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Advice Needed Please!!!! by hfinest1(m): 3:11pm On Jul 05, 2015
My girl dat we were together before broke up with me like 2months ago or so for no just reason, tho I still had her number... She messaged me one day on watsapp and I asked her why she broke up with me cos I wanted to kno.... She gave me some tangible reasons like she being older than me, me not being able to marry her whenever she's ready and stuff like that, that she nids a guy she can were with and plan her life...... I saw reasons with her so we became friends again and sometimes she do flirt with me on watsapp and I reply her flirts and messages...... Yesterday, she messaged me that she's having issues with her current bf and I'm the cause... She sent me a screenshot where her guy accused her of cheating on him with me and shii like that... Now d is s is she asked me to message or call her guy and explain to him that she ain't cheating on him and that we are just close friends bla bla bla.... I told her I may but she shld give me sometime... Now I'm thinking if I shld call him or not... Wetin dis babe use my eye see enh! No b small thing Oo... Sh Rilly broke my heart with the break up tho I've forgoven her but I don't want it to look like I still care bout her or love her that's why I'm caught between calling her bfand not calling him...ways ur advice romancelanders... Pls... Wat do u think?
Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by importexpert(m): 3:21pm On Jul 05, 2015
If u truly feel she have a tangible reason for breaking up just save her relationship by calling d guy n explain to him after all u may need her someday to put life in ur relationship.

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Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by Abduletudaye(m): 3:21pm On Jul 05, 2015
See bro, you are not using jazz for her.

Anything wey happen, na she her boyfriend go hold...never you call her boyfriend for anything! angry..Whats your connection? undecided..
Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by goodmorning40: 3:48pm On Jul 05, 2015
If she valued that relationship she wouldn't flirt with u on the media and keep the messages for the boyfriend to see. She's very unserious

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Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 05, 2015
hfinest1:
My girl dat we were together before broke up with me like 2months ago or so for no just reason, tho I still had her number... She messaged me one day on watsapp and I asked her why she broke up with me cos I wanted to kno.... She gave me some tangible reasons like she being older than me, me not being able to marry her whenever she's ready and stuff like that, that she nids a guy she can were with and plan her life...... I saw reasons with her so we became friends again and sometimes she do flirt with me on watsapp and I reply her flirts and messages...... Yesterday, she messaged me that she's having issues with her current bf and I'm the cause... She sent me a screenshot where her guy accused her of cheating on him with me and shii like that... Now d is s is she asked me to message or call her guy and explain to him that she ain't cheating on him and that we are just close friends bla bla bla.... I told her I may but she shld give me sometime... Now I'm thinking if I shld call him or not... Wetin dis babe use my eye see enh! No b small thing Oo... Sh Rilly broke my heart with the break up tho I've forgoven her but I don't want it to look like I still care bout her or love her that's why I'm caught between calling her bfand not calling him...ways ur advice romancelanders... Pls... Wat do u think?
If for any reason you call her boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally, mistakenly or unmistakenly, you are a big fool!

Da fuq do you even have her contacts for, after all you claimed she did to you? Are you this worthless that no other girl wants you, and you have to emotionally suffer for a girl that point blankly told you that you are no longer needed in her life? What were you thinking when you wholly accepted to be friendzoned by a girl you once dated?

What is next after you call her boyfriend? He demands to meet with you? He sends you on errands? He asks you to wipe his butt, because he's so fvcking insecure, and you have to assure and assuage him, over his own insecurity?

Wake up, and smell the damn coffee and regain what dignity it is you have first of all as a Man, and as a human. No one deserves to be treated this way. You shouldn't accept this kind of vague comical nonsensical attitude from anyone, ex or not. Value your self as a man. Were you born to be a slave of anyone?

Get over that lady and stop this arrant fuckery!

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Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 05, 2015
if I were u, I wouldn't call d guy. to me, it's ridiculous
Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by hfinest1(m): 5:02pm On Jul 05, 2015
Blackett:
If for any reason you call her boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally, mistakenly or unmistakenly, you are a big fool!

Da fuq do you even have her contacts for, after all you claimed she did to you? Are you this worthless that no other girl wants you, and you have to emotionally suffer for a girl that point blankly told you that you are no longer needed in her life? What were you thinking when you wholly accepted to be friendzoned by a girl you once dated?

What is next after you call her boyfriend? He demands to meet with you? He sends you on errands? He asks you to wipe his butt, because he's so fvcking insecure, and you have to assure and assuage him, over his own insecurity?

Wake up, and smell the damn coffee and regain what dignity it is you have first of all as a Man, and as a human. No one deserves to be treated this way. You shouldn't accept this kind of vague comical nonsensical attitude from anyone, ex or not. Value your self as a man. Were you born to be a slave of anyone?

Get over that lady and stop this arrant fuckery!
Mann.... that's one hell of an advice....


thanks man....
Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jul 05, 2015
hfinest1:
Mann.... that's one hell of an advice....


thanks man....
You're welcome.
Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by Olami90: 7:33pm On Jul 05, 2015
Any advice u get here or outta here dat is contrary to wot BLACKETT said is a nonsense one dat is gona com frm a dickhead.

OP, dnt b a worst fool ever liveth. U av got no business wit dah gal.
She remote controlled u till she fried nd roasted ur ass nd still doing it, remote controlling u, are u with a head at all or na cranium u carry?
Take charge, get up nd alwys b @ d driver's seat. B a man! Dnt let anyone push u abt, nt a fish(lady) @ dat except u av transgendered to a woman.

#thumbs up Blackett, I dey alwys gbadun u.

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Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by Olami90: 7:44pm On Jul 05, 2015
U av got d best answer up there
therefore,



#T.H.R.E.A.D...........C.L.O.S.E.D
Re: Advice Needed Please!!!! by nwadiuko1(m): 10:11pm On Jul 05, 2015
Dat would be the most debasing thing you l ever do.....I mean calling the guy

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