there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

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there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

haraad01:
there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

Are you typing in ENGLISH or SPANISH

English

haraad01:
English

Ok weldone.

Tell him that it's normal for some women's sexual urges and likeness for sex to reduce after they give birth and not that she's cheating on him .

Tell him to help out a lot around the house. Maybe she is extremely tired after cooking cleaning washing and caring for their child all day long. I can tell you the more my hubby helps out around the house, the more in the mood I am

taryour:


Ok weldone.

there is no perfect marriage my friend and i want to believe you are the man in question because most men don't discuss with other men their sexual relations with their wives. A man can discuss that of his girlfriend with you but he would never discuss that of his wife with you because you are just a common neighbor, a meddlesome interloper.

First of all tell that silly man to stop fighting his wife!

That is not the way to improve issues. For a woman even your wife to want "sex" you have to be offering more than that. She wants tenderness, love,affection and so many other things.
He needs to turn her on, make her desire him.
If he can not do that then he is a failure.

After spending all her time cooking cleaning and caring for child how will she want sex. Also women who have had babies experience dry vagina and sex can be very painful. You will definitely feel unsexy after baby has thrown up on you a couple of times.

Take her out, spoil her, get her a maid and romance her, you will see how she will enjoy sex. Not just jumping her bones after she has worked all day and wants to rest.

haraad01:
there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

The next step is to head to the nearest book store and buy 10 copies of Queen Premiere!

Thank me later.

haraad01:
there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

Now that you have decided to give us headache with this your writeup, what do we do too? Back to the matter, some women experience painful sex after having kids. Your neighbour should exercise patience and help when he can so as to take the stress off her. Above all, communication is important in every marriage

Phema:


The next step is to head to the nearest book store and buy 10 copies of Queen Premiere!

Thank me later.

Is it still in circulation? If it is i would like to get one for my daughter. .I wonder if Brighter Grammar is still in circulation? *memories*

elantraceey:
Tell him that it's normal for some women's sexual urges and likeness for sex to reduce after they give birth and not that she's cheating on him .

It is?
Are you serious?

elantraceey:
Tell him that it's normal for some women's sexual urges and likeness for sex to reduce after they give birth and not that she's cheating on him .

Sorry am not attacking or cursing...
Please explain ur claim, not forgetting the "it's normal"
I need to know how long?

damiso:

Is it still in circulation? If it is i would like to get one for my daughter. .I wonder if Brighter Grammar is still in circulation? *memories*

Lol. I've got no idea if its still in circulation.

Stay out of it

She has to do it but it takes both party, forget ur daily massacre it will now be weekly , her body just don't want it anymore it's something to do with child birth. Buy wine and champagne and both have a drink . If you both don't drink she will soon re adjust . Please be patient with us women

taryour:


Are you typing in ENGLISH or SPANISH

He asked for your advise madam if you cannot give it, just shut up. some of you need some growing up to do.

I am not married yet but if i happens to be in his shoes, communication will be the key.

I will go to work come back with a gift that does not cost me a fortune but I know that she will like it.
I will sit her down and tell her how I appreciate all she has been doing. and i will point out the area that she needed to work on.

I will reassure her that i will never cheat on her but she is staving me in that area. that she should talk to me on the reason why she doesn't like sex, so that we can do something about it.

husband and wife should be able to talk to each other without shame, after-all, they have seen each other. what is the big deal. I hope this helps.

He should help his wife and make time out for romance, love her up, take her out, go on dates marriage is not just about se-x, cooking and cleaning its a bond and paternship.

damiso:


Is it still in circulation? If it is i would like to get one for my daughter. .I wonder if Brighter Grammar is still in circulation? *memories*

I have Brighter Grammar 1, 2, and 3 on my bookshelf.

haraad01:
there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

It's not rocket science to see that she's overworked. Merely looking after a newborn alone is draining enough. Sleepless nights, irregular sleeping patterns, take their toll and then to cap it off, she's still got to cook, clean, run after older kids (if they've got them) without any help, and we're being asked why she isn't interested in sêx?

This must be the most stüpïd question of the century.

Richy4:
I am not married yet but if i happens to be in his shoes, communication will be the key.

I will go to work come back with a gift that does not cost me a fortune but I know that she will like it.
I will sit her down and tell her how I appreciate all she has been doing. and i will point out the area that she needed to work on.

I will reassure her that i will never cheat on her but she is staving me in that area. that she should talk to me on the reason why she doesn't like sex, so that we can do something about it.

husband and wife should be able to talk to each other without shame, after-all, they have seen each other. what is the big deal. I hope this helps.

So rather than rolling up your sleeves and getting involved like a real man to ease her burden in raising your newborn, and looking after your home, you'd rather pose in front of the telly with a beer in your hand "reassuring" her that you won't cheat on her because she's not superwoman?

Like seriously? And you call this communicating?

Such insensitivity.

EfemenaXY:


So rather than rolling up your sleeves and getting involved like a real man to ease her burden in raising your newborn, and looking after your home, you'd rather pose in front of the telly with a beer in your hand "reassuring" her that you won't cheat on her because she's not superwoman?

Like seriously? And you call this communicating?

Such insensitivity.

there are ways that you can disagree with my opinion without throwing an insult.

If you have a better solution, you should have aired it out rather than saying pretty nothing. I guess i am way too classy to stoop to your level. have a good day.

Funny story, I was at the pharmacy yesterday and a young lady was lamenting to her friends(some attendants there)how her hubby beats her at the slightest provocation and forces himself on her, whenever he wants it and she's too tired.

Come see advice, she was told to endure, that she's even lucky the man gives her food, that some women have it worse and some other loads of bull, come see instances of how some women suffer more so she should even be thankful, I was just crying in my mind on behalf of the abused lady, you need to see how frustrated and unhappy this lady looks, yet she was being told to endure, the only reason I said nothing was because, it's rude to butt in and it will take much more than a few words to get them to understand, that's if they ever will sef.

People sha dey suffer for this country.

Richy4:


He asked for your advise madam if you cannot give it, just shut up. some of you need some growing up to do.

Wooow, I see you have now grown up from the small boy that you were. Oya SCRAM if you have no advice to give.

That woman as suffered and she is so unfortunate to have such a man as a husband, He so insensitive.

EfemenaXY:


So rather than rolling up your sleeves and getting involved like a real man to ease her burden in raising your newborn, and looking after your home, you'd rather pose in front of the telly with a beer in your hand "reassuring" her that you won't cheat on her because she's not superwoman?

Like seriously? And you call this communicating?

Such insensitivity.

Sensationalism