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I'm sure you have had girls say this to YOU: "Let's just be friends"

or... "I don't like you in that way. Lets JUST remain friends"

Those words are painful, especially when you like the girl.

Here is the thing: Girls see friendship and a romantic relationship as two DIFFERENT things.

Stay with me, let me explain to you what i mean.

Take for instance, you have this female friend who is "Just a friend", you two do things together, you know her boyfriend and everything. One day you walk into her room and you find her naked, with a seductive smile as she waves for you to join her on the bed - That would send an instant PLEASANT feeling down your spine. Right?

Now, let's turn it around:

Try the same thing. Get naked, wait for her to come in then smile and wave seductively - and she would definitely scream "Rape" or, if she is the muscular time, she would walk to you and slap you then scream .

What is my point?

A guy can feel the need to become intimate with a female friend who is just a friend - WHILE in MOST CASES, a girl would find it hard JUST PICTURING herself kiss a guy she sees as "Just A friend".

So how does a woman decide who she would friend-zone and a guy she can date? How does she differentiate between a boyfriend material and a guy who she would keep around as a personal handbag adviser?

It all depends on HOW YOU MAKE HER FEEL.

It depends on the EMOTIONS you make her feel.

A girl doesn't decide who she likes. Attraction is involuntary. So when you follow a girl around, begging her for her love, begging to date her - you are wasting your time. It won't work. It's either she feels it for you or she doesn't.

Infact let me list out the things most guys do that kills a girls interest in them...

[center]ALL HOPE IS NOT LOST[/center]

HERE IS THE GOOD NEWS; it is actually POSSIBLE to make a girl like you INVOLUNTARILY.

Girls have a "dream guy" they feel they want, no doubt, we all do - tall, six packs, baritone voice - name them. Personally i don't like fair-complexioned girls. But i always end up dating them. Check out Bianca Ojukwu, a former governor's daughter and a beauty queen, she had an option to marry other guys MORE GOOD LOOKING and RICHER than Ojukwu.

But she ended up with Ojukwu.

Why?

Simple - We don't choose who we decide to like.

To make a girl like you involuntarily; this are what you need to start doing.

#1. STOP CHASING HER LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT.

Girls are turned off by guys who need them badly. I know, this goes against everything you've ever been told since you were a teenager. Take it slow, bro. I know she is beautiful, other guys are hitting on her and you feel that the only way to get her attention is to show her how crazy you are about her.

BUT IT DOESN'T WORK.

Here is what happens when you show a girl that you are crazy about her: First, she feels good from the attention she is getting (Everybody loves attention) then she starts seeing you as a nuisance as time goes on.

To get what i really mean, Imagine a girl calling you everyday to tell you how she loves you, sending you love texts everyday even though you don't reply, always asking to see you, always begging you to love her back....

IMAGINE IT.

My guess is you won't take her seriously. You will only feel flattered but you won't take her seriously. So why are you making the same mistake with a girl you are interested in?

That too happens with girls. She will feel flattered but she won't take you seriously.


[center]SO WHAT SHOULD YOU DO INSTEAD[/center][/b]

That would lead us to number two...

[b]#2. STOP ACTING LIKE A BABY.

Most times even full grown men turn into big babies when they pick interest in a girl....

if you do any of these things i am about to list out, you are a big baby.

- Giving a girl 14 missed calls in a day, Forget it - she won't date you.
- Asking a girl why she didn't pick your call (This has a way of making you look desperate)
- Begging a girl to date you (Forget it, even if she dates you it would be out of pity - and she would always look down on you). It won't work.
- Begging a girl to come to your house (That is fishy as a hell plus it makes you seem desperate)
- etc etc...

When you do any of this, you make a girl see you as a nuisance and it kills every chances of her seeing you as a guy she can date.

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TO BE CONTINUED...more mistakes loading, stay tuned

On point

If I ask a gal to visit me and she refuses, I wil nt ask her again, never. She wil soon ask to pay a visit herself. The rule is this: once she fails to show up in ur house after a promise of a visit, go after a new girl immediately.

U just be telling us what not to do....



What should we do to make them want romance from us....

Hmmmmmmm. Well the writeup especially the introduction is quite Interesting even though there is nothing really new or unheard of in it. It's the same thing that has been rehashed time and time again here. Don't be desperate, ladies hate desperate guys e.t.c

I just hope the concluding part would be more extraordinary and insightful. Give us something mind-boggling.


You write very well. Nice one bro.

Fasten ur seatbelts.

Lol its well.

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StealthIdeals:
If I ask a gal to visit me and she refuses, I wil nt ask her again, never. She wil soon ask to pay a visit herself. The rule is this: once she fails to show up in ur house after a promise of a visit, go after a new girl immediately.

Lol, well there is a trick i use to get a girl to my house that ALWAYS WORK - I explained it in detail in my ebook (See here http://straffcode.com/bangrule/ for contents) But let me give you a glimpse of it here.

I call it the "indirect request trick". directly asking a girl to visit you makes her suspect you have something up your sleeves

Instead of directly asking a girl to come to your house, give her a reason to come.and make that reason fun.

For instance, what i do is to tell a girl it's been long i ate egusi soup and that i want to cook it, BUT Can't cook it. then i ask her to come over and TEACH me how to cook it. mark the word teach, asking some girls to come and cook for you might put her off.

It always works, girls can be really caring when they meet a guy who is "helpless" *winks* (In my ebook i gave out more of these tricks)

Minet16:
U just be telling us what not to do....



What should we do to make them want romance from us....

I will cover that in the part 2 of these, bro

akinsadeez:
Hmmmmmmm. Well the writeup especially the introduction is quite Interesting even though there is nothing really new or unheard of in it. It's the same thing that has been rehashed time and time again here. Don't be desperate, ladies hate desperate guys e.t.c

I just hope the concluding part would be more extraordinary and insightful. Give us something mind-boggling.


You write very well. Nice one bro.

Thanks, bro..well we have to start from the basics to the more advanced stuffs. we shall get there. right here on this thread

Cutehector:
Lol its well.

Amen, brother. Amen

keep your dials locked

I'll come back to read and comment when I'm in the friendzone

CharlesNneji1:


I will cover that in the part 2 of these, bro

Now I'll pardon you

ok

yayo

LewisO:
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lol

LewisO:

[size=14pt]You again?

U dis guy monitoring me. [/size]

let's say am stalking you.
lol

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SOLUTIONS TO MISTAKE GUYS MAKE........Continuation.

What To Do If A Girl Doesn't Pick Your Calls:

Don't ask her about it when she finally picks....that would make her see you as a nuisance, it would make her look down on you and it would make her treat you like trash.

Even if you must say something about it, Just tease her, you could say something like: "Okay na, you are afraid of sexy voices abi, tried your line and you went and hid your phone". *say this with a smile*

My point iis "don't whine", don't act like she feeds you with weather she picks your call or not. You are a special person, bro - don't be a girl's plaything.


How Often Should You Call A girl:

Calling a girl too often is a bad idea, especially when she doesn't call you half as much as you call her. And when you two are not yet dating - When you keep bugging her with calls you give an impression that 1. You are desperate for her attention. 2. You don't have a life.

Some guys call a girl they are asking out 3 times in a day. Funny thing is that they believe they are being romantic. Nah, that is not being romantic, you are bugging the poor girl to death, bro.

Not just that, you are also killing your chances with her.

The rule to follow is; Ask yourself - "If a girl does this same thing to me, how will i feel?"

If a girl who you just met starts calling you everyday, how you go feel? will you take her seriously? Girls are human beings too, call her like you feed on her voice and she would treat you the way people treat people who call all the time. You need to allow her miss you.

There is no specific number of times to call a girl, but when you ask yourself the above question your instincts will give you an answer - weather to call or not to call.


- Don't ask a girl "do you love me" (It is what weak men do).

- Don't tell her that you love her when you two have not even yet known yourself well. Haba na, it is like telling a girl the summary of a movie before she gets to watch the movie. You have to make her attracted to you first (I explained how to make girls attracted to you in my ebook. see my profile for how to get it)

Just because you tell a girl that you love her won't automatically make her like you, it doesn't work that way. a girl doesn't say: "He loves me, let me love him back". Infact, when you tell a girl that you love her at the wrong time - it will kill your chances with her (in my ebook, I went into details on when to reveal to a girl how you feel)



To be continued....

This guy n his suspense ehnn

Dude your theories and hypothesis are subjective.. In as much as we have girls that do not fall for clingy guys, we also have those that do.. The almighty formula for getting girls is still MONEY and will remain so for a long time so get use to it.. And since I have been following ur threads, they all boil down to 1 point," give less attention".. Come back to reality dude .

Fizboy:
Dude your theories and hypothesis are subjective.. In as much as we have girls that do not fall for clingy guys, we also have those that do.. The almighty formula for getting girls is still MONEY and will remain so for a long time so get use to it.. And since I have been following ur threads, they all boil down to 1 point," give less attention".. Come back to reality dude .

Ok. enjoy

Av been n d zone b4, no food no water no light.

Happy chinenye rescue me.

*spreads mat, sips orijin* following ur thread like nicki's backy...Ride on o.P

Minet16:
U just be telling us what not to do....



What should we do to make them want romance from us....

Mr minet so evn u want to make a woman want a romance frm u...chai!!!






















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