here we go again, yesterday it was all positions but one are sinful, today it is mouth action and annal, i wonder what it would be tomorrow... i don't subscribe to annal sha ... but if you are comfortable with poo all over your cock and tearing apart your woman's anus then that's your own wahala......

zaralady:



heeellloooo...excuse me??...do u mind reading the post again and apply understanding plsss.....if u dont den pls dont comment thnx!

U are the one who is supposed to read the text again...cuz d man u referring to...made he's point...I dnt even get ur argument!

Daninya11:
Sexual perversion is sin before God..
If God made provision for anal and MouthAction, nature would have taught us that..
I term those who engage in sexual perversion as juvenile delinquent suffering from behavioural disorder..
How will a sane man stick his dick into a hole full of filth and harmful bacteria all in the name of pleasure??
When has the joystick become a chewing stick? Is the mouth now the vagina..
Is God wanted men to be smokers, he would have made a chimney on our head..
African ethics and norms frown on sexual perversion.. A man who insert his joystick into a woman anus has gay tendency. When no woman is around, he will stick his joystick into the hole of a man ..
Its a simple psychology. That's how gayism started. All the addicted man thinks of now is anus anus anus..

I honestly agree to your gay tendency point but sorry other forms are okay. excpt for the anal that place is not for sex. its not a pleasurable spot

I see nothing wrong with it, when you're married.. Your sex life should be your problem, and you should be able to do anything to each other, provided you meet a mutual agreement.

Yes because this world is not our own and when you die, God will judge you so we need to take it serious,,,

xtervaganza:
Our problem is that we take religion too serious

"All things are lawful to me, but all things are not expedient"
"To him that knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him, it is sin"

But wait o...why would some unmarried peeps talk about sex in the course of courtship? Aint it a cheap way to raise the devil's head and make them fall into sin easily? Ma thoughts tho

[quote author=Truckpusher post=30821794]Are peeps still engaging in MouthAction with the rising cases of epileptic patients among the female folks?

My kini is too precious to me to be left inside the mouth of another human being .

Which kain rough play be that? [/quote

......lol

This is all about understanding between the spouses. there is no where in the bible we are told this or that position is holy or unholy. the bible only condenmed Fornication,self service and adultery. If you are married, I believe every thing goes, the key thing is "UNDERSTANDING" not "HOLY" or "UNHOLY' common we are adults.

i think these religions only allow sex for procreation, so no.

Truth be told, dogs could be proclaimed as the most sexually perversed animals on earth, and they even shy away from anal sex. Humans should not engage in sexual acts which even dogs find deplorable.

As far as cunnilingus go,

not sure that is Hygienic if a man is doing it.

Bsc:

U are the one who is supposed to read the text again...cuz d man u referring to...made he's point...I dnt even get ur argument!

ok thnxs

steppin:
Sex is sex and when it's between two married people, it's no sin. Though I don't support 'annal' sex.

well said Annal sex sucks big tym. I wonder y ppl indulge in it sef

[quote author=zaralady post=30822123][/quote]You reason am na .

And I hear say once epileptic patient close mouth say na stories for the gods be that .

WTF!! If we have se.x before marriage, its a sin; if we have se.x after marriage its also a sin. Y we dey carry religion for heaÐ as though we are God. U are commiting sin by criticising these things

i am not God to say its sin but i feel its not heathy datsmy worry

1stola:
Just yesterday, a JOKER PASTOR said missionary style is the only accepted 'holy' style. What brought anąl and òral again
In Islam, I think it's only anąl that is no no.

Thank God you used the "Word" I think but really Islam frowns at MouthAction too. There is provision for every sense organ so let's use them as appropriate.

Am addicted to MouthAction!

Daninya11:
Sexual perversion is sin before God..
If God made provision for anal and MouthAction, nature would have taught us that..
I term those who engage in sexual perversion as juvenile delinquent suffering from behavioural disorder..
How will a sane man stick his dick into a hole full of filth and harmful bacteria all in the name of pleasure??
When has the joystick become a chewing stick? Is the mouth now the vagina..
Is God wanted men to be smokers, he would have made a chimney on our head..
African ethics and norms frown on sexual perversion.. A man who insert his joystick into a woman anus has gay tendency. When no woman is around, he will stick his joystick into the hole of a man ..
Its a simple psychology. That's how gayism started. All the addicted man thinks of now is anus anus anus..

It's not hard to understand why anal sex gets a bad rap but to assert that it fosters homosexual tendencies is pushing it over the line.

You have to understand humans better before making such assertion. We're creatures of diverging choices. Many hate to stick to routine which in this case is the popular missionary stylee.

When these set of people who are not big fans of ''do it the normal way'' have their erotic script, arousal pathways, and interpretations of pleasure constantly changing, then the need to add anal sex - an unexpected fun, to their sexual repertoire arises.

1stola:
Just yesterday, a JOKER PASTOR said missionary style is the only accepted 'holy' style. What brought anąl and òral again
In Islam, I think it's only anąl that is no no.

Thank God you used the "Word" I think but really Islam frowns at MouthAction too. There is provision for every sense organ so let's use them as appropriate.

Mouth action, anal are all still categorised under sexual act.... Nd couples are allowed to have sexual activiies, anyhow nd anywhere and anytime. In as much as there is a mutual agreement btwn d couple........all sexual positions nd methods are allowed..............





ITS ALLOWED

zaralady:

Me I forbid anal sex!!!

stagger:


How can a right thinking man want to put his penis in his wife's anus? Is he bisexual? Maybe he watches too much indecency.

Gross. Better tell that woman to run for her dear life. Where do people pick up such perversions from?

Shut up!! What if the wife wants her anus to be penetrated? People derive pleasure in different ways some of us may consider deviant.

In some cultures, especially in the Middle East, oral & Anal sex are very common, in fact young girls use it as a means of preserving their virginity but anal sex with a woman is not to be compared to anal sex with a man... There's a big difference between the hard muscular as*s of a man & the round soft as*s of a woman.. So your argument is dead here.

I've heard and seen lots of unconventional sexual practices become a norm, I've heard a chic say she likes penetrating a man's as*s with a dild*o, she even had assorted toys for this.

If you speak of hygiene as a major reason, then I'm inclined to agree with you, being a germophobe myself, the idea of having poo on my co*ck makes me cringe.

In the end, two adults can do whatever they want, some even urinate in the other person's mouth (they call it golden shower) and this gives them pleasure. Basically, I don't care what a man does with a woman, my problem is with a man penetrating the anus of a fellow man.. That's just sick!!!

My own opinion goes thus: Can the two work or move together if they don't agree? Its written somewea in d bible. So as for d MouthAction, anal sex or woteva sex it is u and ur hubby wanna practice, as long as its within d confines of marriage, I don't think there's notin wrong with it. Also it is written in d bible, d two shall join and become one. B4 God's eyes, u are one and not two so woteva u guys do in ur bedrooms is not a sin as long as u both agree and enjoy and are happy with each other.

Wish u a happy marriage in advance

Shalom!

zaralady:
hello nairaland,

Happy valentine in arrears. We re still in the era of love, and there is this question that has me really confused and befuddled.

As a result of my post of facebook on motivation, gospel, and life, I'm seen as a mentor to many friends and followers, and some come to me for advice which by God's grace I give.

Lately, a facebook friend sent a message and it reads:

"Miss......I see your good works and words of wisdom and consolation to many confused and distracted people out there. May God continue to uphold and empower you. Please this question have been bothering me because I'm getting married in 2 months time and my fiance and I have been arguing about oral and anal sex. He said he sees nothing wrong with it and would like to do them when we get married.

I see it as a sin and a diabolic act in the sight of God. This argument is making me think he is not the will of God for me. What do you think about oral and anal sex in Christian marriages? Can christians indulge in them or not??"

So nairalanders please I'll really appreciate your brilliant contributions, I know we have matured and wise people on nairaland, so please let them come out.

Thanx...

Meditate on this words ntural use of woman Romans 1:27
And likewise also the men,
leaving the natural use of
the woman, burned in
their lust one toward
another; men with men
working that which is
unseemly, and receiving in
themselves that
recompence of their error
which was meet.
- King James Bible "Authorized Version",

......whatever a husband and wife does sexually in the confines of their marriage is lawful, and edifying.
WHATEVER.................

zaralady:
hello nairaland,

Happy valentine in arrears. We re still in the era of love, and there is this question that has me really confused and befuddled.

As a result of my post of facebook on motivation, gospel, and life, I'm seen as a mentor to many friends and followers, and some come to me for advice which by God's grace I give.

Lately, a facebook friend sent a message and it reads:

"Miss......I see your good works and words of wisdom and consolation to many confused and distracted people out there. May God continue to uphold and empower you. Please this question have been bothering me because I'm getting married in 2 months time and my fiance and I have been arguing about oral and anal sex. He said he sees nothing wrong with it and would like to do them when we get married.

I see it as a sin and a diabolic act in the sight of God. This argument is making me think he is not the will of God for me. What do you think about oral and anal sex in Christian marriages? Can christians indulge in them or not??"

So nairalanders please I'll really appreciate your brilliant contributions, I know we have matured and wise people on nairaland, so please let them come out.

Thanx...

It was clearly written in many places that man "sleep" with woman to produce their children. "Sleep" is the used word. Now when you go to the case of Sodom and Gomorah, you will see the extreme and what becomes of them. There we see Man against Man, definetely they have graduated from taking sex organ into the mouth to that high level of immorality.

If we proceed to new testament, the Bible warn about "Sexual Immorality". Morality goes along with Holiness and Righteousness. Now does putting the manhood in the mouth portray what is right (righteousness) when there is the private organ for woman, the answer is NO. Also does taking the man organ into the mouth look moral, acceptable or what people can hear us do, the answer is also NO.

mirexxx:
who knows if Adam and Eve did all the stuffs op mentioned??
cos people now do them doesn't mean it never existed
i don't think its a sin since they are married
missionary style can also affect one spiritually
if u think mouth action,anal sex etc ain't spiritually hygienic then the missionary style is also not hygienic
cos both can affect u spiritually





anal sex
gross!!!!

anal sex is clearly sexual perversion of the highest order...vagina clean pass anus na...wake up degrading human..even animal dont do it.

Adamo84:
Thank God you used the "Word" I think but really Islam frowns at MouthAction too. There is provision for every sense organ so let's use them as appropriate.

IT'S a fat lie.
Oya quote a chapter to defend yourself.

If she does not want to do what the man requested, she should just walk. The cold hard fact is that anal sex is very popular these days and if you see a man that does it, it was a girl he dated that introduced him to it. The girls that practice anal sex are surprisingly decent girls. I have friends that told me that the girls they dated introduced them to anal sex by simply suggesting it A friend of mine who is a lecturer told me a girl he dated once suggested it to him. As of that time the girl was barely 23 years old. You will never know.