A colleague at work showed me conversation he had with his wife who lives in another city. They are married for 4 years but he just got a new job and moved to another city. there was no problem between them until the day before yesterday when he called his wife on the phone as usual. They were in the middle of the call when she suddenly cut the call. So he went outside to eat with the person he was sharing a house with and left his phone inside the room charging. After eating he came to check his phone and saw missed calls and a message from his wife which read something like this:
"Pls dont be angry, I was attending to somebody(in her shop)".
Then a second message that read: "The hand writing is on the wall I have understood, I have loss sisters so losing marriage is nothing, I know you don't love me since you refused to pick my call, no problem."
He tried calling her severally but she refused to pick his calls and later switch off her phone.

So he replied her in an sms that read something like: "u know that no matter what u do I will not be angry, even if you kill my mother. U can do your malice to eternity and I will not stop talking to you. its your own life. I just want inform you that as we have discussed the children will be coming for holidays next week by God's grace. stop wasting your strength on me, I have passed that childish stage. pls if you don't want my calls don't switch off your phone, I will not call to beg you for anything."

He asked me if he had done the right thing by answering her in that manner. He is not on NLand so I figured I should ask for opinions before giving him an answer. can you help out?

Gerrara here...

orisirisi

Best reply eva..


Urm but d part whr u wrote she killin ur mother and u not doin anything is stupidity and cowardice raised to d powers of infinity...


Silence should hav been d optimum answer.. Because she acted like a fool

4 yrs... Na in una don dey tire for each other? Bro is ur friend not showing affection towards his wife? Wat could av gone wrong? They are still supposed to b in d stage wer dey cant breathe witout each ova... Find dat spark dat brot u 2 together and save ur marriage bro... Dnt let d devil let pride come btwn u 2... Peace...

Wonders shall never end...

He talks too much. What's that jargonic message for? A simple I left my phone at home and went eating would have suffice. They both should grow up.

The malicious biatch must be related 2 one romance land mod dat I slapped the hell out of yesterday! And like a boss I turned her month long ban into freedom in less than 24 hrs! Biatch stop being malicious oh! Ha ha ha!!! Pressure bursts pipes I guess?

Chaiii the husband mature no be small. See as he put am for her place

Very apt reply. I'm sure she will be feeling stewpeed wherever she is

He should have just sent a text explaining to the wife what actually happened. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain because it brings about insecurity and lack of trust, never should a husband or wife give room for these.