brain.

baby124:

You de craze. You no sabi copy and paste simple story. Fraudulent impostor. Story teller.

Olodo 1

danielmichael:


Olodo 1

Agbepo

baby124:

Agbepo

Ishi come to town

danielmichael:

Ishi come to town

If I sing the olodo rabata song for you in oyo dialect, you will cry on this post. My friend go and suck your thumb in that corner---->

baby124:

If I sing the olodo rabata song for you in oyo dialect, you will cry on this post. My friend go and suck your thumb in that corner---->

Hahah look@dis rombutious ratatatat who has no estri-metez for masculinity..Bleep ya sonorous rife!!!..idiot

Terrible copy and paste work.

Lazy even.

EfemenaXY:
Terrible copy and paste work.

Lazy even.

danielmichael:

Hahah look@dis rombutious ratatatat who has no estri-metez for masculinity..Bleep ya sonorous rife!!!..idiot

Bwahahahahaha. E pain

baby124:


Bwahahahahaha. E pain

Haaaaaaaa cnt decipher wad I'm saying...wad a metemetez

baby124:


Bwahahahahaha. E pain

Are you the only person with a brain? We all saw its copy and paste but chose to ignore and face the issue on ground. Jeez!

DukeNija:


Are you the only person with a brain? We all saw its copy and paste but chose to ignore and face the issue on ground. Jeez!

What is the issue on ground?

@OP: Let your wife go and live with the woman of your dreams

Life is short you know

bukatyne:


What is the issue on ground?

@OP: Let your wife go and live with the woman of your dreams

Life is short you know

The issue on ground is that someone (a married man) is in love with a prostitute.

DukeNija:


The issue on ground is that someone (a married man) is in love with a prostitute.

Well, I have given my advise

*singing* love is all that matters

danielmichael:
I am going through what is
a classic midlife crisis with
a bit of a twist. I’m in my
early 40s and have a great
wife and two great young
kids, all of whom I love
dearly. I’ve been with my
wife for over 20 years.
Everyone tells me how
lucky I am to have the
perfect marriage. But, of
course, I don’t feel so
lucky. Instead I feel
burdened, trapped by the
overwhelming obligations
of family and of keeping up
appearances. The way I’ve
tried to deal with these
feelings is by seeing
prostitutes.
About eight months ago, I
met and paid for the
woman of my dreams.
She’s beautiful, a sexual
dynamo, smart, funny and
sweet. She’s not a typical
prostitute; she’s more like
the girl next door who
wants to get paid for her
great looks and abundant
sexual talents.
I soon went from being her
client to being her friend
and confidant. Her
presence in my life does
two things for me. First I
get to feel those incredibly
strong emotions that I
haven’t felt in years about
my wife (lust and longing),
and more important, I feel
so free during the few
hours a month I get to see
her. Not only do we explore
sexual fantasies that would
be completely out of
bounds with my wife, but
more important, I can
completely relax around
her and joke around and
talk frankly, and not have
to worry about things like
who’s picking up whom
from school.
Of course, I know that this
whole thing is incredibly
stupid and immature, but I
can’t figure out how to
unring the bell and go back
to a life without this
woman. Do you think it
will be possible to not see
her and forget about the
pleasure, love and passion
that we had? I’ve tried for
a few weeks at a time, but
I’ve always felt the need to
see her again — the urge
for release, both literally
and metaphorically, was
too strong. I have a hard
time imagining life without
her, but at the same time,
she could never be a part
of my “real” life — I have
too much invested in my
marriage and family to
break it up.
So the question boils down
to this: How do I give up
sexual (and emotional)
nirvana for the sake of my
family?

It is always good not to start what you cannot finish. But since you have started, you have to put in the exact energy and resources you put in the first to get the second woman. If you fail to do it, you wont get the desired result that you're looking for.

You have a limited time to do this, because you have already sacrificed the future of your family in the altar of lust and selfishness.

The seemingly sexual gratification and all the pheripherals that you seem to enjoy will soon become a burning element in your marrow.

Note: One cannot and will never enjoy sex successfully outside his/her marriage