just sw this video by jennifer. - big booty. was so damn disappointed. i used to like her for her really nice songs, who remembers -love dot cost a thing... oh men, that was a nice song.
now seeing this crap, couldnt believe she scould stoop so low.

then i wondered why women complain bou how guys treat them, when female icos degrade themselves so . and in a way i know some women feel sad if they dont hv a big Behind. hav heard so many complaints - i want a bigger ass etc.

my message to ladies - how you present urself is how you will be treated. but really its hard to change the general view as women as piees of meat when so many of them behave like that, esp the icons.

for laffs, check out the link below. its a parody



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmiMkwZD5rM

Booty talk aside, I think the likes of JLo are now making these kind of songs because 1) they are old & are trying to be hip to keep up with the newcomers 2) they are with these younger men who make them feel young I guess & think it's appropriate to "sing young" when you're a hag

Was also disappointed when I heard Mariah singing about being thirsty. Gone are the days when she used to sing classy songs.

Back to the booty issue, erm...I've got nothing to say because I don't have one. Lol! I just enjoy the thought of disappointment on guys' faces when I walk by & they turn around to sneak a quick rear view & find NOTHING. Hahaha. Life must be really hard for big booty women I can imagine, because you can't tell if someone likes you for you or is really just lusting after your lovely lady lumps. Just my opinion anyway. I also do think some of these girls like to use their behinds to bait guys who are after nothing but their ASSets. I mean if you objectify yourself by posting pictures of yourself with your butt hanging, then don't turn around & cry wolf when you're treated like an object. You attract what you put out. Simple as that.

PunkyBrewster:
Booty talk aside, I think the likes of JLo are now making these kind of songs because 1) they are old & are trying to be hip to keep up with the newcomers 2) they are with these younger men who make them feel young I guess & think it's appropriate to "sing young" when you're a hag

Was also disappointed when I heard Mariah singing about being thirsty. Gone are the days when she used to sing classy songs.

Back to the booty issue, erm...I've got nothing to say because I don't have one. Lol! I just enjoy the thought of disappointment on guys' faces when I walk by & they turn around to sneak a quick rear view & find NOTHING. Hahaha. Life must be really hard for big booty women I can imagine, because you can't tell if someone likes you for you or is really just lusting after your lovely lady lumps. Just my opinion anyway. I also do think some of these girls like to use their behinds to bait guys who are after nothing but their ASSets. I mean if you objectify yourself by posting pictures of yourself with your butt hanging, then don't turn around & cry wolf when you're treated like an object. You attract what you put out. Simple as that.

jeni-lopez,Maria Carey,and a lot of female singers have gone through a lot and had there own share of ups and down with men.
and their experience comes out in their songs!
they want to still remain relevant so it seems but it gets tough because a whole new generation are coming up and these new chicks on the block come with new talent,style as well as charisma

baralatie:

jeni-lopez,Maria Carey,and a lot of female singers have gone through a lot and had there own share of ups and down with men.
and their experience comes out in their songs!
they want to still remain relevant so it seems but it gets tough because a whole new generation are coming up and these new chicks on the block come with new talent,style as well as charisma

I'm not disputing that it's about relevance & where they currently are in life, so what's your point cause I said something similar?

PunkyBrewster:


I'm not disputing that it's about relevance & where they currently are in life, so what's your point cause I said something similar?

it was the word ' hag' that you used to classify an individual.

baralatie:

it was the word ' hag' that you used to classify an individual.

So? It's obvious I was being playful or did you miss the smiley at the end of that sentence?

PunkyBrewster:


So? It's obvious I was being playful or did you miss the smiley at the end of that sentence?

o yes!it was only a joke!
one question?
how do women handle such jokes!
I am curious!

baralatie:

o yes!it was only a joke!
one question?
how do women handle such jokes!
I am curious!

What jokes? Jokes about being called old? Well, if you're old then you're old. WTH? Must someone call you a spring chicken to spare your feelz? Nonsense!

I don't care for people who take themselves & things people say to heart. I'm one of those people who can laugh at themselves, so I can't speak on behalf of other women who may feel differently.

PunkyBrewster:


What jokes? Jokes about being called old? Well, if you're old then you're old. WTH? Must someone call you a spring chicken to spare your feelz?

I don't care for people who take themselves & things people say to heart. I'm one of those people who can laugh at themselves, so I can't speak on behalf of other women who may feel differently.

bingo!
2nd paragraph gave it away!
I remember jeni- lo saying the same thing but as a woman......it is d.................

baralatie:

bingo!
2nd paragraph gave it away!
I remember jeni- lo saying the same thing but as a woman......it is d.................

Sorry but you're being too vague.

Listen, at a certain age, I think people should be able to roll with the punches. You can't be going around acting all emo like some teenager for goodness sake. If someone is not comfortable enough in their own skin to be able to laugh at themselves, then their issues are way more than skin deep. In short, not my problem but theirs.

PunkyBrewster:




Sorry but you're being too vague.

Listen, at a certain age, I think people should be able to roll with the punches. You can't be going around acting all emo like some teenager for goodness sake. If someone is not comfortable enough in their own skin to be able to laugh at themselves, then their issues are way more than skin deep. In short, not my problem but theirs.

this 'problem' as you put it,is what created this
thread.it is not about been a star or celebrity.it cuts across all womenfolk whether at home,office or marketplace.
if it was okay women won't live on comestology,butt enlargement programme,weight reduction programme, and some other programme.
and if one woman has it all women probably have it.

baralatie:

this 'problem' as you put it,is what created this
thread.it is not about been a star or celebrity.it cuts across all womenfolk whether at home,office or marketplace.
if it was okay women won't live on comestology,butt enlargement programme,weight reduction programme, and some other programme.
and if one woman has it all women probably have it.

Hence I said, there should come a time/age one reaches where none of that should matter. Where you're comfortable just being you instead of a carbon copy of video vixens or whoever these women wish they looked like. That's their own journey though but doesn't mean someone like myself shouldn't have fun just because someone else is struggling with self acceptance issues. Ah hell no! They should see a shrink or wear one of them fake asses if that's gonna make them feel better. With all of that said, still not my problem!

PunkyBrewster:


Hence I said, there should come a time/age one reaches where none of that should matter. Where you're comfortable just being you instead of a carbon copy of video vixens or whoever these women wish they looked like. That's their own journey though but doesn't mean someone like myself shouldn't have fun just because someone else is struggling with self acceptance issues. Ah hell no! They should see a shrink or wear one of them fake asses if that's gonna make them feel better. With all of that said, still not my problem!

understood you clearly!